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Are there any pregnant teens in CR?
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Posted 2/4/08

niks6 wrote:

I'm not sure about other countries, but i know where i'm from
(Australia) lots of teenagers have having babies because the
government gives you money if you do, like a baby bonus.

I think that's wrong, but a teenager is still a child themselves..
so i don't think they should go out of their way to have.

But yeah anyways, agree or disagree it's a personal opinion.


I think it's really hard to be a mother when you are still teenager..!
Posted 2/4/08

scoobytoo2123 wrote:

Are there any pregnant teens in CR?
If you are pregnant, do you think it's a mistake?- Considering abortion?
How do you tell your parents that you're pregnant?
Are any of you going to keep your babies?
Tips on dealing with morning sickness please!!!
How do you know if you've felt your baby? Please share on how your pregnancy is going!
Does anyone think that it's morally wrong to have a baby as a teen? Even if you were raped?


im really sorry.
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how traumatic.
hopefully
that scumbag who raped
you is rotting in a jail cell
being someone's bitch.
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how far along are you?
&
just ignore all these rude comments..
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GIRL....LIKE I SAY TO U...I FEEL SO SORRY FOR WHAT HAPPEN TO YOU. EVEN THOUGH I DON'T KNOW U, I STILL WANT TO HELP YOU. I KNOW YOU ARE YOUNG AND MAYBE STRESS OR DEPRESS RIGHT NOW. BUT....JUST LET ME KNOW IF THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO TO HELP.
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Posted 2/5/08

Kennyb_III wrote:

no offense to anyone and maybe this doesn't make sense, but i dont think their is any excuse for a pregnant teen. if you're being raped, you could always just kick the dude in the nuts. and if you just so happen to have sex with someone, you should always make sure you use protection


i guess you dont get the weight factor
Posted 2/5/08

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kitanaikoneko wrote:

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i think when it comes to abortaion
the women should be put down along with her unborn baby if she wants to kill it
o no my parents will find out or o no my life is ruined well you shouldnt open your legs if you dont wanna be preggy
this just goes to prove how kids are just entertainment to women
cause they can abort them like there nothing when it comes in conflict with there own life
any women who has aboreted her child deserves to go to hell
for killing of there own unborn child
i mean really this is so disgusting women killing there own unborn child
and everyone in the world finding it ok
because she hasent made it to college yet

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in the case of this girl who was raped i would find aboration ok because
it was not of her own free will to have sex
and the baby may just serve as a reminder of when you got raped
not the best story for your child either
when they start woundering were there father is who they were etc etrc



I think that abortion is wrong too. I intend to keep my baby. Thanks



you seem like a very strong women
i hope you the best of luck with raiseing your child
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Posted 2/5/08

Kennyb_III wrote:

no offense to anyone and maybe this doesn't make sense, but i dont think their is any excuse for a pregnant teen. if you're being raped, you could always just kick the dude in the nuts. and if you just so happen to have sex with someone, you should always make sure you use protection


Sorry but that post is just ignorant. On top of everything that was already stated, did you ever stop to think that maybe they were being raped because it was NOT consented, and therefore they are probably doing everything in their power to ward off the attacker...

Everyone makes mistakes, and sometimes in life you can't choose what happens. I think that it is what it is, and what matters more is how you will be held accountable for the situation you are in. No matter what, a child is still a child, and I think it should be the parents responsibility to provide what is in the best interest for the baby.
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^I agree with memphit that everyone makes mistakes. Just because you made one mistake doesn't mean that you're to be condemned for life. There are other alternatives besides abortion because I believe that the baby is innocent. Nobody chooses when and where to be born, right? Like you could give up the baby for adoption, etc.

