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At this point? By responding with smug gifs, usually of Blair Waldorf.
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I only react to it if I really have to, like if I feel that I'm being physically threatened. I've seen enough raw reality, like dead people and bad accidents, to get worked up over something minor. It's not as though everyone will like me. I am rarely an instigator so it's sad to see that so many people are so confrontational over nothing. They have no restraint and don't understand what is important. Like repeated words, anger loses value and purpose when essentially spammed at everything that even slightly displeases you.

Also, do years of customer service and you'll quickly learn that a**holes are everywhere and there's nothing you can do to control their behavior. The only thing you can do is control yourself.
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I almost instinctively lash back, but I try to be rational. Or fight back with sarcasm/humor. Heck yeah.
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Hating on a hater is still hating...right?
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Depends how much I care about the issues involved really, someone says something nasty about me personally its no big deal can't get to worked up but if its something important ill usually try and engage with the person and change their mind.
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I'd relate it to the Nine Tails kind of. It's all built up inside and locked away. Acting out of hate isn't smart so I just ball it all up and lock it away.
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harutoharuta wrote:

I don't hate because I think it's a waste of time and energy.


^this.

Hate is impractical.
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In real life, I don't have problems with hate I am a real cruel person

Online, I've only every experience hate on CR forums... mostly from people in their early twenties.

I am not sure if it's the crowd or the age or both but that's my experience.

There isn't much I can do since it's online, but I know I must be very well off compared to them since I am not easily worked up.

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I acknowledge it ,use it to my advantage when I can, vote against it,and avoid those people that employ it.
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Don't deal with hate well at all. Everyday at work I deal with redneck assholes and everyday I wish they'd just hang themselves or STFU. I don't really hate on people myself but when they hate on me because of who I am, because I like things different than them then that makes me angry. because I know they are wrong.
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I try to understand where the hate comes from, unless this is someone that doesn't know me. In that situation I know they just pulled it out of their ass.
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As cheesy as it sounds, ignorance is bliss, it's obvious not everyone in the world is going to like you (hell people might completely despise you) but that's fine because for every person who might hate me, i have friends and family who loves me just as much.

It would be nice if everyone were to love and care about everyone else, but that's just not realistic. The world we live in is filled with hate and love, it's your choice which you focus on.
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Sometimes I intentionally do things that they don't like to make them hate me even more. But most of the time, I just ignore them.
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By dancing to this: https://youtu.be/nfWlot6h_JM
Posted 3/31/15
hate is not in my vocabulary, everyone loves me
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