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Are there any pregnant teens in CR?
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Posted 2/5/08 , edited 4/18/08

scoobytoo2123 wrote:

Are there any pregnant teens in CR?
If you are pregnant, do you think it's a mistake?- Considering abortion?
How do you tell your parents that you're pregnant?
Are any of you going to keep your babies?
Tips on dealing with morning sickness please!!!
How do you know if you've felt your baby? Please share on how your pregnancy is going!

Does anyone think that it's morally wrong to have a baby as a teen? Even if you were raped?



i dont like the idea of abortion at all they shouldn't be allowed

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Sure i believe that life is sacred & it's not the child's fault, but it's the mother's choice whether or not to abort her child. Abortion is better (in my opinion) than having an unwanted child being brought up in an unstable environment.
In the case of rape; if the mother doesn't abort her child, she may have to live the rest of her life reminded of the rape every time she looks at the child, she may even take out her anger on the child, so it would be in the child's best interest to be aborted.
As for the option of putting it up for adoption; i'm not in favour of this idea because the child may grow up feeling unwanted & wondering why their parents gave them up for adoption, and are probably more likely to turn to crime. I think it's disgusting that people condemn other's views, everyone has the right to their opinion & if it's more beneficial for the child and the mother, then she should be allowed to have an abortion without being subjected to abuse.

(If people disagree with my views, i would rather not to have abuse thrown at me. If you don't agree then it's perfectly simple to state your views without being insulting.)
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O_oStefferzO-o wrote:


scoobytoo2123 wrote:

Are there any pregnant teens in CR?
If you are pregnant, do you think it's a mistake?- Considering abortion?
How do you tell your parents that you're pregnant?
Are any of you going to keep your babies?
Tips on dealing with morning sickness please!!!
How do you know if you've felt your baby? Please share on how your pregnancy is going!
Does anyone think that it's morally wrong to have a baby as a teen? Even if you were raped?


im really sorry.
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how traumatic.
hopefully
that scumbag who raped
you is rotting in a jail cell
being someone's bitch.
:[

how far along are you?
&
just ignore all these rude comments..


I'm about 4 months. It's kinda hard, but I'm trying my best to get through it. He's not in jail... I don't know if I should say anything. He got one of my friends pregnant too
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crimsonkiba wrote:


scoobytoo2123 wrote:

Are there any pregnant teens in CR?
If you are pregnant, do you think it's a mistake?- Considering abortion?
How do you tell your parents that you're pregnant?
Are any of you going to keep your babies?
Tips on dealing with morning sickness please!!!
How do you know if you've felt your baby? Please share on how your pregnancy is going!

Does anyone think that it's morally wrong to have a baby as a teen? Even if you were raped?



i dont like the idea of abortion at all they shouldn't be allowed



I think that you are correct. If you legalize abortion, might as well legalize killing too!
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i think when it comes to abortaion
the women should be put down along with her unborn baby if she wants to kill it
o no my parents will find out or o no my life is ruined well you shouldnt open your legs if you dont wanna be preggy
this just goes to prove how kids are just entertainment to women
cause they can abort them like there nothing when it comes in conflict with there own life
any women who has aboreted her child deserves to go to hell
for killing of there own unborn child
i mean really this is so disgusting women killing there own unborn child
and everyone in the world finding it ok
because she hasent made it to college yet

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in the case of this girl who was raped i would find aboration ok because
it was not of her own free will to have sex
and the baby may just serve as a reminder of when you got raped
not the best story for your child either
when they start woundering were there father is who they were etc etrc



I think that abortion is wrong too. I intend to keep my baby. Thanks



you seem like a very strong women
i hope you the best of luck with raiseing your child


Thank you very much. ^_^

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scoobytoo2123 wrote:

Are there any pregnant teens in CR?

Not that i know of, but it's certainly not an impossibility. I've had conversations with many a young person about possibly getting their girlfriend pregnant, or what to do if they get pregnant. I've been a pregnancy counsellor for teen pregnancies through my parent's old church (then i moved)


If you are pregnant, do you think it's a mistake?- Considering abortion?

I've had an abortion, when i was 17. I knew nothing of the father, other then his name was Andy, and what town he was from.
I thought it was a huge mistake to become pregnant. I was scared, and worried. I didn't know what to do.


How do you tell your parents that you're pregnant?

I told my mother about my pregnancy, we decided that i should tell my father. That was the hardest thing for me to do, as i was a daddy's girl.
The next time i became pregnant, i wasn't a teen anymore, i was 23, and mentally ready to have a child.


Are any of you going to keep your babies?

I kept my second pregnancy. From when i was 23. She's a beautiful 4 year old little girl (turning 5 in May!)


Tips on dealing with morning sickness please!!!

What i had to do to handle my morning sickness, was to find a routine and stick to it.
I would wake up, go to the bathroom, put the toast in the toaster, pour my glass of V-8 (had to be V-8, couldn't be tomato juice), go to the bathroom again, eat my toast, drink my V-8, go to work.
ANY deviation from this plan, i was puking my guts out.
You just need to find your routine. that's all!


