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Post Reply Are you the type that chooses to be isolated or are not given a choice?
Posted 12/20/14 , edited 12/21/14
I happen to be very good with people, but I prefer solitude because it can get pretty tiresome/bothersome to be surrounded by them all the time. I'm also pretty selective about who I talk to / hang out with since I have a tendency to get tired of people easily. I don't really get lonely, but I do get bored and that's pretty much the only reason why I choose to interact with people. Otherwise, I'd probably be living a hermit life somewhere away from everybody.
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Posted 12/20/14 , edited 12/21/14
I don't mind being around people but I prefer to be alone.
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Posted 12/20/14 , edited 12/21/14
I have no choice since I live in the middle of nowhere, without a license of my own. Depending on people to drive me places sucks.
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Posted 12/20/14 , edited 12/21/14

GayAsianBoy wrote:

I do not choose isolation; isolation chose me...

am lonely.


i know that feel

i've tried to be social because i like to be social and i like people but... social and people don't like me
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Posted 12/20/14 , edited 12/21/14
Define isolated, I don't like interacting with more than a few people, and I like it the best when it is over the web.
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Posted 12/20/14 , edited 12/21/14
I prefer to interact with a small select group over a crowd of acquaintances. I'd consider myself mostly an introvert. I need some down time to recharge after around 4 hours of socialisation. I can do that with going for some fresh air or a walk. People must call before they visit or I won't answer the door. In return I'll respectfully call others and ask or let them know I'm coming over.
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Posted 2/3/15
No, that's boring. I usually want to be with someone butt I also like being alone at times
Posted 2/4/15
It's my default state. Even if and when I go out of my way to be social and interact with others, eventually I always revert to it. Last night, my friend asked me to hangout with her and her cousin. Originally I agreed, but then ended up cancelling last minute just because. So yeah, I'm a terrible person, I know. I sometimes wonder why people like me and how the hell I end up with friends who are cool with me being so difficult to deal with.
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Posted 2/4/15
My worst nightmare is being alone. This is realized because I seem to be different from everybody else on this earth, no-one can quite ever understand me and being understood is what I want most before I die. A pretty girl to cuddle would at least make me feel better
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Posted 2/4/15
Most of the time, I can be very social given any circumstance. However, after a long day, I tend to go into a small state of hibernation.

Being an introvert can be tough at times.
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22 / F / None ya business.
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Posted 2/4/15
I choose to be alone when I want to. I also often push away people who are trying to get to know me. So the persistent people are usually the ones who end up being my friends. Because they just didn't give up.

I have a decent sized group of friends who I enjoy being with on a regular basis. If I'm away from them for too long I do feel the urge to see them again. However it's not uncommon for me to decline their company just because I want to relax and game or spend one on one time with a certain person.
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Posted 2/4/15 , edited 2/4/15
Not by choice. On the flip-side, i hate big groups. 5-6 people to hang out with at a time is really pushing it. Anymore and I usually dont go or leave early. (social fears maybe? dunno) Nothing in common with others. Everyone loves football, i dont see the point of watching sports on tv at all. It bores me, i'd rather be playing it then watching it. Not many watch anime, and even fewer ever bring it up in public to see if others do or not simply because society tends to alienate those who do watch/read anime/manga. Its horse shit.
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24 / M / Under your skin.
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Posted 2/4/15
I like being alone if the only other option involves being around hordes of people that I don't really know. There are a certain few people that I enjoy being with more than I enjoy being alone, however.
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Posted 2/4/15 , edited 2/4/15
not really given much of a choice i'm socially awkward but i am actually pretty social.
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31 / M / Minnesota, USA
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Posted 2/4/15
I like isolation. I enjoy socializing online when I chose and on some occasions in person. But I like my peace and quiet which people have a tendency to interrupt.
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