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Would you change your personality?
Posted 3/3/15

Akito101 wrote:

I wanna be
less shy, more outgoing
less anger, more nice and patient
less quietness, talk more


Wow we have very similar personalities I also need to work on my anger and people skills.. I tend to get mad very easily and don't like to socialize very much I rather be a lone wolf but lately I've realize that my thinking ways are bad



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Posted 3/3/15 , edited 3/3/15
I wish I wouldn't be so shy all the dang time!! Oh and I want to be those people that can speak their mind.. With minor filter of course
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Posted 3/3/15
Have high self esteem but not in an arrogant way.
Be more confident.
More motivated and determined.
Better understanding of people's opinions.
Outgoing.

Posted 3/3/15 , edited 3/3/15
Heart wrenching stuff

https://web.stanford.edu/dept/.../cdweckpersonalitychanged.pdf‎

*balloon pops*

ed: tbf op said would you if you could.

tfb

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Posted 3/3/15

moonlightserenity wrote:

Heart wrenching stuff

https://web.stanford.edu/dept/.../cdweckpersonalitychanged.pdf‎

*balloon pops*

ed: tbf op said would you if you could.

tfb

zzz


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Posted 3/3/15
seeing as i'm ever-changing and always growing as a person, i will never ever be perfect or ideal. but i can be the best me and stay true to what i want
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Posted 3/3/15 , edited 3/3/15
I already did. I changed my personality as a teenager.


Akito101 wrote:

I wanna be
less shy, more outgoing
less anger, more nice and patient
less quietness, talk more


These are actually the things I changed about myself. I didn't have major anger problems on a regular basis. Actually, I was rather patient and persevering, but it would build up and I'd explode eventually. I adopted a much more laid back attitude to combat that. Rather than letting things build up, I let them go, it isn't worth getting worked up over. Later I chose to stop being so quite and reserved. I changed my personality to be much more outgoing. It was a fake it til you own it type change. I acted more outgoing, even though it didn't feel natural to me. For over a year, it felt like I was pretending to be something I wasn't. Eventually, my outgoing personality felt like it was part of me. I wasn't acting anymore.
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Posted 3/4/15
who i am is a direct result of the people i have met, the things i have experienced, and the lessons i have learned. and i am incredibly happy with who i am as an individual. to want to change who I am is pretty much me wanting to not acknowledge any of that, and that makes me quite sad to think about.
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Posted 3/5/15 , edited 3/5/15
I have thought of it before.

I have the ultimate opportunity to do so, as well. I'm going to be a freshman in high school this August.

I was thinking that what if I do that grand personality change when I enter high school like in anime? Take Futaba from Ao Haru Ride, for example. I wanted to try to be like that. Except a different change.

I can change from my idiotic, loud, and anything unpleasant ways and then transform into this quieter, ladylike person.

But then again.
- I'm confident
- I'm outgoing
- I'm brave
- I'm mature (Idk, but that's what most people tell me)
- I'm accepting/understanding
- I know when to speak and how to say it.

But then again again.
- I'm loud
- I'm selfish
- I could be arrogant
- I do stupid things sometimes

I have talked about this with my best friend who watches anime as well and knows what I'm talking about. We both decided it would be silly and that this is the real world; that's anime.

Yeah, yeah, being more mature and thinking better for myself is one thing but that's pretty much for anyone who enters high school or whatever big milestone in their life.

It's just that I don't want to miss the opportunity. I'm 100% sure that I won't be moving out anytime soon, excluding the emergencies, so then that means that this is my one and only chance. There's college, but that's another four years. Do I want to be who I am now in the coming 6 months? Or do I want to be someone new?

But I stick with myself. If I wasn't who I am now, I wouldn't have made the friends I've made and shit on the people I believe deserve to be shitted on, metaphorically speaking.


plus people love me anyway; i'm irresistable
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Posted 3/5/15
I'd like to be more assertive & active like I was in my teens. I'm actually passive & deathly lazy.
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Posted 3/5/15 , edited 3/5/15
yes in an instant if I could :p
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Posted 4/6/15

NO ! I certainly not . I love being myself and I don't change myself just to please everyone . I'm happy to be me .
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Posted 4/6/15
I'm kinda set in my personality by now
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Posted 4/7/15 , edited 4/7/15
I would get rid of the lazy procrastinator too-chill part.

I'm alright with almost everything else.
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