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Do you prefer brains or body in the opposite sex
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Both the mind and body are all too fragile. I'd prefer reciprocated sincerity regardless of which gender it was.
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You can feel the butthurt radiating from OP.
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I'll be honest... I want to lose my viginity. But I never wanna love... never again. I'll never fall in love again, it's a disgusting feeling. It's sick, it's wrong, it makes you foolish and brings misery upon me. That girl stole my sanity for a long time. Love is stupid.

So I prefer body. My dream is to find a girl who's extremly stupid and slutty and dumb. One who's easy to manipulate cause she's stupid.
But she need to be able to drop dat booty down lower than her IQ.

The best part, is that I wouldn't love her, I would just buy her shit, and rings and stuff... it would be like having a private prostitute.
I wouldn't care if she cheated on me... She's not in my heart and I won't love her, so I won't care if she cheats on me, because she's just a person I have sex with and I don't really like her. And I could easilly not give a crap about leaving her if she gets annoying.
I just think love has too many responsibilites, so it's not worth it. I just care about having sex

That's the reason that personally, I think I consider looks as being more important in a relationship. If it's a nice smart girl, I might falll in love with her... and that would only bring me pain.


To the OP: You don't want/need a relationship, then. Just go for one night stands and booty calls. Or better yet, find someone who'd agree to a "friends with benefits" type of relationship with you. No need to waste your time and money on a dumb broad if you only want sex.

That's IF you're 100% serious. It looks to me like you're simply fresh out of getting your heart broken; therefore, you feel you need to say these things in order to reassure yourself or something. Ehhh.. We've all been through that. You'll get over it eventually. For the meantime, like I said, don't waste you're time if you're only after sex. Worst case scenario, you could always just pay someone to fuck you.

Now..

Regarding the topic: Both, but I don't mind if I could only have someone intellectually entertaining. My number one requirement is that I find the person "interesting." I don't really care how "hot" or good looking someone is. If I find the person to be boring and dumber than my phone, it's a no for me. I have no use for you if I don't feel like ever having a conversation with you. That's just how it is.
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silversongwriter wrote:

I'll be honest... I want to lose my viginity. But I never wanna love... never again. I'll never fall in love again, it's a disgusting feeling. It's sick, it's wrong, it makes you foolish and brings misery upon me. That girl stole my sanity for a long time. Love is stupid.

So I prefer body. My dream is to find a girl who's extremly stupid and slutty and dumb. One who's easy to manipulate cause she's stupid.
But she need to be able to drop dat booty down lower than her IQ.

The best part, is that I wouldn't love her, I would just buy her shit, and rings and stuff... it would be like having a private prostitute.
I wouldn't care if she cheated on me... She's not in my heart and I won't love her, so I won't care if she cheats on me, because she's just a person I have sex with and I don't really like her. And I could easilly not give a crap about leaving her if she gets annoying.
I just think love has too many responsibilites, so it's not worth it. I just care about having sex

That's the reason that personally, I think I consider looks as being more important in a relationship. If it's a nice smart girl, I might falll in love with her... and that would only bring me pain.


So, uh maybe you don't know this, but it's completely possible to have a low-commitment sex-focused relationships with girls who are smart without manipulating them or being as disrespectful as your post suggests you'd be. And pretty much if you're okay with your partner having other partners then if she does it's not really "cheating" is it?

Based on some of your other posts I suspect you're just trying to get a rise out of people, or any response at all, so I guess I've taken the bait too, but whatever.
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I prefer brains over looks, though looks do play some part.
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Why have a wife when if I die, she'll be miserable, and if she dies, I'll be miserable.

Because spending just a moment with someone you love is worth all of the heartbreak and pain.

But OP, I think you have more problems than just love and relationships. Maybe you should talk with someone professional? It could really help, better than writting on forums or just thinking about it alone.
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I definitely prefer brains.

A female with brains, I can have a proper conversation with her and I'd feel MUCH more comfortable telling her that I'm a huge anime fan and knowing she'd be more supportive of it than a girl with looks > intelligence. Also, considering that I haven't lost my virginity and I have no interest in doing so or even having a non sexual relationship, I feel that I could have a proper friendship that would be much more satisfying.

