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A Mom Publicly Shamed Her 13-Year-Old Daughter For Posing In A Bra On Facebook
Posted 5/22/15

retronatrix wrote:


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I don't agree with the whole internet thing. I was a kid and I never did any of this shit this kid did.


And not every child can handle responsibility. Better safe than sorry.

Until my child give me a reason to do that, I wouldn't do that.
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Posted 5/22/15

KarenAraragi wrote:


retronatrix wrote:


KarenAraragi wrote:


I don't agree with the whole internet thing. I was a kid and I never did any of this shit this kid did.


And not every child can handle responsibility. Better safe than sorry.

Until my child give me a reason to do that, I wouldn't do that.


That reason might be showing her body to 40 year old horny men when she's 13.
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Posted 5/22/15
Good for that mom so her daughter won't turn out to be a hussy.
Posted 5/22/15

retronatrix wrote:


KarenAraragi wrote:


retronatrix wrote:


KarenAraragi wrote:


I don't agree with the whole internet thing. I was a kid and I never did any of this shit this kid did.


And not every child can handle responsibility. Better safe than sorry.

Until my child give me a reason to do that, I wouldn't do that.


That reason might be showing her body to 40 year old horny men when she's 13.

Assuming she not into girls. I fine with that. If I going to show distrust and put discipline, I going to do with a reason.
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Posted 5/22/15 , edited 5/22/15

KarenAraragi wrote:


retronatrix wrote:


KarenAraragi wrote:


retronatrix wrote:


KarenAraragi wrote:


I don't agree with the whole internet thing. I was a kid and I never did any of this shit this kid did.


And not every child can handle responsibility. Better safe than sorry.

Until my child give me a reason to do that, I wouldn't do that.


That reason might be showing her body to 40 year old horny men when she's 13.

Assuming she not into girls. I fine with that. If I going to show distrust and put discipline, I going to do with a reason.

Overly permissive parenting is hate for a children's well being in the name of being the good guy. If someone isn't going to parent as a teacher and role model then they generally raise the kind of kids that have no kind of responsibility for their actions. But this is turning in to a quote train and I can't spoiler cut on my tablet so I'll bow out a while.
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Posted 5/22/15
It might've been a little too far, but.. what the fuck? 13 year-old posing as 19-year old? That's just messed up.
Posted 5/22/15
I probably wouldn't do this to my child, but some kids don't actually learn til' they are humiliated. She'll regret it once she gets a bit older.
Posted 5/22/15

That not overly permissive parenting nor is hate for one child well being. But being draconian with one child without reason is a sure fire way to kill any trust and bond with one child. And when they fuck up. Not matter how harsh or severe you are with them. If there not trust or a bond with one child. Noting you do to them will make them see the errors of theirs ways.
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Karen, your asking there's no bending of standards or does based on the child and situation. In THIS CASE where they were allowed unsupervised access it but then both in the butt. That is the whole issue.
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Posted 5/22/15
Good shit. That little girl could have gotten into a LOT more trouble.
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Posted 5/22/15 , edited 5/22/15

retronatrix wrote:
And not every child can handle responsibility. Better safe than sorry.

not all children or in this case more of teen could most likely not takle the after effects from this and mostly from her mother really when she did all this and maybe screwed a bolt loose that will make relationship between them two maybe worse or maybe create worse events or scenarios..

Its good she tries to stop her from doing or going to something wrong but this was just the wrong way to deal with it..
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Posted 5/22/15

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retronatrix wrote:
And not every child can handle responsibility. Better safe than sorry.

not all children or in this case more of teen could most likely not takle the after effects from this and mostly from her mother really when she did all this and maybe screwed a bolt loose that will make relationship between them two maybe worse or maybe create worse events or scenarios..

Its good she tries to stop her from doing or going to something wrong but this was just the wrong way to deal with it..


It was also the bad parenting too. Garbage in,garbage out.
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It was also the bad parenting too. Garbage in,garbage out.

Yeah I cind of said it before that it looked like it was bad from before and their relationship has been not that good for a good while and maybe made her seek these guys to do this stuff.
(seeking comfort can be really wierd)
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Posted 5/22/15

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retronatrix wrote:
It was also the bad parenting too. Garbage in,garbage out.

Yeah I cind of said it before that it looked like it was bad from before and their relationship has been not that good for a good while and maybe made her seek these guys to do this stuff.
(seeking comfort can be really wierd)


Exactly. There a theory that you've girls and even who sexually seek out men are doing so out of a father comes. And younger girls and women who seek out men for an actual relationship have comfort issues. So I do wonder about that. I fall in to the latter.
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Posted 5/22/15
Im kinda disgusted by the amount of people think public shaming your child is a valid way of punishing them. Punishments should be private and you shouldnt invite and incur the wrath of others on your child.
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