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Posted 5/5/15
Overall, I think I'm pretty forgiving.

I've been bullied, I've had friends who I trusted hurt me, I've had a girlfriend go out with me just to get another dude's attention, things like that. Not the most hurtful things someone can do to you, but still quite hurtful, especially at a younger age.

I've forgiven these people. Some have even apologized to me, however many years late it may have been. I wouldn't say "that's life" suits those situations, but it is common, and considering how young the people involved and I were, I just found it easier to forgive. Kids will be kids.



So how forgiving are you? You can obviously give a general response, but I'd like to read examples as to why you would or would not forgive people who have harmed you in certain situations.


Posted 5/5/15
I'm very forgiving.
Posted 5/5/15
I just don't usually care haha. So long as you don't try to kill me, I'll still be cool with you.
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I don't have an ounce of forgiveness in me.
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As long as no one is severely hurt and can be undone I'll forgive. Now when it comes to me I don't really care even if you tried to kill me you probably had a good reason and shit happens so I hardly ever hold grudges.
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I usually very forgiving when people do things to me. This sometimes leads me getting taken advantage of(but than again there is friends with Benefits), or getting walked over. At some point I have to draw the line(most of the people I know have never really seen me get really angry). If someone were to hurt, or make my friend cry etc. I would not forgive them, depending on what they did, and my friend did will trigger me to do a certain action.
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Posted 5/5/15
Very, very forgiving. Probably too forgiving, actually.
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After a little while, my anger just slowly disappears...
Very forgiving tbh lol
Unless they plan on hurting me or a loved one
Then I'm very pissed
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22 / M / Chicago, IL
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Posted 5/5/15
I can be pretty forgiving. Unless they are trying to hurt me or the people I trust.
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Im pretty damn forgiving.
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as forgiving as Gin is to Takasugi

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Too much sometimes and not enough other times.
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I like to consider myself very forgiving in my experience it's only hurt me holding onto a grudge and if they've hurt me already I refuse to give anyone the satisfaction to continue to hurt me.... hope that made sense haha it did in my head
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It depends on what you did. Given enough time I'll probably forgive nearly anything, but that might take years. Decades, even.
Posted 5/5/15
am neither forgiving or vengeful.

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