A female who prioritizes looks over anything else. suffice to say, I have no respect for them as a human being and frankly, I cannot think up any situation in which I would ever have a use for her. They're about as useless in every aspect as a child is.

So yeah. Frankly, if I could find a female who enjoys anime, video games, shares other similar interests and does not want a physical or emotional relationship, that would be like striking gold!
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My troll senses are tingling. Good one OP. There's enough material here for one hell of a tragic love song. I can't in any way believe you're being serious, so moving on to the topic at hand, a balance of both would be ideal. It'd be nice if they were attractive, but I really would prefer to have someone who had more redeeming qualities than their looks.
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I usually hook up cause every girl wants the D and there are no string attached unless they get feeling for you, then you RUN. I have dated over 4 girls and broke up with them all, they are not the one for me and I believe love doesn't exist. There is no drama and I love it
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silversongwriter wrote:

I'll be honest... I want to lose my viginity. But I never wanna love... never again. I'll never fall in love again, it's a disgusting feeling. It's sick, it's wrong, it makes you foolish and brings misery upon me. That girl stole my sanity for a long time. Love is stupid.

So I prefer body. My dream is to find a girl who's extremly stupid and slutty and dumb. One who's easy to manipulate cause she's stupid.
But she need to be able to drop dat booty down lower than her IQ.

The best part, is that I wouldn't love her, I would just buy her shit, and rings and stuff... it would be like having a private prostitute.
I wouldn't care if she cheated on me... She's not in my heart and I won't love her, so I won't care if she cheats on me, because she's just a person I have sex with and I don't really like her. And I could easilly not give a crap about leaving her if she gets annoying.
I just think love has too many responsibilites, so it's not worth it. I just care about having sex

That's the reason that personally, I think I consider looks as being more important in a relationship. If it's a nice smart girl, I might falll in love with her... and that would only bring me pain.


You're saying that because you have never have sex before.

In my experience, there's nothing more boring than having sex with a person you don't like. I lost my virginity to a person I didn't love and the sex was horrendous for me, I even though I was sterile or something.

But when you have sex with someone you love, it becomes a heavenly experience!

Don't be afraid of future relationships because of the fiasco you had in the past. The past is in the past and every person is different. Not all girls will be like that one who broke your heart.

As for the question, brains definitely and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

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I suppose the body is what brings about the initial attraction but with a bad personality she becomes just another irrelevant b****. I don't care much for having sex. I'd rather spend time doing other activities with a girl and having engaging conversations. I'm a science guy so a girl can't be a stupid religious zealot or an uneducated thot but I also don't want to constantly look at something repulsive. A 6 or a 7 out of 10 is good enough for me.

Posted 4/3/15
Why not both? I would like a girl that's as active as I am, but at the same time can hold an intelligent conversation. It's always fun being in a relationship were you can tease each other and give smart ass remarks! haha

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I don't give a shit..

I never wanna love... It's awkward. My first, second, or third, will all be from whatever woman I think is hot.

If I don't like her,I'll pretend to think she's cool or interesting, because I just wanna have sex, and if I have to play the "boyfriend" part so be it

As for trolling.. not really. A lot of people simply don't have what it takes. Real relationships built on heart are extremely difficult to maintain, where as sex is meaningless without love, so it can be done without the complications and turmoil of real relationships



So if all you want is sex, why not just go find some prostitute or something then? I mean, of course that's a bad thing to do, but you don't really need an emotional connection to them, do you?
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silversongwriter wrote:


I don't give a shit..

I never wanna love... It's awkward. My first, second, or third, will all be from whatever woman I think is hot.

If I don't like her,I'll pretend to think she's cool or interesting, because I just wanna have sex, and if I have to play the "boyfriend" part so be it

As for trolling.. not really. A lot of people simply don't have what it takes. Real relationships built on heart are extremely difficult to maintain, where as sex is meaningless without love, so it can be done without the complications and turmoil of real relationships



So if all you want is sex, why not just go find some prostitute or something then? I mean, of course that's a bad thing to do, but you don't really need an emotional connection to them, do you?


A prostitute would be better.. but so would any girl I could get it from. I don't really have any preference. And I could act interested in her if I wanted to.
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So tell me, what happened to make you think this way? And tell me exactly, no bullshit.
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