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Do you prefer brains or body in the opposite sex
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Both is a nice option, but I still think brain is more important.

You do you OP. I'm not going to tell you the true meaning of love, or whether your outlook on love is correct or not. Just don't rule it out before you've thoroughly experienced it, after all, time is not always, if ever, the remedy for regret.



I don't need a girlfirend, I have alcohol.
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Body obviously gets the initial attention but I find it impossible to be attracted to a brainless person for long.

Beautiful women are common. Someone with a decent balance of traits and a decent personality is way harder to find. She doesn't even have to be 10/10 in beauty and brains. 6/10 is enough. Anything more is gravy. If it was either/or, I'd probably choose brains for the long run. Beauty is for things that don't last for more than a week.

Whenever I get in a relationship, I don't bring baggage with me. I treat it as the first and I expect the same from the other person. If it's irrelevant and doesn't need to be said, then it doesn't need to be asked. Endings cut deep but they are not like physical injury. They are closer to withdrawls and you'll get used to it. It only scars you if you allow it to.

That being said, I am not marriage-minded, hate kids, need lots of alone time, and am responsibility-averse. But I do not put any effort into looking for relationships or avoiding them. Whatever happens happens. All you can do is behave in the most healthy way for yourself and deal with whatever life throws at you. Occasionally, life throws people at you. You have to deal with it without getting too bent out of shape just in case something comes flying at you shortly afterward.
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Damn OP, you have a very pessimistic view on what love is.

For me, love is where I can be myself and she'll accept me for who I are. She pushes me to become an overall better person. Whenever I see her, I get butterflies every time. When she smiles, I think it's the most beautiful thing in the world. Her laugh is so good, I do my best to make her laugh. I don't mind giving her my time, I want to spend as much time with her whenever we meet up. You share many firsts, like first time talking at 4am in the morning, first time stargazing, first time feeling this way for someone.

It's so cheesy and cliche, but for me, there's no other way to describe it. And I'm lucky enough to find a girl like that.

Real, genuine, true love isn't easy man. If it was, everyone would be falling in love. This shit takes patience and some wisdom. Before I met my gf, I've met up with a bunch of other girls. I could spot thots and ratchets from a mile away, so I stay away from those. I had to find out right away if we had good chemistry or not. If we didn't, then it's on to the next one. When I met my gf, we clicked almost instantly. I knew it and she knew it. And the best part is, we talked for about 3-4 months, getting to know one another inside and out and we made the final decision to start dating. Das it das all das how it is das it mane.
Posted 4/3/15
I don't know if you are guy or girl but I going to go ahead and say somebody did something shity to you. I just going to say go and pick what will make you the happiest. Personally I preferred chemistry with the girl and personalty over anything else.
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there is no option i want All of it.



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I don't really care much about a person's perceived intelligence, it's all in the personality.

Body.
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DudeItsMark wrote:

Damn OP, you have a very pessimistic view on what love is.

For me, love is where I can be myself and she'll accept me for who I are. She pushes me to become an overall better person. Whenever I see her, I get butterflies every time. When she smiles, I think it's the most beautiful thing in the world. Her laugh is so good, I do my best to make her laugh. I don't mind giving her my time, I want to spend as much time with her whenever we meet up. You share many firsts, like first time talking at 4am in the morning, first time stargazing, first time feeling this way for someone.

It's so cheesy and cliche, but for me, there's no other way to describe it. And I'm lucky enough to find a girl like that.

Real, genuine, true love isn't easy man. If it was, everyone would be falling in love. This shit takes patience and some wisdom. Before I met my gf, I've met up with a bunch of other girls. I could spot thots and ratchets from a mile away, so I stay away from those. I had to find out right away if we had good chemistry or not. If we didn't, then it's on to the next one. When I met my gf, we clicked almost instantly. I knew it and she knew it. And the best part is, we talked for about 3-4 months, getting to know one another inside and out and we made the final decision to start dating. Das it das all das how it is das it mane.


My pain is all the governments fault.

If we would just leave these hard working pimps alone and legalized prostitution, I'd have no desire for a girlfriend.

It's hard out here for a pimp
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Both. Thanks for the good motivation.
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Almost certain you're just trying to troll, but if you're that desperate, there's at least one legal brothel in Nevada I forget the name of. Also, prostitution is legal in Canada (just not on the street) from what I recall - between that and the lower drinking age, there were guys in college who used to make regular trips across the border.

Do try not to catch anything.
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OP is in full troll mode right now. Either that or he's honestly complaining that working hard to maintain a lasting relationship isn't worth it because it's not easy. In which case, nothing we say can convince him. He'll need a few more years to mature before he can open his eyes and see reality.
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I'll be honest... I want to lose my viginity. But I never wanna love... never again. I'll never fall in love again, it's a disgusting feeling. It's sick, it's wrong, it makes you foolish and brings misery upon me. That girl stole my sanity for a long time. Love is stupid.

So I prefer body. My dream is to find a girl who's extremly stupid and slutty and dumb. One who's easy to manipulate cause she's stupid.
But she need to be able to drop dat booty down lower than her IQ.

The best part, is that I wouldn't love her, I would just buy her shit, and rings and stuff... it would be like having a private prostitute.
I wouldn't care if she cheated on me... She's not in my heart and I won't love her, so I won't care if she cheats on me, because she's just a person I have sex with and I don't really like her. And I could easilly not give a crap about leaving her if she gets annoying.
I just think love has too many responsibilites, so it's not worth it. I just care about having sex

That's the reason that personally, I think I consider looks as being more important in a relationship. If it's a nice smart girl, I might falll in love with her... and that would only bring me pain.


Relationship? What relationship? You more or less indicated that you didn't want a relationship yet at the end you turned around and stated a relationship preference... I'm going to assume that you're not making any sense because you haven't sobered up yet.
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Both,

I am skinny and like going on walks, hikes so I can't have a lazy obese guy. Plus I don't find over weight attractive. Just like some guys don't find skinny girls attractive.
I also can't be with a stupid guy, I have met a attractive guy that was VERY slow...Very annoying.
My patience level is VERY low so I don't want to have to waste all my time explaining something to someone.


I also Don't want a super smart guy that only uses big words and all he believes in is science, we would not work out.
Posted 4/3/15
Call me greedy but I need to appreciate both.
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Sometimes it's more about compassion and understanding than brains and beauty. It's what's always mattered to me.

Silver, it's not hard to understand where you're coming from. Three years is still a very fresh wound, it'll take longer to heal. Sometimes a whole lot longer. In time you may change your mind or you may not, each person deals in different ways and finds what's best for them. I'd guess you're most likely under forty. If I'm right be prepared. Once you turn forty you may find yourself looking at life in an entirely different way. It'll hit you from out of the blue.
Posted 4/3/15 , edited 4/30/15
You sound like a bratty teen who's throwing a tantrum because you've been turned down.
You say that falling in love is 'sick' and 'wrong', yet trying to manipulate a woman just for her body isn't?
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