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Posted 3/31/15
Just don't take it personally?
I'm usually extremely nice to people that hate me... always interested in seeing how they respond
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Smile then walks away. lol.
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With haters, I know that people may not like me, and I accept that, they can think what ever they want, I am not going to change just for them. I will just show them the door. If things get into an argument, sometimes an argument can be fueled by an emotional outburst, so I use logic and facts to counter that, which being flustered as they are they dislike that (I really am actually known for doing that to people). But like I said, that's only with some arguments.

If haters don't disturb me, I won't disturb them.
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On the net, when someone shows obvious disdain for me I just brush them off. In real life though, I get really insecure and blame myself.
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To the owner of the business I work for, I explained that my father worked his way from sweeping lots to management to area field management to marketing company president of the district of his company, and that I moved from place to place as a kid.

The owner of the business I work for replied by saying "you can't live that way, you can't live like a Gypsy." I don't like to use quotes unless I'm actually quoting a person.

I have handled it with silence and smoldering. Hate is a whole thing that I want to physically fight, but that doesn't do any good for the situation. Still, I know my boss hates my upbringing, and I hate his views on just about everything. His business practices aren't too unsound, but this is also a man who has said "I don't hate black people, but they are a thorn in my side" as part of a larger, unprovoked tirade.

Whitey incarnate.
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Posted 4/1/15
i can't help if i'm beautiful and generally awesome
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I laugh and go on with my business.
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Posted 4/1/15 , edited 4/1/15
I, myself, don't hate blindly, it has to be something very personal for me to hate.

You hurt my family/friends, you steal from or betray me/my friends/my family, you slander or sully the reputation of me/my friends/my family, you do something indirectly affecting me/my friends/my family without caring who it hurts...I'll hate you with every ounce of my being and won't hesitate to do it or show it.

If you hate me, first I'll try to understand why and see if there's any way to make things better. If not I'll accept it and move on knowing that even though we won't be friends or even acquaintances we can at least both go on to live our own lives happily in the manners we choose. If you turn your hate against me/my family/my friends...read the paragraph above.
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