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Need some life advices
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Posted 12/7/14
I hate how people feel that a tweet or a post on Facebook is an acceptable way of breaking up/going out/etc. Unless there's a reason why someone can't see you (ie. Living in a foreign country), people who can't tell you things like this to your face are scum. These are personal matters and they deserve more than an update to your FB relationship status.

Anyways, from what you're saying, sounds like this woman is a real winner (insert sarcasm). Why can't she bother to tell you, in person, that she doesn't like you in that way? And why are you both so immature as to not be able to continue to be friends? So you were friends at first and now that you confessed, you're not really friends? That's sometimes a risk to trying to take your relationship to the next level, although it sounds to me like you were never really friends if neither of you can get past the confession and return to being friends.

I agree that therapy might be a good thing for you. Once you get that sorted out, go on dates and find someone new. I disagree that you shouldn't look for love as relationships take effort. Your princess is not just going to land in your bed while you're asleep; you need to go out and find her. And I also disagree that no one, at the age of 23, is looking for a long term commitment. I did at 23, and there are plenty of others who do too. We're not all out there for one night stands, capice?
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pacocap wrote:

Hi boys and girls of the CR community ^^) / just as the title says... I need some life (maybe romantic) advices or point of view of some of you so well... Long story short~

I'm a 23 year old guy who confessed his love (a morning, moreless a year and a half a go) to very special person, at first she seemed happy (by its facial expressions it really seemed like a yes) but that same day much much later , she seemed with doubts and friendzoned me via fb. Days passed and up till now, even if I was friendzoned I'm now feel like a complete stranger for her with a broken relationship. And well, every now and then we now talk very few times, her strange reaction to my confession (in that moment) made me not to give up and still try hard... But well, now at days that seems impossible, it seems she moved on and well, I'm stuck...
I don't know how to move on, sometimes I think I need to meet some others girls and move on (but deep inside myself I'm afraid, I feel like I'm lying to myself, like seeking for a replacement of her)... Gotta admit, as you can see, as the 0 experience in love guy who is quite introverted and sometimes afraid of compromises ( I don't want to give up, she was worth it) but the way I'm dealing with this situation is lame like... Trying to forget her, acting normal yet feeling hollow (and strangely somehow, as an otaku I am, I always try to fill myself with anime) yea, maybe at my age I'm still inmature to be depressed up till now, so~ what should I do? Should I try to continue forgetting her? Anyways, that's my prob... Every kind of comment/experience is welcome...


Hi! I'm really not at all good offering this kind of advice, but I'm glad to see you did get some really good responses.

However, since currently indvidual personal help/advice threads aren't allowed in the discussion forums, I'm closing the thread now. If you're still looking for more advice, please feel free to post in The General Help/Advice Thread ("stickied" near the top of the General Discussion forum).
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