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A rare case of escaping the friend zone
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Posted 11/28/14
Friend zone means 'not taking initiative'.
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If you become friend zoned, just forget about that person and move on to another person.
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a rare case indeed, lol
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A friend is someone you rely on to always be there for you when you need them. A friend is a lot like a hoodie. A hoodie is always there for you, and always wants to support you. Hoodies are great, but who in their right mind would fuck their hoodie?!
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dustymonster wrote:

A friend is someone you rely on to always be there for you when you need them. A friend is a lot like a hoodie. A hoodie is always there for you, and always wants to support you. Hoodies are great, but who in their right mind would fuck their hoodie?!


*raises hand* Right mind; hates hoodies; fucks friends.
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What exactly is the friendzone in the first place? Is it just then not liking you romantically or do they literally have to be friends with you, too? What do people even think friendship is? I have too many questions TT_TT
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sasarahsept wrote:

What exactly is the friendzone in the first place? Is it just then not liking you romantically or do they literally have to be friends with you, too? What do people even think friendship is? I have too many questions TT_TT



the friend zone is when you like someone but they only see you as a friend.
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MakotoKamui wrote:

Sorry, I don't believe in any such thing as the "friend zone". It's generally used as a way to say "but I'm so nice! Why won't she go out with meeeee??!?"

If you started dating a friend, that's fantastic - I personally won't date anyone I'm not already friends with, specifically because a) it means we already share at least something in common, and b) I couldn't imagine a life partner I wasn't more than friends with.

In general, my advice is - just try to be friends. Maybe it'll lead to more (apparently in this case), maybe not. But don't be a friend hoping/expecting it'll lead to more, because that's friendship with a demand.. that is, not a real friendship. If she can't trust you to just be a friend, why in the world would you think she might trust you to be more?


So so much this.

My worst experience with someone that was always complaining about the 'friend zone' was someone who just wasn't getting it. He was also the person that stalked me online relentlessly after we had a huge blowout when he finally told me his feelings and I was already in a relationship, and he actually had the gall to want me to break up with the guy I was dating for him.

But the story has a good ending at least, for him and me. We're friends again, it's been a few years since then. And he completely turned himself around and realized that there's no such thing as a 'friend zone' and that he was trying to put obligations on what he did for his friends that were female just because he wanted to date/sex them. As soon as he started understanding how to be an actual decent person, he found someone that he's now engaged to. And we're friends again and he's a much better person these days than he was back then.

Boom. That's how it's done.

Fuck this 'friend zone' shit.
Posted 11/28/14
So she goes from a friend to a concubine. That's really significant.
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I wish I could know what the friend zone feels like. I don't even know what girls are.
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Congratulations



You have accomplished what few men have ever done.
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lorreen wrote:

*raises hand* Right mind; hates hoodies; fucks friends.


Ooh.

Posted 11/28/14
Congrats man, I've done it once then I stopped caring about it. For me if a relationship happens then it happens. If it doesn't then I'll just move on. If you honestly believe that it'll work out then by all means don't give up no matter what.
I was in the friendzone but I escaped and then I realized that it was too much work to escape and then to be in a relationship I hated being in, it was just not worth it anymore.

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