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When you meet someone for the first time, what's the first thing you look at or notice about them? Leave your responses below ^_^

For me, it's definitely gotta be the eyes
Posted 1/29/15 , edited 3/7/15
Hmm...

I'd say their personality.
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Nothing, I look at them as a whole and sorta try and get a vibe from how they dress and their mannerisms to figure what kind of people they are.
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I can't really say. Different people have different things about them that stand out both good and bad. If there is one thing that is common to everyone though it would be the outer layer of their personality, but as I have learned time and time again, you can't really measure a person based on their facade.
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I'm gonna be that person that goes with eyes, although hair and nails are a pretty big thing with me too. I always found that odd about myself though. Long, well kept nails and great hair will get my attention faster than a killer body.
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It's the same for everyone in how they notice people they first meet.

Opposite Sex: The feature you like best is what you will tend to notice first.
Same Sex: The feature that you yourself are self-conscious about.

For example:

Females: Face (do they look stuck up, or welcoming, or are they faking a smile?)
Males: Height (how much taller are they than me? /cry I am a short 5 foot 5 inches.)
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For men what kind of shirt there wearing, can't stand people who wear shirts that has stains.
For girls how can they walk in high heels or other kind of shoes that have a ridiculous heel.
Posted 1/29/15
Eyes I guess. It's the first thing I look at in a girl.
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sunstormglacialmeteor wrote:

Nothing, I look at them as a whole and sorta try and get a vibe from how they dress and their mannerisms to figure what kind of people they are.


I completely agree with you
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GreatLordBalzak wrote:

I can't really say. Different people have different things about them that stand out both good and bad. If there is one thing that is common to everyone though it would be the outer layer of their personality, but as I have learned time and time again, you can't really measure a person based on their facade.


Agree. I usually like to see their reaction to things. Awkward moments, if they say hello back, or how they react with others. Then I make a move Depending on what I think is more comfortable for them. I usually put others comfort and happiness first to make sure they know they have my full attention!
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Ugh, if people look at my eyes, that may explain why people seem to avoid me. People say my eyes look incredibly black and creepy
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On first glance? Yeah, I'm also going to have to say the eyes. That's one thing that can absolutely catch my attention before pretty much anything else. Of course, I'm also a butt man, so I'd be lying if I said that wasn't something I also noticed right away.
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Hair and the face in general, gotta have a cute/pretty face and long hair
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GreatLordBalzak wrote:

I can't really say. Different people have different things about them that stand out both good and bad. If there is one thing that is common to everyone though it would be the outer layer of their personality, but as I have learned time and time again, you can't really measure a person based on their facade.


Agree. I usually like to see their reaction to things. Awkward moments, if they say hello back, or how they react with others. Then I make a move Depending on what I think is more comfortable for them. I usually put others comfort and happiness first to make sure they know they have my full attention!

That's the way to do it.

I wish I was more like that. It seems that I am always the only one reacting. I'm always so concerned with the other person's comfort that I never take a shot in the dark to learn more about them. The only times I can start a meaningful conversation with someone I just met is if I somehow already know a common goal or interest.

That's what I get for always being so over-analytical about things. I'm slowly training myself out of that habit though.
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Eyes..I think. I usually size them up in a second.
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