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Posted 1/7/15 , edited 1/7/15
I can understand Asian women being "snobby" in the U.S., It seems most men here have some secret fantasy involving Asian women. I've just said Hi to an Asian girl and I get the "I'm sorry I don't speak very good English." only to later hear her speaking it fluently with friends. BUT we have no one but ourselves to blame! Now the nice guys get shot down because guys here cant keep their cool around'em.

OR all Asian girls are in affiliation with Batman!!! CURSE YOU BATMAN!!!!
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Like OP, I've dated girls from many races and countries. That being said, I dated a Japanese girl in college, but she was extremely reserved and quite boring so I quickly moved on. Hooked up a few times in China, those relationships can be a real nightmare as the women are usually in control and can be quite verbally and sometimes physically abusive and, although not as common, very subservient, but I did find one that was quite suitable to my own personality and lifestyle and I've never had more fun.

Aside from cultural differences, people vary no matter where they are from but stereotypes aren't just made up. They exist because a great population of whatever culture the stereotype is from actually are like that and/or do those things. Just judge the individual, because like I said, not everyone acts the same way or does the same things.
Posted 1/7/15 , edited 1/7/15

GayAsianBoy wrote:

it truly is a struggle, I love Asian men, but they don't like me (think it's because I have dark skin tone).

sometimes wish love at first sight exists for ugly people like me.



Huh, weird. I've dated Asian men (and when I say Asian I mean actual Asians), skin color's never been a problem especially as I have a complexion darker than caramel - actual deep brown skin, not just a tan. Maybe it is the people or the place you're with and at?

And I seem to recall you posting several times that you prefer light skin, and (usually) don't like being picked up by someone with dark skin. Hurts when it is the reverse, eh?


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I'm lost, what's a fob?


It means "fresh off the boat". Considered extremely racist, however when used as a fun, harmless joke it is okay.
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Call me a heretic but I don't like Asian girls, or at least the ones in America here.
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i have a thing for asian men.
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I never had luck with Asian guys. Or guys in general. Being a female Asian isn't really as great as people make it out to be.
The world isn't my oyster lol.
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Never had an Asian GF, but in general I find Asians very attractive, if you put a English white girl next to an Asian and they were of comparable beauty, I would automatically find the Asian girl more attractive.

In general I usually find other nationalities more attractive than my own.

I plan on going to Taiwan, China and Japan to teach English, just need to find a job and i'm there I WILL have an Asian GF!
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SimplyMimiOta wrote:

I never had luck with Asian guys. Or guys in general. Being a female Asian isn't really as great as people make it out to be.
The world isn't my oyster lol.


This resonates with my soul..but I'm not a female Asian. The world is definitely not my oyster.
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That is a hard question to answer.
Since I am divorced three years and as you can see "No Spring Chicken" I have been looking to
meet up with an Asian Lady.


When I was stationed in Korea in my younger days I did fall in love with a university student.
Due to 2 items on her record she was not allowed to return to the US with me. I exhausted all the appeals to no avail.
It was hard to say goodbye.


ANY OLDER ASIAN GALS OUT THERE???
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I dated a Chinese American chick once. Bad experience. She'd always say one thing, and mean something else. Would I date Asian chicks again?

...Hell yea.
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1. Never herd of fob
2. You havent met enough Asian Americans not all are into anime and are rachet.
3. I am offended by ur ignorance.
Answer to ur question: I haven't dated any Asians.
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1. Never herd of fob
2. You havent met enough Asian Americans not all are into anime and are rachet.
3. I am offended by ur ignorance.
Answer to ur question: I haven't dated any Asians.


This comment. It hurts to look at. Your profile picture doesn't help either lol
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UltimateGOKUX wrote:


Arielgirl375 wrote:

1. Never herd of fob
2. You havent met enough Asian Americans not all are into anime and are rachet.
3. I am offended by ur ignorance.
Answer to ur question: I haven't dated any Asians.


This comment. It hurts to look at. Your profile picture doesn't help either lol


Pls do explain why my comment hurts to look at and why my profile pic doesn't help. Very curious to kno.
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SoldierSangria wrote:
Huh, weird. I've dated Asian men (and when I say Asian I mean actual Asians), skin color's never been a problem especially as I have a complexion darker than caramel - actual deep brown skin, not just a tan. Maybe it is the people or the place you're with and at?

And I seem to recall you posting several times that you prefer light skin, and (usually) don't like being picked up by someone with dark skin. Hurts when it is the reverse, eh?




What? Have never said such things.

Though I have said I have a preference for blonde hair and blue eyes; but that doesn't translate to I prefer fairer skin.

but have also added a disclaimer: "beggars can't be choosers" and it's not an important detail when i'm looking for potential partner... it's just that's my ideal traits. but have personally acknowledged idealism and reality are two different things.
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I've seen some cute Asian-Americans around school, but that's about it. Not looking for someone.
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