Post Reply Marriage Proposal or Shack up Proposal?
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Posted 4/22/15
This is a simple questions for females. Males may answer to.

Which relationship proposal would you rather hear from a guy:

(1) Will you marry me?

or

(2) Will you move in with me?


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Where's my dowry?
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whats the point of marriage if no one takes the vows serisouly.
'untill death do up part',
or whatever excuse is semi plausable at the time.
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You gals gonna keep linkin.' I won't touch it.


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Posted 4/22/15

onibrotonel wrote:



You gals gonna keep linkin.' I won't touch it.


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3) How about you move into the apartment next door? Makes it easier to hang out together frequently, but we both have our own space.

Story from my past: I did have marriage proposed to me; I countered by saying how about we just live together. That...caused a fuss but after some consideration I decided to marry him and we did marry. Didn't work out. I don't think living together without marriage would have worked out long-term either, but I think perhaps our initial preferences for a next step in our relationship and what came out in conversation after, should have been a clue that we weren't well suited for either with each other. At least not right then.
Posted 4/22/15
How about one us stay in the other apartment or house for a week and that way we can see if we can live together first.

Not matter of much you love somebody, if you can't live together, there not point in marriage or moving together at all in the first place.
Posted 4/22/15
i dont have to worry about either options for a very long long time
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Dating means nothing. If you cannot live together for at least a year first the marriage will never work.

Today happens to be my 20th wedding anniversary and I have been with her for 23 years so I might know what I am talking about
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Posted 4/22/15
Marriage if you plan on having kids.
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Posted 4/22/15 , edited 4/22/15
how interesting that this pops up after my mom hints of letting her and her family wear the traditional Filipino clothes for wedding to my wedding...even though I'm not engaged.....

anyways, as I explained to my boyfriend after we were dating for over a year (last week was 3 years of us dating lol), I need to live with him for a year to see if I can stand him. even my dad told my sister that he would be more comfortable if her and her husband had lived together for a while first before getting hitched. in our family, divorce is rather common (my mom is my dad's second wife, first one cheated on him), so he's a tad worried that they may not make it long. its been almost 2 years since they got married and theyre together...for now...

I need to live with him and make sure he can stand my random mood swings while on my period, he can stand helping me take care of my cat, and we can handle seeing each other EVERY SINGLE DAY. some people look at me weird when I put it that way but it's true. I don't want to marry someone who can't deal with me and my cat on the daily.
Posted 4/22/15 , edited 4/22/15
I'd prefer the marriage proposal
because I feel that marriage requires a commitment to not turn into a manchild in a week
hopefully.
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