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Your experiences with mean people?
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when i was learning how to drive in driving school. the man who's teaching me fking stupid. he ask me whether i know how to drive, then i answer no. then he teach me, the first step and my first try i do it wrong and he got mad at me. i was jut like wtf? i'm a new learner and he shouldn't mad at me. i hate him. luckily i have driving license now.
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when people are mean I usually don't let it get to me, when people are mean they just want you to feel as bad as they do, getting upset is just giving them what they want.
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I'm so confused right now!

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MissMagicNoodles wrote:

As I said before, you can rant as much as you like. I don't care. So what are some of your experiences with mean people?

EDIT: I took the original story down because apparently it was offending and confusing people. Sorry guys.

So basically this 15 year old kid was flirting with me and it turned into insults very quickly, so I got mad at him. The end.


I read the original story and I didn't get confused.
Some guys were being jerks and you called them dbags.
I would have done worse
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You get used to assholes after a while.
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MissMagicNoodles wrote:


masked185 wrote:


MissMagicNoodles wrote:

As I said before, you can rant as much as you like. I don't care. So what are some of your experiences with mean people?

The first one I can think of is when this guy and his friend on my bus were flirting with me. Only they were flirting with all of the girls around them. And the flirting turned into insults pretty quickly. "What's her name?" "It's Olivia." "Olivia... Sup Olivia!" "Hey Olivia, I love you!" Then they started to flirt with all of the other girls around me. Pretty soon after, his friend said "Hey, my friend likes you." I simply laughed and replied "If you knew me, you wouldn't want to date me." And they left me alone for a little while. A little while later his friend asks me why I don't talk on the bus. Starting to get annoyed, I tell him it's because people like him get on my nerves. Then he asks this 13 year old girl out. And guess what? He's fifteen. And in the 8th grade. And he has a girlfriend. Also this kid was out of my age range to be flirting with me afterall. A little while later, one of them says "What's wrong with that girl..." He then proceeds to ask me if I take medicine while muttering about how ugly I am. I tell him that's very rude and it was none of his business. Later on he drones on about he loves girls with brown hair. I say "Well, I don't like 15 year-old D-bags who have girlfriends." And by that time, it was time for me to get off the bus. As I leave he complains about how I didn't talk enough on the bus.


Well done, bravo! You are so very right to call them d-bags...wow...


I was having a very long day, okay? I get treated like that by guys on a daily basis, and I honestly don't know why. So I'd had enough. I'm sorry. And if I had responded maturely, they probably wouldn't have taken me seriously anyways. Most of the people at my school are very immature.


Guys will treat women like that because they think there will be no repercussion to the action or the woman lets them. A large part of the male psyche is domination, many can't help it. If you get treated like that make sure you firmly let them know that it's not ok, or if they don't care, make sure they get in trouble for it. They may rant about you being a narc or a tattle-tail, but they are doing that because of the fact that they fear getting in trouble again. Also some guys are so immature that they actually like you but don't know how to express it lol. There are many factors, as I can call on experience, personal insight, and psychology courses (I'm a field medic in the Canadian Armed forces. Psychology was part of my basic qualification.). So all-in-all, don't let people push you around, but don't go batshit crazy.
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Eucku wrote:
There are many factors, as I can call on experience, personal insight, and psychology courses (I'm a field medic in the Canadian Armed forces. Psychology was part of my basic qualification.). So all-in-all, don't let people push you around, but don't go batshit crazy.


Basic being the key word.


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Be creative with insults. It's an artform.
I was never good at them, but read shakespeare. Learn from the master.

Really though, it doesn't matter what you say, it matters how you say it.

and what's a fifteen year old doing in eighth grade? Isn't that a bit over the age range?
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I just try my best to ignore them and continue on with my day. No point in wasting time and effort trying to deal with them.
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Yea, I see mean people ALL the time. Do I do something about it? When the situation calls for it. But most of the time I just ignore them.

If they keep bothering you, just kick them in their nuts or give them a good slap in da face!

Posted 1/23/15
I've been picked on by boys and teased by other girls when I was little quite often actually. I wore glasses as a little girl, and my clothes were shabbier than the rich kids. Nowadays with more money on hand and social media those pains are leveled out. I'm not as stoic as I should be, even now. but I will get there.

Posted 1/23/15
Being an INFJ, I hate confrontations. But... if people make me mad, I usually tell them off.


I work in a hospital, right? And some parents are completely incompetent when it comes to handling toddlers. And they lose their calm and composure.

And it makes the job harder for me, because if the parents are acting out, the toddler will act out too. I tell off the parents, "You have to keep your composure and be firm with your child".


I'm not scared to tell people off, especially if they make the work even harder for me. When THEY'RE supposed to be helping me calm their toddlers.
Posted 1/23/15

Nobodyofimportance wrote:

Be creative with insults. It's an artform.
I was never good at them, but read shakespeare. Learn from the master.

Really though, it doesn't matter what you say, it matters how you say it.

and what's a fifteen year old doing in eighth grade? Isn't that a bit over the age range?


He failed a couple of grades.
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Posted 1/23/15

MissMagicNoodles wrote:


Nobodyofimportance wrote:

Be creative with insults. It's an artform.
I was never good at them, but read shakespeare. Learn from the master.

Really though, it doesn't matter what you say, it matters how you say it.

and what's a fifteen year old doing in eighth grade? Isn't that a bit over the age range?


He failed a couple of grades.


But he's one year away from high school, and that's where all the fun happens!
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mean people ish everywhere.. irl or online..
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