Does anyone think that it's morally wrong to have a baby as a teen? Even if you were raped?

No, it's not morally wrong for anyone to have a child. I think that it's kind of sad that a teen is having a baby, because that teen has SO much life ahead of them that they will not be able to do. They won't be able to be the fun single girl, they'll always be "mom"
And dating... lord... you have to worry if the guy's dating you... or if he's a pedo and wanting to get to your child... or if he just feels sorry for you, and is dating you out of pity.

It's not easy being a single mother. My best friend was a single teen mother. As a single mother now, it's hard. I can't even imagine how much more difficult it would be if i were a teen.



Even though I was raped and did not expect to have a baby so young. I will never abort. I'm sorry, I must disagree with you. I think that abortion is killing. Adoption is always an option.
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thats one doodle that can't be undid home skillet
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scoobytoo2123 wrote:


crimsonkiba wrote:


scoobytoo2123 wrote:

Are there any pregnant teens in CR?
If you are pregnant, do you think it's a mistake?- Considering abortion?
How do you tell your parents that you're pregnant?
Are any of you going to keep your babies?
Tips on dealing with morning sickness please!!!
How do you know if you've felt your baby? Please share on how your pregnancy is going!

Does anyone think that it's morally wrong to have a baby as a teen? Even if you were raped?



i dont like the idea of abortion at all they shouldn't be allowed



I think that you are correct. If you legalize abortion, might as well legalize killing too!


Its not the same, so long as you abort early enough its just a collection of cells that isn't even conscious or alive yet. No different to using contraceptives to kill sperm cells, cos thats all they are, cells. Honestly if a girl gets raped when she is 15 and has to keep the child thats her whole life out the window anyway and also the child itself won't have the best upbringing in all likelyhood (prob no father around etc). Make abortions easier I say, its much kinder and better for society as a whole.
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no offense to anyone and maybe this doesn't make sense, but i dont think their is any excuse for a pregnant teen. if you're being raped, you could always just kick the dude in the nuts. and if you just so happen to have sex with someone, you should always make sure you use protection


No, that does not make sense. When it comes to rape, of course it's excusable for teen pregnancy. Being in a situation where you're about to get raped is fucking scary dude, believe me. It's not only the physical limits that stop one from being able to take down their pursuer (because a female is physically weaker than a male), it's emotional/psychological too. If kicking the guy in the balls were the solution to all rape-attempts, there'd be a lot less rape crimes everywhere.

But I agree, there's no excuse for unprotected consensual sex. Coitus interruptus can only accomplish so much.
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Stickmania wrote:


scoobytoo2123 wrote:


crimsonkiba wrote:


scoobytoo2123 wrote:

Are there any pregnant teens in CR?
If you are pregnant, do you think it's a mistake?- Considering abortion?
How do you tell your parents that you're pregnant?
Are any of you going to keep your babies?
Tips on dealing with morning sickness please!!!
How do you know if you've felt your baby? Please share on how your pregnancy is going!

Does anyone think that it's morally wrong to have a baby as a teen? Even if you were raped?



i dont like the idea of abortion at all they shouldn't be allowed



I think that you are correct. If you legalize abortion, might as well legalize killing too!


Its not the same, so long as you abort early enough its just a collection of cells that isn't even conscious or alive yet. No different to using contraceptives to kill sperm cells, cos thats all they are, cells. Honestly if a girl gets raped when she is 15 and has to keep the child thats her whole life out the window anyway and also the child itself won't have the best upbringing in all likelyhood (prob no father around etc). Make abortions easier I say, its much kinder and better for society as a whole.


Thanks for the comment, but I just don't believe in it. Thanks for expressing your idea! ^_^
Posted 2/5/08 , edited 4/18/08

scoobytoo2123 wrote:


Stickmania wrote:


scoobytoo2123 wrote:


crimsonkiba wrote:


scoobytoo2123 wrote:

Are there any pregnant teens in CR?
If you are pregnant, do you think it's a mistake?- Considering abortion?
How do you tell your parents that you're pregnant?
Are any of you going to keep your babies?
Tips on dealing with morning sickness please!!!
How do you know if you've felt your baby? Please share on how your pregnancy is going!

Does anyone think that it's morally wrong to have a baby as a teen? Even if you were raped?



i dont like the idea of abortion at all they shouldn't be allowed



I think that you are correct. If you legalize abortion, might as well legalize killing too!


Its not the same, so long as you abort early enough its just a collection of cells that isn't even conscious or alive yet. No different to using contraceptives to kill sperm cells, cos thats all they are, cells. Honestly if a girl gets raped when she is 15 and has to keep the child thats her whole life out the window anyway and also the child itself won't have the best upbringing in all likelyhood (prob no father around etc). Make abortions easier I say, its much kinder and better for society as a whole.


