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Your experiences with mean people?
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Posted 1/23/15

MissMagicNoodles wrote:

As I said before, you can rant as much as you like. I don't care. So what are some of your experiences with mean people?

EDIT: I took the original story down because apparently it was offending and confusing people. Sorry guys.

So basically this 15 year old kid was flirting with me and it turned into insults very quickly, so I got mad at him. The end.

Much of my life has dealt with dealing with mean people. Though it's all in the past, I still deal with it with flashbacks, especially in recent months. Sometimes I wish I could've stood up for myself, but I didn't, and I was of course considered "pathetic" for it. The most I can do is hope horrible things happen to them, even if doing that too makes me pathetic.
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Most mean people i encounter, i just write them off as fucking morons/idiots in my mind and forget about them forever. However, i will never forgive some things. xD

In high school, there was this girl i liked in my junior year while she was a sophomore. (so i was like 16 and she was 15) I hung out with her at school a lot, and asked her out one day and she said yes. I kept trying to hang out with her outside of school, but she always said no. Never even giving me a chance even though we were 'boyfriend & girlfriend'. This went on for like a month until she eventually called it off without us ever hanging out outside of school. The next day at school she had a new boyfriend who she hung out with often previously. Pretty stupid. She and I 'stayed friends' even though i hated her guts for a few days after (forever after actually), just long enough for him to 'cheat' on her and break up with her. xD She was very upset and was crying and tried to confide in me and i laughed and was able to rub salt in her wounds and tell her thats pretty much what she did to me. I stopped talking to her after that, and just avoided her or ignored her if she ever tried talking to me at school again. Even with my revenge, i wont forgive her.




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Nobodyofimportance wrote:

Be creative with insults. It's an artform.
I was never good at them, but read shakespeare. Learn from the master.

Really though, it doesn't matter what you say, it matters how you say it.

and what's a fifteen year old doing in eighth grade? Isn't that a bit over the age range?


He failed a couple of grades.


Btw, anyone that 'fails a couple of grades' is a complete dipshit who you shouldnt even think twice about. Tell him off, ignore him, hes just a sack of shit thats going to be working at mcdonalds forever. For reals, ive been out of high school for a couple of years, and every now and then i hear about old jerk-offs from my class who either got arrested, or are working min wage still for dead-end jobs without attending college. Just keep focused and stay on top.
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Being an INFJ, I hate confrontations. But... if people make me mad, I usually tell them off.


I work in a hospital, right? And some parents are completely incompetent when it comes to handling toddlers. And they lose their calm and composure.

And it makes the job harder for me, because if the parents are acting out, the toddler will act out too. I tell off the parents, "You have to keep your composure and be firm with your child".


I'm not scared to tell people off, especially if they make the work even harder for me. When THEY'RE supposed to be helping me calm their toddlers.


INFJ as well, and even MORE conflict avoidant.

I learned the best thing to do is keep a level and cool head. you loose your cool and it's over. you keep your cool, you can utterly destroy them... or push their buttons so they destroy themselves.

Typically though, I just let the words pass through me and wait for them to finish. then I say "i'm sorry" or something similar to make them go away, (or look like complete asses if it's in a public setting), and go about my day.
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Bravo yourselt for keeping the original story quoted. OP's story should become a manga.



4Corvus wrote:



I'm so confused right now!


Some traumatic stuff right there for sure.




What you did has to be the most mean thing in this thread, that's a step away from anime super villain.

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I was trained to withstand the most ridiculous insults. Words are just Words
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Well that all sounds............. cheery.
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Mean people are extremely fun to deal with when you don't show a lot of emotions. From my perspective, someone being mean to me is like watching some one being mean to a wall or a man shaped fire hydrant. It is like a game seeing how long it takes them before they realize that I just don't even have a reaction to give.
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Funny thing is I actually was giving her a high-five, wasn't trying to be sarcastic. Those guys were idiots. Think she just took my message wrong heh.
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If I avoid everyone, then I won't have to deal with the mean ones!
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Usually whenever I encountered an asshole I would just stare at them blankly for a second or two then walk away.
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Posted 1/23/15 , edited 1/26/15

MissMagicNoodles wrote:

As I said before, you can rant as much as you like. I don't care. So what are some of your experiences with mean people?

EDIT: I took the original story down because apparently it was offending and confusing people. Sorry guys.

So basically this 15 year old kid was flirting with me and it turned into insults very quickly, so I got mad at him. The end.


Well, I don't know how long this post will be, but as long as it's read I will be happy I wrote it...
I worked pumping gas (in New Jersey where you're NOT ALOUD TO PUMP YOUR OWN GAS, it's against the law there), and all the time we'd have people from out of state go and pump their own gas. When I would say 'hey, I'll be there shortly, please don't touch the pumps' I would CONSTANTLY get death stares... Now, on this one particular, hot, muggy, MISERABLE day... Oh man, I can remember so clearly.
It goes like this...
Me / Customer
'Hi sir! How are you?'
'Uhh, hi? Can I help you?'
'Yes sir, how can I help you?'
'You can help by leaving me alone...?'
He then proceeds to take out his credit card, swipe it, and I politely say...
'I'm sorry sir, but it's against the law to pump your own gas in this state.'

Now, I said that in the most sincere and professional way possible... It gets a little graphics, viewer discretion is advised...

'You know what? I don't give a fuck! If you don't get outta my fucking face, I will proceed to bash your head in with the baseball bat I have in my back seat!'

Needless to say, I backed away, and forwarded the message (not the language though) to my boss, and he came out and tried to talk to him. The guy LITERALLY went into his back seat and got the bat!

At this point we had to call the police, wrote down his tag number, and we had already stopped his gas pump from working at all so he only got like 6 dollars worth of gas (gas was like 3.10/gallon at the time).

Worst day of my retail life... Never again will I work in that line of a job... .-.
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Usually, I am the mean person, but not like the in your face mean, like, the touch me and I'll get mad mean.

But if I had to say my expericance with another mean person then the first one I can think of right now is that there was this obnoxious as little kid that wouldn't shut up about how rich he is and that he owns a Porche and shit. He kept on saying how lucky I was to even know him and kept on teasing that I wasn't like him. So all I could do was stop smiling, go back into my house and grab my knife I use for arts and crafts... It may have been a small x-acto knife but it scared the shit out of him... Ever since, he kind of stopped pissing me off and I will never regret it.
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Posted 1/23/15 , edited 1/23/15
Here's how it usually goes for me

Rude/Mean person: Uses 'Mean, condescending comment."
*The attack misses!
Me: counters with 'don't acknowledge its presence."
*Its Super Effective!
*Rude/Mean person's soul withers away as he/she realizes they can do nothing to even be noticed!


PS: I suppose I am the true evil when it comes to these scenarios as I find it really amusing to watch the victim squirm with helplessness >:D
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Posted 1/23/15
It doesn't really bother me unless they're like... exceptionally rude. Tbh I'm usually the mean individual
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One time, me and my brother were at a car show looking at cars and we saw this really cool looking maroon mustang so we decided to check itout. We got in the car and checked out all of the features for a minute and then this dude comes, just some random freakishly tall guy that approaches us, opens one of the car doors and says, "Get outta the car! You're hoggin' up the darn seats!" And the thing is, he had this really loud voice and scary expression when he said it. Talk about rude -.-
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