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Post Reply How can I get people to like me(without having to do or say anything I wouldn't already do)?
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Posted 1/26/15
Run around naked?
They might not neccessarily like you, but you'll definately get noticed which is a start
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1. Just give people food. One of my co-workers occasionally offers me snacks and cookies all the time and I grew to like her quickly

2. Smile a lot. People tend to gravitate towards positive people. One of the main reasons why I like my close friend is that she's always so optimistic. Her optimism completely crushes my negativity when I'm around her.

3. Engage in small talk. Ask about how someone's weekend went or ask about people's kids. People always love talking about their children. If you show an interest in other people, they're more likely to show an interest in you.
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Posted 1/26/15

adrianc0 wrote:
3. Engage in small talk. Ask about how someone's weekend went or ask about people's kids. People always love talking about their children. If you show an interest in other people, they're more likely to show an interest in you.


That seems kind of obvious now.
There was this one girl...would not shut up about her kids.
One day I got fed up and said "I did't come here to talk about your pets!"
She hated me.
Posted 1/27/15
In order to have something you've never had before, you have to do something you've never done before. ;)

In my experience- ALWAYS be upbeat. What I've discovered about society is that you have an obligation once you step outside to be sociable. Nobody likes an angry person, nobody likes an antisocial person. People will be more prone to opening up to you, sharing stories and wanting to be around you in general. At work and outside work. So show some enthusiasm and just be nice. Compliment people when they deserve it.
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