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Would you change your personality?
Posted 2/25/15
What's your ideal personality for yourself? Is there something about your personality you'd like to change? I'm a fairly quiet and reserved person, but I can be really impulsive and stubborn as well. For me, I try to be as neutral and calm as possible. What about you guys?
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Posted 2/25/15
Neutral and calm (or stoic is the word I chose) are my goals as well especially as a new health care worker.. I already viewed myself as empathetic and caring, but need to work on staying stoic during times of emergency. I can recall when I first saw someone bleeding out (lost a little less than a liter of blood) the color of my face flushed out and my face was just kinda stuck in a >:O expression. Things turned out okay for the patient though!
Posted 2/26/15 , edited 2/26/15
I just want to stop being lazy. I just want to prove to myself that I can beat this disease.

I also used to have really short temper, but I don't think I need to do anything about that. I think the older I get, the more I can manage my emotions... you know, just learn to ignore people's stupidity (whether online or in real life).





Like people's words and tone can hurt me really easily... but the good thing about working is that... i'm learning to stay calm... (like there were times when I just want to leave the workplace in the middle of the shift, because people were being so rude to me, and I felt cornered). But working has allowed me to reflect back and think... this would have been a really bad choice. And in the future to let people be aware that I'm upset... and to overcome these emotional struggles... lol.

Also allowed me to see... that i'm pretty persevering as a person and tougher than I thought I was. Most people would quit their job, in fact, I saw a girl quitting and crying. But for me, I push through... no matter how hard it is.


If you aren't doing anything wrong, you shouldn't feel ashamed to be there...


I don't see it as unfortunate, I see it as challenges. We aren't born with alligator skins... I think this workplace has helped me to strengthen as a person... that's the only good thing about it, to be honest... and the $$$$$$$$$$$$.
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Posted 2/26/15

no I wouldn't change it. I'm just me, and im fine with that. if people don't like it they don't have to talk to me.
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Posted 2/26/15
I'm much too set in My ways. As the OP said, He tries to be as calm and neutral as possible...I try and do the same thing. One thing about Myself is that I am quite goal oriented. If I was lacking in this, I highly doubt I would have made it as far in Medical School as I have. I have many Other different Personalities for different situations and appropriable variables. I can be serious, laughable, solemn, happy go lucky...All for when the proper time comes about for Me to do so and make these traits rise to My surface Personality.

So No, I doubt I'm changing anytime soon. And I can safely say, that's a darned good thing.
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Posted 2/26/15
I often look at myself as a whole, but I hardly dig up personal traits. I think as long as I have friends who accept me and have a neutral feeling with others that I'm not so familiar with, there's nothing I need to change. I can find random flaws in my personality, but why change myself when others and myself are already content with who I am?

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Posted 2/26/15
i am me. i know i have faults. i am me. my kids like who i am. my wife likes who i am, my parents and bro like who i am. my co-workers and union brothers like who i am.
i am me
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Posted 2/26/15
My ideal personality might be like Goku or Naruto to be honest, I envy how they always speak their mind and do their best with a smile on their face. But the truth about myself is I'm a pretty depressing person, I don't like to talk to people I don't know and I often don't talk to the people I do just because I don't want to have to deal with them. I have a hard time getting up in the morning and a harder time getting through the monotony of this job I've got.

But with that said, I would not change it. Maybe I've got a garbage attitude and a garbage personality but they're the result of my own struggles in my own life. It's an obstacle I'm trying to overcome and maybe I'll fail but I feel like if I just threw it away or just replaced it because it was easier or whatever it would be like throwing away all my struggles up until this point.
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Posted 2/26/15
I'd want to stop being lazy, be a little nicer, and don't act like a scumbag when I'm around friends (I don't know why, but I tend to be much nicer and down to earth when I'm alone).
Posted 2/26/15
I'd want to be super stoic and cocky like Pein.
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I'm stubborn, I hold grugdes, it's extremely difficult to anger me but when you do it's like a nuclear bomb going off, I'm extremely loyal to my friends, if you break my trust, I'll walk away from you, and I'm raunchy as hell when I get comfortable with you.

I wouldn't have it any other way. I am me and that's how I am. If I wanted to be something different, I would've been that something.
Posted 2/26/15
The only things I want to be are more confident, less moody, and less caring about other people'a opinions of me. ESPECIALLY if they don't know me.
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I only want a personality where I can handle being mistreated, and not fussing over about it. But at the same time, keeping my nice, chill nature.
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Posted 2/26/15
I'm terrible socially so I'd fix that
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Posted 2/26/15
Hmm, like a few others I'd like to be less lazy or rather I'll say I want to be more motivated to get up and do something. I also wish I was more social and could connect better with people.
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