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Hairbelly wrote:

It doesn't matter how much money my partner makes, it's how they spend it that's important.


Could not agree more. If my partner is smart with her money then i have no problems with income.
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yes money makes my world go round
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Ha, Ha, I tell people that I quit my job to attend art classes (never had an art class before then), watch anime, and play video games. I let my wife hold the job. (Of course I spend a bunch of time going to doctor's appointments ) My wife likes for me to go to the classes since it gets me out of the house.
Posted 3/12/15
Meh. Has long they don't become unreasonable with asking money, I don't care. She or he ask money here would be my answer. Depend of the reason for asking for my money. Good reason, they can had much has they need with in reason. Bad reason, no. That being say I would no ask the person to pay me back. Why ? Because money can destroy relations.
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KarenAraragi wrote:

Meh. Has long they don't become unreasonable with asking money, I don't care. She or he ask money here would be my answer. Depend of the reason for asking for my money. Good reason, they can had much has they need with in reason. Bad reason, no. That being say I would no ask the person to pay me back. Why ? Because money can destroy relations.


Preach, preacher, preach!



I've had give and take relationships turn one-sided. Thats for sure. If you know what the deal is going into it or something unexpected comes up like a child then I'd do my best to support my partner. No questions asked. If the relationship is a drain on the resources then the talk will come about.
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Don't care how much my wife makes since I earn enough for the both of us

What does matter would be if she can cook. Thankfully she's a great cook.

(what really matter to me would be someone who creates a warm and loving atmosphere at home... Imagine coming back home to a bloc of ice)
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mmm no i want to marry an art major
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It is undeniable that money is one of the main issues that come up in relationships.

So, yes, I do care how much they make. They don't have to be extravagantly wealthy but their income should be able to keep them afloat in the event that we don't get to share.

I'm not an advocate of completely shared assets, anyway. It's better for both people if each person is paying attention to his/her own assets.
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i don't care about a specific dollar amount, as long it is enough to sustain themselves and still have a few left over to save and do other things with. this has more to do with financial literacy than how much salary you make, do you have the common sense to plan for bad times and save some money for later, rather than spending it all and living luxuriously especially if your not super wealthy.
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eh, dont really matter as far as a love goes.
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I would love to date a girl who makes significantly more money than I do.
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If we're living together and splitting the bills then yes because I want to live in a building. Not a car, with my parents or under a bridge. Does how much money they make change my view of them? That depends.
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Not really. Love is love so that's the only thing I'm concerned about.
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I don't care if she's richer than Oprah or dirt poor. As long as I like her and she likes me back, that's what matters. Although, if she was super poor and had a lot of debt with no chance of getting a job, that would be a warning sign...
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