can you like your boyfriend and ex?
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Is it possible to like two people at the same time? Or do you think its a fabricated feeling because you aren't able to get over the person?
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Posted 2/6/15

Meldrid wrote:

Is it possible to like two people at the same time? Or do you think its a fabricated feeling because you aren't able to get over the person?


Absolutely Yes, to it being possible to like two people at the same time.
Posted 2/6/15
Yes, that's why I like to be very clear on whether or not I want a relationship with the individual.
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Now, do you think it's fair for the person you are in a relationship with?
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How is that even possible? I can't even hate anyone for long, my feelings turn neutral in no time lol
Posted 2/6/15

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Now, do you think it's fair for the person you are in a relationship with?


Yes, because I have self control.
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Meldrid wrote:

Now, do you think it's fair for the person you are in a relationship with?


Yes, if you're being honest about it.
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Posted 2/6/15

Meldrid wrote:

Now, do you think it's fair for the person you are in a relationship with?


You can't control your feelings, you can only control your actions. So yes, it's fair.
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I think the important thing here is to be sure not to lead your ex on. Alternatively, if you feel a preference for your ex, then break things off with boyfriend ASAP. Yes, you can like two people. But you still have to decide who you like most and make all parties clear on this.
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Yes, it is possible. I think it's very normal to retain feelings for someone you used to be with.

You do have to make your feelings clear though. I wouldn't lead your ex on if you want to be with your current. That can lead to a lot of problems.
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Not being over someone and then going out with someone else either to distract you or you didn't realize at first that you were over your ex, but remember...they're your ex for a reason. It's a poisonous game messing around with an ex. We've all been there, or most of us anyway.
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Not When your ex ripped out your heart then stomped it to a million pieces. Then stole all your money , no not possible
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