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Posted 4/23/15 , edited 4/23/15

Darkphoenix3450 wrote:

This thread is a rant about me at a bar. (and so being it happen today and I am still a little drunk my grammar will not be perfect OK!!!)
So today I was out drinking white Russians and playing pool with a friend of mine. I saw a few ladies I say in their late to mid 20's . They seem to be having fun drinking in a group of 5 girls. One was Double fisting two glasses of beer at the same time wile another was taking a picture of it. Me seeing this and being maybe 20 feet from them playing pool smiled walked up to them and made a remark that would work better with bottles instead of glasses. Just trying to make light conversation. Her reply before I was even able to finish my remark was FUCK OFF I DON"T KNOW YOU! Then she and her friend giggled about how she told me to fuck off wen I shrugged and walked away.

This comes to my thread topic of the week.

1. It takes a nice guy a lot of balls to just walk up to a group of girls and talk to them, so is her reaction justified in any way?

2. How is she to get know anyone if she tells people to fuck off every time someone talks to them.




Ok your turn tell me why what I did was wrong so I can learn from it.. Or explain to me why any one feel the need to tell someone trying to be friendly to FUCK OFF!



She probably just didnt want to talk with you. If im hanging out with my friends and a random person I don't know walks up and starts annoying us I would tell them to fuck off.
Posted 4/23/15 , edited 6/9/15

Lowlights wrote:

They just didn't want to talk to you and were drunk

It's not that complicated


This.

Even in a drunken state, I think you could've come to this conclusion without the help of an anime forum.

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Posted 4/23/15 , edited 6/9/15
lmao, If someone comes up and talks to me in the bar, be it a guy or a woman, if i dont find them attractive within the first few seconds, I am probably going to shut them down and send them on their way.

That girl is a bitch for wording it like that and its not your fault.

However, when drunk, you normally dont word things properly, given your IQ falls dramatically when drunk.
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Posted 4/25/15 , edited 4/28/15
I'm going to say that... she was either drunk and not herself, or she was herself, OR ...she was kind of herself with a bit of clouded judgement from the alcohol.

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Posted 4/28/15
Don't approach women randomly in a bar, find women outside of bar, and invite them to said bar.
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Posted 4/28/15 , edited 6/9/15
Moments such as these are the perfect example for why I generally avoid human contact. Trying to explain it as having to do with gender/age/sobriety is irrelevant. Humans tend to be cruel. Especially so if you lack the proper looks/style/social aptitude. I've spent my entire life as a social outcast. Sadly, it caused me to turn to alcohol/tobacco/drugs when I was younger. It allows you to feel included in social groups, as those with bad habits feel that their behaviours are "justified" when sharing them with others. (To this extent, perhaps the girls would have been more responsive if you were drunk?) Well anyways, I'm focused on my health now, and back to having very few humans that I make direct contact with. And that's ok.
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Posted 4/28/15
Seeing how people handle interactions with both friends and complete strangers is a good indicator of what kind of character you are dealing with. Under most circumstances I would not associate with anyone like that; I like to surround myself with people of good character and preferably a positive outlook.

Your interaction failed due to their bad character and group mentality combined with the connotations of contact in a bar scenario. Your attempt to be relevant in conversation wasn't really great, but that alone is no reason for this whole thing to blow up like that.

As far as your looks go I don't really see a problem facially, symmetry isn't too much of a concern for you. I do think that certain hair/facial hair combinations definitely suit you more than others. Based upon pictures provided on your profile I'd rate them anywhere between a 4 and 6 out of 10 which I do rate very harshly... 5 would be average features which in itself can be considered attractive while 10 would be inhumanly perfect.

In the end I say don't get so caught up on it. Try not to let it hit your confidence too much, but at the same time if there is anything you want to improve about yourself go after it 100%. Minor changes can really improve your confidence which in turn also makes you more attractive to others.
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Posted 4/28/15
I dunno, when I'm out drinking and someone comes up and talks to me randomly, no matter how good-looking they are I get weirded out. I don't usually tell them to fuck off, simply sit through the conversation feeling awkward. However, if someone has been being loud and outgoing then talks to me I feel more comfortable. Maybe she just wasn't ready for someone out of the blue to talk to her and the alcohol made her react badly.
Posted 4/29/15 , edited 4/29/15
I think you would only get weirded out if someone approached you awkwardly, you wouldn't get weirded out if someone approached you confidently
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Posted 4/30/15
You were lucky! And I mean it, someone who treats other like that and speaks like that to someone who doesn`t know must be a horrible person. You`re lucky to not have a friend or an acquaintance like that. I`d be ashammed if I have a friend that say such things.

Even if you don`t want to be friends with someone who talks to you, you can be polite and give a negative treating the other as human beings. I hate people that are not polite to other people!!!
Posted 5/1/15 , edited 5/1/15
think the moral of the story is that there's some really shallow people out there, People with behaviors you wouldn't even expect; And that's just the untamed world that we live in
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Posted 5/1/15
I remember one guy saying he asked a girl what time it was and the first she said was "I have a boyfriend." He said ok but what's the time then she screamed he wouldn't leave her alone. Thing is all he wanted to know was the time.

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I've always been curious. Who exactly is this woman? Her name?
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Posted 5/3/15 , edited 6/9/15
If you're really 34, you should know better than this. Haha

Still, it's not like I can't empathize.

Better luck, next time, though. Honestly.
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Posted 6/7/15
Sounded like she just wanted be with her friends and shut off everyone in that room, don't want anything to do with strangers.. and got in a fight with her boyfriend?


Or She had bad experience in that situation, and seem to think every male treat women like they're sexual Objects, instead of person...-shrugs-


Or maybe she is only into women (female & female) and didn't want you to steal her friends heh.....Noone know what truely in her mind on that night.

Don't feel bad, its not you.. You just happen to talk to wrong person, don't let that bother you.. Try again with different woman, they'll say Hi in return.

Not all Women have bad day every day heh! -statches head- -shrugs-
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