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Dating and Anime
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31 / M / Minnesota, USA
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If I was single I would prefer to date someone that shares at least some of my interests. If we are complete opposites it wouldn't work out, unless they were just a tsundere and only putting up a front.
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31 / M / Wembley, UK
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I say I haven't dated anyone before, but I would like someone who shared some of my interests though I'm one of those shy people that finds the barrier easier to break if they do talk about something that I'm interested in.
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26 / M / Socal
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GayAsianBoy wrote:

as long as they can differentiate the difference between anime realm and reality realm...

don't want nobody coming up to me saying I have to wear cat ears while we're having adult fun... am not into that.



I would love that

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33 / M / Muldrow, OK
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Dropplet wrote:

Well my boyfriend isn't into anime or gaming like I am. He actually like sports and being outdoors. We really are different from each other. I mean he was a popular jock in high school and I was a nerdy band/ theater geek who loved anime. Two completely different people but some how we fit and are really good for each other. I mean I've dated guys who like anime but it never works out because their idea of romance is from Shonen anime most of the time and wasn't always appropriate or made me feel uncomfortable. Like I couldn't have a normal relationship because they tried to make it like an anime. It doesn't bother me though that my boyfriend doesn't like anime, I have tons of friends that do so really it's no problem.


I think differences are good to spice up the relationship..
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If the person I was dating actively HATED anime, then yes it would probably become a problem. But if they were simply ambivalent about it, as all my previous partners have been, then it really isn't an issue.
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I look far ahead a few years, and if I can't stand what he's watching on tv it would probably make me loose time with him, because I won't feel inclined to go pounce him on the couch/spend time with.
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23 / M / AZ
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My friend is engaged to a girl who doesn't let him watch anime. She gets jealous of the female characters...
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HuastecoOtaku wrote:

My friend is engaged to a girl who doesn't let him watch anime. She gets jealous of the female characters...


She knows they aren't real, right?
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Liking anime would be a plus, but it's not a necessary requirement.
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19 / M / Future Gadget Lab...
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Posted 12/16/14

HuastecoOtaku wrote:

My friend is engaged to a girl who doesn't let him watch anime. She gets jealous of the female characters...


I am honestly and sincerely sorry for your friend. More sorry to them than anybody else I have ever met in my entire life...but I will still wish them happiness.

Maybe they should have her look at this. Perhaps the power of Geass will save him.



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As I'm sure others have mentioned, it's not a requirement per se, but I would definitely like it if the girl also liked anime.
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24 / M / Colorado
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Requirement? Of course not. It's just a hobby. Depending on the individual, it's occasionally an all-encompassing and obsessive hobby, but still just a hobby.

Shared interests make for easy hooks and foci of communication. If you have a passion for, say, watching baseball, then finding a romantic partner who also enjoys baseball would be an added bonus. If he/she simply didn't care about baseball, then that's not really a problem; you don't have to both like all of the exact same things in order to get along.

The problem is when your romantic partner hates baseball. Then the thing that's supposed to be a fun hobby for you to enjoy has become a bump in your relationship and a focus of negative feelings. Worse, because of these less-than-ideal associations you're building up, you may start to dislike baseball yourself. Not because it's baseball, but because of all the hassle and inconvenience that comes from liking baseball. It's a lose-lose.

If you can find a romantic partner who loves anime, great! More power to you, and another medium through which you two can strengthen your relationship. If he/she doesn't personally like anime, but also doesn't care, then that's cool. That can be your hobby just as he/she might love mountain biking or basketball.
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I think I would prefer to have a boyfriend that likes anime because of common interest and he wouldn't be freaked out when I walk around the house in my cosplays.
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23 / M / AZ
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She is insane and very controlling.
My friend is an idiot for letting himself be controlled by that woman
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27 / F / tennessee
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Posted 12/17/14
i just started dating this guy and hes not into anime. he said hes willing to give it a shot but i have to be careful of which show to introduce him to. i dont want something super ecchi and have him think im some weird pervert or something super annoying or boring :/


angel beats
no game no life
attack on titan
blood-c
soul eater
sword art online
akame ga kill
danganronpa

i had made this list. >_< i know no game no life is ecchi but its not on the level of high school of the dead. it might not be the very first one i show him. maybe 3rd or 4th. what do you think the order should be?
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