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Dats how we fin' do dis shit home boy


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Honestly, I'd just say

"Deal with it."

If they're under 18, they're stuck with living with me until they're 18 so they might as well get used to having a gay parent. Some things in this world we really can't control, especially if you're a child who doesn't know better. Hey, what do you know, maybe my kid will wisen up with age.
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Honestly, I'd just say

"Deal with it."

If they're under 18, they're stuck with living with me until they're 18 so they might as well get used to having a gay parent. Some things in this world we really can't control, especially if you're a child who doesn't know better. Hey, what do you know, maybe my kid will wisen up with age.


I'm not homophobic, but honestly, if I were an orphan, I wouldn't wanna be adopted by a gay family. Not that I am against gays though
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I'm not homophobic, but honestly, if I were an orphan, I wouldn't wanna be adopted by a gay family. Not that I am against gays though


I can understand that. People often take personal preference as an extreme bias. For example:

I wouldn't want to date a black girl. Do I hate blacks? No.

You can be okay with gay marriage and not want to be adopted by a family of them.

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Well, I think it would depend on how old your child is. If they are still young, just make sure you educate them properly on how homosexuals are still people, shouldn't be defined by one trait, that kind of thing. If you child is an adult though, I imagine I would feel pretty hurt and would feel a bit like a failure of a parent. After all, by someone saying they dislike you because of that one thing, they are denying everything else that makes you who you are.
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I'd have to wonder how a kid could grow up with gay parents and then wake up one day deciding that they hate them all of a sudden. You'd think a kid who grew up in such a household wouldn't find anything wrong with that.
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PhantomGundam wrote:

I'd have to wonder how a kid could grow up with gay parents and then wake up one day deciding that they hate them all of a sudden. You'd think a kid who grew up in such a household wouldn't find anything wrong with that.


More like if a kid grew up with a man and woman, they divorced, the one who got custody got with someone of the same sex
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1. You might have an alcohol problem.
2. Why did I click this thread?
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I would think the child is an idiot.
How could I have a child if I were gay?
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What would you do if you child told you they'd stop loving you if you were gay?


If its a child, correct them as a parent should.
If its a 17+ year old teenager? Emancipation. Take care of yourself from now on. Hate all you want, but do so on your OWN dime. PS: I love you but you're a moron.
If my child is all grown up with a job: Laugh, and live my life. Life is too short to take that sort of abuse from anyone. PS: I love you but you're a HUGE moron.


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no clue
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this scenario wouldn't happen because i wouldn't raise my kid as a homophobic bigot

also my mom is bi so... i mean it's whatever lol idrc
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Couldn't have said it better myself. There you go.~
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I'd like to think I wouldn't raise a kid to be like that but I remember when I was younger and the world was kind of different.

I was taught to hate one of my uncles because my aunt and him got a divorce.... this was back in the '60's and 70's... I found out later that I was wrong to be that way and the relatives that taught me that kind of thinking were idiots.

I see that kind of stuff being preached today. Some 20 years ago I used to think badly of LGBT people and I have changed my thinking. I also noticed I do not have quite the same friends I had back then.

I guess we should be careful how we raise our kids and what we say around them then we might not have to worry about this sort of stuff.

On the flip side, one of my cousin's kids is gay and he complains about what an abomination his son is at the same time he tells him he loves him.....
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This wouldn't happen because none of my children are bigots.
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