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DeliriumOxide wrote:


FullMetalArsonist wrote:

yo that avatar be from Oreimo. show made me so depressed when they broke up.


It was rather depressing, and Kamineko was ironically her "final form" in that vignette.



she was haha, i would have been too embarrassed to go out with someone looking like that
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I'm pensive lately.. and feeling unsure I was at work talking to the guys, Sometimes I just want to be alone; actually I like to be alone most of the time.
I'm personally awkward and quiet at times but anyway, I was talking to them and they were chatting and having the banter with each other like they do (but I can't do this since I don't empathize with that kinda thing - hence awkward) and they were saying something; expecting me to pick up on a joke; but I didn't and then they said "you know what they say, Have the fun or get made fun of" this did bother me a bit.. At the time I just kept quiet and kept cool.

But why should I be just like them to "fit in" when I would rather to be myself. Why should I be someone I'm not. It might sound like I'm not getting on with them but this is not the case cause I actually get on really well with those guys. They are really nice people. But I am very different to them and it makes me sort of lost/confused..

Does anyone relate or have advice for me or something? I want to leave the job because I feel lost and really don't feel at home! but that's not realistic
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I would probably try to act along with those at work but keep it strictly to that. If it's so unbearable that you don't want to work there then I would think different. Then again, that's how I go about such things. I have much tolerance unless they actively annoy me or bully/tease you with comments or something similar. That usually don't happen. Guess I mostly made peace with who I am and that many people aren't like me, so I just play along. That doesn't mean I don't have fun with them, or have to fake a smile. There is a difference. If nothing works, then it might not be for you. Just don't do something irrational against them or quit without have a job to go too
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At work, I get along with my coworkers but I also keep to myself. I'm always quiet so people generally leave me alone. I like to eat lunch by myself in my cubical so I can listen to music at the same time. If someone says hello or makes small talk then I would do the same. Honestly I'm not really sure why being quiet works for me and people usually respect my need for personal space. I guess it just depends on who you meet.
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^ SO FUNNAY
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It's CONVERSE.
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Alright it's my day off, im playing some Blade and Soul in the Taiwanese server who wants to join me!
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Posted 4/18/15
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Posted 4/18/15
do you even watch anime?
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Well I have actually been through that situation myself, and ended up quitting my job which I soon regretted because I noticed that I was all alone, and without work.. Believe me that feeling sucks.. A few months ago I started to feel so lonely and useless because I was out of a job, and had no people to talk to, I mean yeah those guys at work were jerks sometimes, but you know what, they were company even if they made me feel uncomfortable sometimes. So I think we should change our way of thinking somehow like practice with family members, or friends if you have any, and I mean practice to play around and laugh try to feel awkward on purpose, so you'll get used to it, and it won't feel that bad at work anymore. Try to go out more with anyone, use any excuse to hang out, and goof around because I think staying at home all the time actually messed up my nervous system somehow. But if it's not the case in your situation I would still think at least three times before quitting because you may like it for a couple of weeks but after a while you begin to feel desolated and hopeless.
Posted 4/18/15
@TakashiOlsen would you try think about getting another job then? I would try to steer right away from feelings of hopelessness, whatever it takes. There are always options, you can even work towards something yourself and offer freelance services
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