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Post Reply That moment when you realize that you have a crush.
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Posted 4/13/15 , edited 4/13/15
Did once, went out and found out that she was a totally different person... I don't mind relationships but damn do they tire me out sometimes
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I have only crushed on one person in my life and it was a kid thing. Besides that, I have never had a crush before o:
Posted 4/13/15
A crushhhhhhhhhhh..... For want of a better term much.
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MrChamploo wrote:


PruBenAzul wrote:


MrChamploo wrote:



I have actually. Shes on my CR now. It was unexpected and it just sort of happened. ;P..About two weeks ago.. Give it a shot right? I remember reading you dislike being commited. But why not try?


That's cool! Are you guys dating?

And I'm going to talk to her a bit more. It's just a little complicated because A) It's long distance and My family is homophobic but I should be moving out in about a year. And I don't want to put her through that.

As for being committed in a straight relationship, I tend to try too hard. Does that make sense? And I'm naive and get played quite a bit. So I'm wary of relationships. It's not that I don't like relationships, it's more like I've never had a good experience being in one so I tell myself that I dislike relationships.


We are dating. And it's also long distance but when there's a will there's a way. I have no problems planning to go meet her and all that. But that would just come with time for you. And your family shouldn't be controlling who your with. You should be able to be with who you want too be. And you say put her through that,just mention if if shes willing too why not go through it with her? Mention it if it get's that far and see her opinion.

It's harder to get played in long distance,also if it's not there it would be easily noticed. Don't you think you would regret it if you didnt even try? It's ok to be scared but.. Keep talking and if it happens dont be afraid to take a step? I would say keep talking and if the chance comes up snag it up. Moments like that are rare.

GO FOR IT ;O



MrChamploo phrased it well;

I agree fully, life is too short for not at least giving it chances.
When it comes down to long distance relationships, you need to plan it well. Be honest and willing to work things for the future together!

*Hugs him tight*
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I've broken hearts and I've had my heart broken. breaking someone elses' heart has to feel the worst.


oh? I thought it was the other way around i much rather be on the dumping end, not the dumped end
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CuentaCrunchy99 wrote:

I have only crushed on one person in my life and it was a kid thing. Besides that, I have never had a crush before o:


You are still a kid little man.
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MrChamploo wrote:


CuentaCrunchy99 wrote:

I have only crushed on one person in my life and it was a kid thing. Besides that, I have never had a crush before o:


You are still a kid little man.

Yeah I know lol
There are some couples at my grade though : P
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I don't know if I really have a crush or not. I may have one. There's this girl who I met when the school year started but I didn't talk to her much until recently. Now I try to be with her more just because she is fun to talk to and hang out with. A couple people keep saying that we're dating but we're really not. Yesterday while I was out with some friends, we were playing some "game" and for some reason they were surprised I didn't have a girlfriend. They believed that I was going out with a certain person. This has gotten me really pensive. Have I come to like someone because of what I constantly hear? Or did I subconsciously like her but rejected the idea of it? I DON'T KNOW HOW TO FEEL! I'd probably ask her to prom or something if she's still single around this time next year.
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i have had multiple crushes on ppl, but i'm too much of a coward to do anything about it. i prefer just strolling through life with no responsibilities or attachment to someone.
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We are dating. And it's also long distance but when there's a will there's a way. I have no problems planning to go meet her and all that. But that would just come with time for you. And your family shouldn't be controlling who your with. You should be able to be with who you want too be. And you say put her through that,just mention if if shes willing too why not go through it with her? Mention it if it get's that far and see her opinion.

It's harder to get played in long distance,also if it's not there it would be easily noticed. Don't you think you would regret it if you didnt even try? It's ok to be scared but.. Keep talking and if it happens dont be afraid to take a step? I would say keep talking and if the chance comes up snag it up. Moments like that are rare.

GO FOR IT ;O



That's amazing I've known a few people with long distance relationships and I guess I'll have to learn by being in one myself. I agree about all of the stuff about my family...they've been controlling with /every/ aspect of my life but like I said, I'm hoping to be out by next year. I graduate in December and /hopefully/ I can have a stable job that will at least get me out the door.

Man, your comment has given me a lot of confidence in taking the chance to ask her out when the opportunity comes. You're absolutely right with regretting not making a move...I've had that happen to me a couple of times and that really sucks...especially when the person dates some jerk who ends up breaking their heart. Yeah. Balls to the wall right? I've gotta take chances in order for anything to happen, good or bad. Family and social issues shouldn't matter when it comes to relationships. I'll cross that bridge when (or if) it comes to it.
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Your family is just close minded. That's horrible because it shouldn't matter as long as you are happy. I'm sorry you had to put up with that. But i'm sure it's made you a bit stronger.

You'll learn its not that bad to be honest. If the feelings are really there. You will learn quick if it happens with you and whoever we happen to be talking about. And i'm glad i gave you the confidence you have to do it when the moment comes by. I want to hear about it either way it plays out!

Good thing's can't happen without attempting to reach out for them. Just move at a good pace,keep talking and see where it goes. I learned this myself recently. Good can't exist without bad. Good can't happen without trying. I'm sure your smart enough to notice where it goes. and how to play your cards. ;P


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I haven't had these feelings for a long time, but is truly an exciting feeling! That was 4 years ago and I haven't been interested in anyone since. I'm perfectly content with being by myself at the moment.
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Mmm... I've definitely thought a few girls are cute but half of me doesn't really want a relationship to begin with.
Posted 4/13/15
I only develop crushes on fictional characters.
Posted 4/13/15
Usually, I don't crush on people easily. But it happened, and it sucks ass.
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