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So I'm a bigger guy looking for a girl friend I'm just wondering if its possible to get a girl friend in my state? I realize its going to be harder for me since i am a bigger guy but I'm desperately in need of someone to care about and care about me i am very passionate and I'm just looking for some one with a love for anime as i have.
Do you think its possible to find some one like that?
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To be fair, there has been a cultural uprising as of recent that has caused some kind of...Paradigm shift. Cute chubby girls and larger guys with good minds have been the target of peoples "ideal" relationship, so your size doesn't matter in the slightest.

Don't pull any of that macho man crap or try to act suave and cool, you're on Crunchy roll. More than likely you are a nerd like us, and that's your strength. Use that. Be yourself and be confident in who you are as a person, and women will find that a lot more attractive than a fake persona that most guys try to pull.
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Girlfriend*

Just sayian


Not enough info, can't draw an answer.

Also is this a personal thread?
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Instead of talking about looking, maybe you should do some actual looking.

I mean, what if someone just answers the thread with "no it's not possible". What, you'd quit? Of course not.
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Well you know, it depends on the girl's interest. I, personally, prefer pudgy than lanky. But hey, (1) I'm still young for that and (2) love is full of unexpectations.
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If only i could a girl with the same kind of interests as me.I guess if you get some kind of self confidence you probably could get a girl friend no matter what you look like, but honestly, it's a little hard for most people to get up the courage to simply ask. I shouldn't give anyone advice, cause I haven't had a relationship. But if you find someone, don't wait until it's too late. I made that mistake and I will most likely regret it for a long time. Oh well. I hope you find someone. Luck may be on your side
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I've been chubby my whole life, never had a problem with women. Just be respectful and be yourself, it really is that simple.
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Well your not going to find it here dude.
But it does help to 'vent' out like this on the forums. As others have said, you got to be more positive and proactive. There is a lot of girls out there, some don't care what a dude looks like, other do, some like only a type of race/hair/height/etc.... you just have to look around till you find one that likes you. Trust me there are a lot out there that do. Your just not going to find it on the internet...unless you sign up for a dating site...

One thing that really helps is going to anime conventions. That drastically increases you chance to find a girl with similar likes. Just don't go and expect you'll find a gf right off the bat. Also don't be that "desperate guy". Girls and dudes can smell that a mile away and will steer clear. Just be Respectful, kind, and a be a gentlemen.
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Posted 11/30/14

Link20081990 wrote:

So I'm a bigger guy looking for a girl friend I'm just wondering if its possible to get a girl friend in my state? I realize its going to be harder for me since i am a bigger guy but I'm desperately in need of someone to care about and care about me i am very passionate and I'm just looking for some one with a love for anime as i have.
Do you think its possible to find some one like that?


Hi,

Sorry for the close, but as others have said, this kind of personal thread doesn't really belong here. I know there are some social groups on CR that are, so you might try joining some of those and see if anyone has some suggestions for you!

That said - you may be amazed where you find love. Some folks may have hangups about your size, or hair color, or just about any other detail - but more people are interested in what's going on inside. And a shared love of something like anime is a fantastic place to get started! So do look up those groups, see if you can meet some new friends, and possibly more.

-Makoto
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