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"If he cheats with you he'll cheat on you" do you agree or disagree with this statement?
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Posted 1/18/15
I agree, if they cheat with you it just shows that whoever cheated with you (male or female) is too weak and/or impulsive to actually break up with their partner first, so they probably wouldn't have that hard of a time doing the same thing to you.
Posted 1/18/15
It would seem to indicate he/she is predisposed to, (or is at least indifferent to) cheating overall, so I wouldn't put it past him/her.
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Posted 1/18/15
Available data (Google will net you summaries of studies fast on this one) suggests that the vast majority of cheaters are repeat offenders. Of course, this does not mean that statement is accurate all the time, just way more often than not. I have never cheated on any relationship I have been in. I have been the other party a few times though, not always knowingly. For some people who cheat, they do it once and never again realizing it was a mistake. That isn't how it usually works though. I can say those that cheated on someone else weren't on my short list for "long-term relationship material".
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Posted 1/19/15
Here's a "useful" proverb: Everything that happens once can never happen again. But everything that happens twice will surely happen a third time.
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Posted 1/19/15

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i was referring to the first sentence, and id like to see how you view relationships with your mindset lol


i dont know if you misunderstand or if you think that there are people who have never, in any way shape or form cheated another person, i used the second sentence to specifically state i was not talking solely about romance or sex here.

which is why it becomes pointless it should be blindingly obvious that something we all do isnt something that leads to anything that would fit specific groups, i am not justifying anything here, just saying there is flawed logic.

all of the above is somewhat tongue in cheek as the whole underlying point is that this is complicated, so trying to cover it in a single word "cheating" becomes very hard and often laden with mistake or miscommunication.

how i look at relationships is again quite general, romance?, family?, friends?, buisness partner?, client? random person on the internet who wonders how i think about relationships?

the latter i clearly care about more than my last exam as proven by such a lengthy response

if all you want to know and care about is the first five then good luck, to me that is still too general, i dont know the person in this hypothetical relationship much less the relationship that forms between us, how can i form an opinion on something that itself is unformed?
havent had two relationships that worked the same, romance or not.



thx senpai
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Posted 1/19/15
np just answering your question as best i could.
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