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Post Reply That moment when you realize that you have a crush.
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Posted 4/12/15
Have you ever just crushed on someone shortly after meeting them? Like instant chemistry where all of the sudden, you've just met this person but you've already been talking to them for hours and everyday since?

Yeah.

But geeze, I'm so conflicted because I dislike relationships and long distance ones are even worse..but she's just so...I would date her. I would seriously and honestly date her.
Posted 4/12/15 , edited 5/15/15
Have not.

Only felt physical attraction
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Infatuation, its naive innocence, but I have some bad memories of unrequited love that keep me grounded whenever I feel that way. My first order of business is/would be to see if he'd feel the same way, of course, or I quash it from my mind (even though that potentially sabotages something maybe._)

IAnyway, thats the romantic type of bad experiences. The other kind would be a friend where I've messed up with or vice-versa, and its irreconcileable. Might be worse with a friend, depending.
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That hasn't happened in a long time for me. I can't really imagine it happening ever again as well
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Ive never had a long distance relationship but having a crush is a weird feeling. Its so nervous and fluttery for me. Its like your sick but your happy about it. For me though the feelings do die down. I had a girl I had a crush, I talked to her alot and took her too Prom but never went all out and asked her to date me because I started to view her as a good friend and not someone I have a attraction to over time.
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Posted 4/12/15 , edited 5/15/15

megahobbit wrote:

Ive never had a long distance relationship but having a crush is a weird feeling. Its so nervous and fluttery for me. Its like you sick but your happy about it. For me thought the feelings do die down. I had a girl I had a crush, I talked to her alot and took her too Prom but never went all out and asked her to date me because I started to view her as a good friend and not someone I have a attraction to over time.


Whoa, something similar happened to me! I had a big crush on this guy, but the more time I spent with him, the more I thought of him as a brother or a cousin. I laugh about it now with him because he was really dense about me liking him and it'd be awkward for the both of us if we dated.

Some of our friends don't believe that we're just good friends because of it though.
Posted 4/12/15
The sun comes out and everything is bright... not really no.
But, I've felt the tingles..oh sorry, that was the red bull. damn it.
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Few things in life that feel better or worse than that first moment.....
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It only ever happened once for me, and when i made a move i got shot down in flames haha.

It put me off of relationships a little i wont lie...
Posted 4/12/15

PruBenAzul wrote:

Have you ever just crushed on someone shortly after meeting them? Like instant chemistry where all of the sudden, you've just met this person but you've already been talking to them for hours and everyday since?

Yeah.

But geeze, I'm so conflicted because I dislike relationships and long distance ones are even worse..but she's just so...I would date her. I would seriously and honestly date her.


I've broken hearts and I've had my heart broken. breaking someone elses' heart has to feel the worst.
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Dark_Childe wrote:

I've broken hearts and I've had my heart broken. breaking someone elses' heart has to feel the worst.


Oh yeah. Love is not something...I like. I've had my heart shredded and then fed back to me. Crushes are more like, "I like you and you have potential." But this time, there's so much chemistry, it's honestly scaring the crap out of me. It doesn't help that she's a girl and I don't want to put anyone through that kind of hatred of being in a gay relationship. So I'm really torn about this crush. I really like her, but I don't want to date her at the same time. I don't date casually.

Does that make sense?
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Posted 4/12/15 , edited 4/12/15
I can't really develop such feelings without trust so they would have to have one hell of a good reputation for that to happen so that hasn't happened to me.

The closest that has happened was someone asking me out after about a month after starting a new job. That act itself made me take notice of her but it wasn't quite enough to distract me from my hardheaded "no distractions" policy at the time. That was a timing issue more than anything I guess, I look upon that as an act of immense stupidity on my part.
Posted 4/12/15
Yes and it pisses me off. Let me put it this way. I hate her but for some weird reason I have crush on her.
Posted 4/12/15
I came back to say that I do not drink red bull. Who drinks that stuff?! Stop drinking that stuff!
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I've definitely been instantly smitten before! Most notably was about a year ago. She was such an amazing little angel, and we spent a few days together, played some video games, and just had a lot of fun. I still think back on that time, and even though it didn't go anywhere (it couldn't, really), I still consider it the happiest I've been in years.

I've had quite a few long-distance relationships, but those were mainly in my younger years. Distance can be a hard thing to counter, but I think some people could be worth it. It depends on many factors, though, and can be hard to predict how it will all end.

Some of my girlfriends in the past were instantly interesting to me, but it wasn't quite as powerful as the first girl I mentioned. For several of them, that initial attraction faded, and I ended up having to break it off... I agree with Dark_Childe here: breaking hearts is absolutely the worst.

At any rate, I hope you find a route that suits you, PruBenAzul. I'll be rooting for you! In my head, at least.
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