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As a senior college student who watches anime, studies hard, and uses any remaining time to go workout (to maintain a physical build), for me at least, there is hardly any time to be thinking about.... Dating, seeing others, or finding suitable mates.

As we all grow older, I cannot help but think more and more people, which could be our suitable mates, get taken. Choices start to falter... as the number of people whom we could have chosen are taken.

Of course, many here will also say, "but the one for you is still out there" or "there are still many people out there".

Regardless of these comments which may or may not be true. I would like to bring out a topic that has been troubling me for some time.


Lets just talk logic for a min. (I hope to get both female and male answers).


Let me define first:
By hot girls and guys, I mean attractiveness ... ......yes the question of hot and attractiveness is subjective but I do believe there are some who are just regarded widely as attractive, you know, fords magazine, GQ, etc, Hottest woman of the century mags, Most handsome rugged guy of the year, etc.

So based on my thought process...there are a set amount of really attractive guys and girls in the world and some who are less attractive..

Question:
As time passes, aren't hot guys or hot girls taken by process of elimination? Aren't they the first to get taken? and probably not up for grabs anymore?

I"m sitting here thinking...wow.. i'm almost about to get a job and i'm in my prime... Between high school and almost now at the end of college... thats a lot of time.. Are all of the really really attractive girls all taken and dating?

Not that i'm trying to sound like an ass, i'm not saying I have to or need to have someone attractive, but this idea above^ I'm hoping to understand the situation better and I want to hear all of your opinion guys!

Cheers!


The most carefree time of your life will be when you're going through school.

As a man, your "prime" is not until later in life when you've emotionally and financially matured. However you'll get out of life what you put into it, so start preparing now for that glamorous time later on.

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Looks fade with age, crap, most of the attractive people I graduated with 7 years ago are trolls now. So the older you get, yes, the harder it will be to find someone you think its "hot" - especially if looks are a primary concern of yours lol, but you should be safe until 27 or so id imagine. If anything you should think more about "can I be with a chick who has a kid" - cuz for me...hellll naw.
Posted 1/11/15
^ I can agree with that. You don't want a guy/girl with kids already. Fuck that shit.



Anyways, technically "hot" guys/girls are first to be taken only due to their own insecurities of being alone and the fact that they're not afraid to get out and socialize to find a partner. And to be quite honest, since you're talking about what society calls "hot," do you really think a girl, who is considered hot, would give just any normal looking guy a chance? I think not. Obviously, most people dream to be with the "hottest" person ever but the reality is, that shit doesn't happen unless you have loads of money.
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I used to work for Red Robin. This was back in the days they would hire women because they were attractive and still get away with it. I got to date a few gals that were WAY,WAY, WAY out of my league. Most of them were still looking for "Mr, Right/now" others were just up for some "strange" "booty" , getting laid. If you work or go to school were there are lots of women and you make an effort you can find yourself getting some interesting experiences.

Interestingly, most of the women that were friends and/or lovers seemed to find themselves in relationships that they felt they were being taken advantage of and that's why they either got out or got dumped... The other thing I noticed was that most of the women I knew had been through many relationships, ie; 24 years old and had been married once or twice and had been through several "serious" relationships besides being married. I always thought that was kind of a lot of baggage that they had... I never held it against them... Sometimes it made things interesting...

They don't all get scooped up, it just seems to matter if you get them in-between relationships.
Who knows, you might be "the ONE."
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Its important to note that if a women is "hot" there is a high statistical probability that she is keenly aware of this. Disregard these females as they can LITTERALY HAVE ANY MAN THEY WANT and my advice is to just avoid those completely and befriend someone who actually looks at you in the face when you speak to them. Unless you have enough money to build your own Ohio class nuclear submarine...if this is the case stop reading here.

Realistically speaking it really just comes down to fate bro. Some people simply don't find their other half. Its just the way it goes. I have known several swell guys in my life, many of them father figures to me, think picturesque type men. Men who not only fit the bill for what women want (NEED) but who are happy with their lives regardless of a female presence. To this day I cant think of a single logical reason why they aren't or didn't get married. Some of these guys are no longer with us as of this posting and literally died alone. There wasn't anything wrong with them, they played for the home team as far as I know, and I cant think of anyone more deserving of happiness then they. Women just simply passed them by without a second thought. Women do that a lot regardless of looks. It just boils down to the hand you are dealt in life. You are still drawing your cards...maybe a ace will come up and maybe it wont. Don't buy into the Disney "Everyone Gets a Happily Ever After" BS ending because it just isn't the case IRL.
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Doesn't matter because there's no such thing as love. I recommend not wasting your time on relationships.
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Doesn't matter because there's no such thing as love. I recommend not wasting your time on relationships.