For rape victims, this is a very hotly debated issue. I mean, the rape itself is traumatic enough, not to mention having to bear that jerk's child. But painful as it may be, I still think abortion is wrong because it's no different from killing. Then again, that's just what I believe. I've not been in such a position before.
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Are there any pregnant teens in CR?
uh. i'm not.
If you are pregnant, do you think it's a mistake?
but even though this doesn't apply to me, i don't think that the baby's particularly a mistake because you should've known what was coming when you did it unprotected.
Considering abortion?
I'm one of those that depends on the situation. I am almost always pro-life, unless the mother is in danger (Then, I believe the mother has the right to choose.). Why am I pro-life? Because that's a PERSON you're killing. Okay, an undeveloped person, but nonetheless, it's someone's life you're ending.
How do you tell your parents that you're pregnant?
Well, it's definitely not something you can casually discuss during dinner, but I think it depends on the situation, too. You should have a "feel" of when the time has come. However, I do suggest that you do it soon because if it's too late, the matter might get worse.
Are any of you going to keep your babies?
Like I said, I'm pro-life.
Tips on dealing with morning sickness please!!!
Um... water? I have no idea about this issue. Sorry...
How do you know if you've felt your baby?
I suppose you feel pressure... but I wouldn't know since I have not experienced it myself.
Does anyone think that it's morally wrong to have a baby as a teen? Even if you were raped?
In today's society, yes. Actually, in my opinion, it's morally wrong PERIOD. Why would you want another life to take care of when you're still young yourself? Does the teenager have enough skills and financial support to independently take care of herself? Some teenagers just want to have the "joys" of being a parent, but you have to think pragmatically, too. I think teenage pregnancy is morally bad since it's usually for selfish, inconsiderate, and irresponsible actions that makes it happen.
As for being raped, well, I think that's a whole 'nother ballpark you're playing, since you had no control over it. I would say it's still morally wrong to the rapist, but not to the victim. The victim should use this as a chance to be strong in life.
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First of all, I want to tell you that you are very strong.
I'm sorry for what happened, but I want you to know that there are many people who will support you. You seem very mature.
Just remember that the baby is innocent, as somebody else said.
Best of luck to you!
Oh, and also remember, you can always give it up for adoption, which I think is also a very good choice.
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Posted 2/5/08

HysHunny wrote:


Firefly_Amelie wrote:

I don't think its bad, just can one handle it?


I agree. I dont believe teen pregnancy is bad. I mean, hey, it was your choice.. right? If dealing with sex, you should be responsible & know what you're getting into. If you decide to have a baby at this age, it's fine with me just as long as you know what's ahead of you on life.


The problem I think about this is that some girls say that they can handle it while living with their parents. They mistake their parents' support as their own. So, it's almost always the parents taking care of the child; unless the parents kick them out because they are so upset about it.
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scoobytoo2123 wrote:

Are there any pregnant teens in CR?

Not that i know of, but it's certainly not an impossibility. I've had conversations with many a young person about possibly getting their girlfriend pregnant, or what to do if they get pregnant. I've been a pregnancy counsellor for teen pregnancies through my parent's old church (then i moved)


If you are pregnant, do you think it's a mistake?- Considering abortion?

I've had an abortion, when i was 17. I knew nothing of the father, other then his name was Andy, and what town he was from.
I thought it was a huge mistake to become pregnant. I was scared, and worried. I didn't know what to do.


How do you tell your parents that you're pregnant?

I told my mother about my pregnancy, we decided that i should tell my father. That was the hardest thing for me to do, as i was a daddy's girl.
The next time i became pregnant, i wasn't a teen anymore, i was 23, and mentally ready to have a child.


Are any of you going to keep your babies?

I kept my second pregnancy. From when i was 23. She's a beautiful 4 year old little girl (turning 5 in May!)


Tips on dealing with morning sickness please!!!

What i had to do to handle my morning sickness, was to find a routine and stick to it.
I would wake up, go to the bathroom, put the toast in the toaster, pour my glass of V-8 (had to be V-8, couldn't be tomato juice), go to the bathroom again, eat my toast, drink my V-8, go to work.
ANY deviation from this plan, i was puking my guts out.
You just need to find your routine. that's all!


Does anyone think that it's morally wrong to have a baby as a teen? Even if you were raped?

No, it's not morally wrong for anyone to have a child. I think that it's kind of sad that a teen is having a baby, because that teen has SO much life ahead of them that they will not be able to do. They won't be able to be the fun single girl, they'll always be "mom"
And dating... lord... you have to worry if the guy's dating you... or if he's a pedo and wanting to get to your child... or if he just feels sorry for you, and is dating you out of pity.

It's not easy being a single mother. My best friend was a single teen mother. As a single mother now, it's hard. I can't even imagine how much more difficult it would be if i were a teen.

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Just wondering, anyone ever meet a single Dad? From my POV its highly unlikely, but I'm really curious.
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abortion or abortion is your own choice! there's no right or wrong choice, it's how and why you chose it. IF you're believe in yourself that you want to keep the baby and that you're prepare and ready, then keep the baby! But if you are not ready or do not wish to keep the baby then is best to have an abortion then having the baby then later resent it. Having a baby should be a joy, not some kind of resentment or bitterness. When you're happy, you're baby will be born and raise healthy and happy. If you're bitter and resentful, your baby will be born and raise unhappy and will have a sad life.
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kitanaikoneko wrote:


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in the case of this girl who was raped i would find aboration ok because
it was not of her own free will to have sex
and the baby may just serve as a reminder of when you got raped
not the best story for your child either
when they start woundering were there father is who they were etc etrc



The baby shouldn't be aborted because its not the baby's fault that her mom got rape and why do a ****** up crime because of others mistakes

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