Thanks for the comment, but I just don't believe in it. Thanks for expressing your idea! ^_^


Well what do you believe is wrong with it? There are only benefits as far as I can see and major ones at that. Why would you want to take that away from people? I just want to hear the reasons behind your opinion thats all because to me it seems totally illogical.
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Sure i believe that life is sacred & it's not the child's fault, but it's the mother's choice whether or not to abort her child. Abortion is better (in my opinion) than having an unwanted child being brought up in an unstable environment.
In the case of rape; if the mother doesn't abort her child, she may have to live the rest of her life reminded of the rape every time she looks at the child, she may even take out her anger on the child, so it would be in the child's best interest to be aborted.
As for the option of putting it up for adoption; i'm not in favour of this idea because the child may grow up feeling unwanted & wondering why their parents gave them up for adoption, and are probably more likely to turn to crime. I think it's disgusting that people condemn other's views, everyone has the right to their opinion & if it's more beneficial for the child and the mother, then she should be allowed to have an abortion without being subjected to abuse.

(If people disagree with my views, i would rather not to have abuse thrown at me. If you don't agree then it's perfectly simple to state your views without being insulting.)


i see where your coming from but she could give the child to an agency that will be able to find suitable as parents. in the case of rape the same thing could be done, its not like once you have a baby you are forced to look after it, there are other options. as you not not liking the idea of adoption, your saying you would rather not give a child a chance at life? yea maybe they will turn to crime, but maybe they wont, would you really agree with a person if they said "im getting an abortion because this child may turn into a criminal", wouldnt it be better to give the child a chance then deciding what he will be.

i think its disgusting that people can have sex and not be prepared for the consequences of not having "safe sex". it should be looked down on, no matter how they got pregnant i still cant see a reasonable explanation for abortion.

i guess our views are opposite

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Stickmania wrote:


scoobytoo2123 wrote:


Stickmania wrote:


scoobytoo2123 wrote:


crimsonkiba wrote:


scoobytoo2123 wrote:

Are there any pregnant teens in CR?
If you are pregnant, do you think it's a mistake?- Considering abortion?
How do you tell your parents that you're pregnant?
Are any of you going to keep your babies?
Tips on dealing with morning sickness please!!!
How do you know if you've felt your baby? Please share on how your pregnancy is going!

Does anyone think that it's morally wrong to have a baby as a teen? Even if you were raped?



i dont like the idea of abortion at all they shouldn't be allowed



I think that you are correct. If you legalize abortion, might as well legalize killing too!


Its not the same, so long as you abort early enough its just a collection of cells that isn't even conscious or alive yet. No different to using contraceptives to kill sperm cells, cos thats all they are, cells. Honestly if a girl gets raped when she is 15 and has to keep the child thats her whole life out the window anyway and also the child itself won't have the best upbringing in all likelyhood (prob no father around etc). Make abortions easier I say, its much kinder and better for society as a whole.


Thanks for the comment, but I just don't believe in it. Thanks for expressing your idea! ^_^


Well what do you believe is wrong with it? There are only benefits as far as I can see and major ones at that. Why would you want to take that away from people? I just want to hear the reasons behind your opinion thats all because to me it seems totally illogical.


I think that any type of occurence that leads to the death of a life is murder. Even if the cells or parts of the body are not fully formed, it is inevitable that the object inside the uterus is a fetus. Though many doctors do not consider it a fetus before a certain amount of time, it is still more than eligable to become a living breathing human being. If anyone cannot raise their child (reason being because they are to young of "not ready"), there are many barren women that are ready to adopt children. Just because you are pregnant does not mean that your life is over. Adoption can still let you live your life after you have the baby.
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Having a child is a blessing, I don't think I'd ever abort, but if I felt unfit to raise a child (particularly a teenager) I'd probably give birth to it and the give it away to a loving family. To a certain point in pregnancy, I feel that abortion is okay. Because I can't say that abortion is bad because it's murder, it's not always the case. Until a certain point in gestation, the child is not yet really.. a child, know what I mean? But if you're at the point where the baby's getting fingers and limbs and a heartbeat, I myself don't think I could just abort it from my body.

Well your parents can either be your guiding light or your downfall. Since you're not yet an adult, a parent can have power over your decisions. I know a woman who got pregnant when she was sixteen and her parents forced her to undergo an abortion. But parents, once getting past the fact that their child is being forced to grow up in a sense, can be the ones to guide you, to help you out and teach you how to become a parent, because they went through the same thing with you.

Having a child is not bad. The mistake was the conception, but the child is not at fault, and the pregnancy isn't wrong either.

I'm sorry that I can't help you more when it comes to relating because I've never been pregnant, and I don't know anyone (personally) that's pregnant, let alone pregnant on this site. How you've felt your baby though? Well... it kicks. Good luck raising your baby, hon. I hope things work out for you in the end.
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well I hope all the pregnant teens have the right support. Always know your options (try and stay away from religious centers for help unless you agree with their ideas as many are extremely biased). I think that America lets down pregnant teenagers.
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