Translation: "I can't get a partner therefore it's evident that love is an unreal concept... also I use the term friend-zoned."
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idk i just know i'm not one of them
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i smell kissless virgins in here.

honestly though, everyone considers hot as different. personally i dont have a "hot" specific, i find girls in who they are and looks are just a thing, but i have standards.

my GF now i consider amazingly hot and shes a nerd, whats not to love? no shes not obese, no shes not dirty, shes a level headed girl whos chill as fuck.

now. NOW, honestly just because people work out and have muscles or are toned dont make them hot,. thats kind of the media shoving that down your throat. im not buff, huge, or w/e im skinny and i always got girls because im me, dont percieve based on physical (well of course you have to be physically attracted for things to work) dont try so hard.

in other words, fuck it.
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I don't think you need to worry about that at all.
My own experience is a good example (i think) why you should not need to worry.
I grew up in Germany and dated quite a few attractive girls over the years however i always had a thing for Asian girls but in all my 25 years in Germany i ever only met 1 and she was taken (and not too attractive anyways).
With 24 right after i left the Military to try to save a relationship i was in for a few years my girlfriend broke up with me (turned out she was cheating while i was away on duty).
At that point i had similar thoughts as you now have i thought i am 24 now dated quite a few attractive women and am solo now guess i missed the cut.
I decided to not care about woman and relationships anymore and used the extra time i now had to play my MMo a bit more.
I was playing it for a couple years already but never had much time due to my Job and not being home often.
Now that i had more time (and was solo) i interacted more with the guild and 1 person in particular grew rather close to me.
After a while we started talking outside of the game and we hit it of we exchanged pictures and decided to meet in rl.
Well what do you know the person turned out to be a very attractive Asian woman who seemed to be the perfect fit for me.
We meet i moved to NYC a short time after and we got married by the time i was 25.
Now 7 years later we are still happily married and very much in love.
So even tho i was sure i missed the cut and would not find a good fit anymore due to being solo again with 24 (and rather pissed with women in general) i ended up with the girl of my dreams.
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Posted 1/12/15

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saksiss wrote:

Doesn't matter because there's no such thing as love. I recommend not wasting your time on relationships.


Translation: "I can't get a partner therefore it's evident that love is an unreal concept... also I use the term friend-zoned."


Wrong. Translation: ""Love" is an over glorified term for relying on others like a weakling". You obviously seem to be pro-relationships and that's your own right. I'm against them and that's my right, so before you make a second-grade attack on my view of the world, go and find someone to teach you that there's not only one explanation for everything, fool.
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saksiss wrote:


deer wrote:


saksiss wrote:

Doesn't matter because there's no such thing as love. I recommend not wasting your time on relationships.


Translation: "I can't get a partner therefore it's evident that love is an unreal concept... also I use the term friend-zoned."


Wrong. Translation: ""Love" is an over glorified term for relying on others like a weakling". You obviously seem to be pro-relationships and that's your own right. I'm against them and that's my right, so before you make a second-grade attack on my view of the world, go and find someone to teach you that there's not only one explanation for everything, fool.


That is a rather interesting view you have and i agree to some degree.

Its true that you might rely on your partner but that also means that your partner will rely on you.
So you can not afford to be weak cause you are relied on.
You also need to make decisions like moving in with each other maybe getting kids that are all decisions a weak person will shy away from.
Now being solo that is easy no one relys on you it does not matter that you are weak.


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Posted 1/12/15

Doomedfox wrote:


saksiss wrote:


deer wrote:


saksiss wrote:

Doesn't matter because there's no such thing as love. I recommend not wasting your time on relationships.


Translation: "I can't get a partner therefore it's evident that love is an unreal concept... also I use the term friend-zoned."


Wrong. Translation: ""Love" is an over glorified term for relying on others like a weakling". You obviously seem to be pro-relationships and that's your own right. I'm against them and that's my right, so before you make a second-grade attack on my view of the world, go and find someone to teach you that there's not only one explanation for everything, fool.


That is a rather interesting view you have and i agree to some degree.

Its true that you might rely on your partner but that also means that your partner will rely on you.
So you can not afford to be weak cause you are relied on.
You also need to make decisions like moving in with each other maybe getting kids that are all decisions a weak person will shy away from.
Now being solo that is easy no one relys on you it does not matter that you are weak.




THANK YOU! One person on this thread with actual intelligence.
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Posted 1/12/15
can confirm. am super hot. am taken. 10/10 would be hot again.
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wrong thread. *waves hand* these are not the droids you are looking for
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