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Posted 5/24/15 , edited 5/25/15
Did you ever like someone and then realize later.... why did you like that person in the first place? or what did I see in them? Well anyway... I am having one of those "What do I see in him" moments... and for some reason I still like him... So do you have those moments, does it take you long to realize "what did I see in that person" ? It took me 4 yrs to think that about this one guy. That one is a new record for me.
Posted 5/24/15 , edited 9/19/15
your profile picture scares me
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Posted 5/25/15

kimchino wrote:

your profile picture scares me


really? it makes me laugh....
Posted 5/25/15
Kind of. I'm not really sure if you mean it as a good or bad thing. Like you realized this person is actually kinda a jerk or you just don't remember how you liked them in the first place?
I don't have feelings like that most of the time cuz I am a heartless a-hole tbh lmao
Its more of like, with interest. I thought this person was cool & smart but really they're dumb & kinda annoying sorta thing.
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so many times, but usually cuz i wanted to stop my self from becoming attached to something i could never have, so i had to convince my self that there were more wrongs than rights, but i guess im done with that part of my life and if a opportunity arises than im going to take it.
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Posted 5/25/15

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Kind of. I'm not really sure if you mean it as a good or bad thing. Like you realized this person is actually kinda a jerk or you just don't remember how you liked them in the first place?
I don't have feelings like that most of the time cuz I am a heartless a-hole tbh lmao
Its more of like, with interest. I thought this person was cool & smart but really they're dumb & kinda annoying sorta thing.


I mean it in a negative way. They just weren't what I thought they were. Then I thought "why did I like him in the first place"? Idk if that makes sense, but yea I think u got the gist of it!
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so many times, but usually cuz i wanted to stop my self from becoming attached to something i could never have, so i had to convince my self that there were more wrongs than rights, but i guess im done with that part of my life and if a opportunity arises than im going to take it.


way to think proactively!! congrats
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CSPower wrote:

so many times, but usually cuz i wanted to stop my self from becoming attached to something i could never have, so i had to convince my self that there were more wrongs than rights, but i guess im done with that part of my life and if a opportunity arises than im going to take it.


way to think proactively!! congrats


hell ya
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CSPower wrote:


Arielgirl375 wrote:


CSPower wrote:

so many times, but usually cuz i wanted to stop my self from becoming attached to something i could never have, so i had to convince my self that there were more wrongs than rights, but i guess im done with that part of my life and if a opportunity arises than im going to take it.


way to think proactively!! congrats


hell ya


HELLS Yea!!
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Posted 5/25/15 , edited 5/28/15
I know exactly how you feel. When my first boyfriend asked me out, I was so happy because I really liked him. He dumped me a month later after using me for his own pleasure twice. His reason for dumping me was that he felt sorry for me the entire time and that he was "too popular" for me. After that, I started to realize how terrible he was to me the entire time. The reason I liked him so much was because he would always compliment me and make me feel good about myself , but it turned out that he did that to every other pretty girl at our school. Sometimes I feel like I still like him, but I remember how awful he was. The only reason we fall for the wrong person is because all the attention they give us at first. My mistake is that I jumped into the relationship too fast because I thought that he really liked me. Moral of the story : "We accept the love we think we deserve."
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CSPower wrote:


Arielgirl375 wrote:


CSPower wrote:

so many times, but usually cuz i wanted to stop my self from becoming attached to something i could never have, so i had to convince my self that there were more wrongs than rights, but i guess im done with that part of my life and if a opportunity arises than im going to take it.


way to think proactively!! congrats


hell ya


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the enthusiasm is entertaining.
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Posted 5/25/15 , edited 5/28/15
Kinda poured out my heart there, whew.
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Well yes I have had similar experiences, and it usually starts with the realization that they are something more than sexy. Whether it's a boy or a girl they can be sexy and charming and have initial traits they are willing to display to you. Gradually people feel more comfortable around you and they will take on a more lax stance in your friendship. They will stop having the need to impress you - or feel welcome with you - and express more personal or real behaviors. You will begin to notice that they are no longer idols to adore and are more like the rest of us ( or something less awesome than you initially anticipated). THAT IS OPTION "A". Option "B" is that you look past their initial charm and sexiness/beauty and realize/witness the proof that they are basic ass bitches and aint that cool at all and aint worth you. The key to finding a dope worthy love companion, is to take in to consideration what isn't part of the flare that made you notice them in the first place.
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Posted 5/25/15

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Kinda poured out my heart there, whew.


thanks for sharing that. you make some good points!
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kawaii_gangsta wrote:

I know exactly how you feel. When my first boyfriend asked me out, I was so happy because I really liked him. He dumped me a month later after using me for his own pleasure twice. His reason for dumping me was that he felt sorry for me the entire time and that he was "too popular" for me. After that, I started to realize how terrible he was to me the entire time. The reason I liked him so much was because he would always compliment me and make me feel good about myself , but it turned out that he did that to every other pretty girl at our school. Sometimes I feel like I still like him, but I remember how awful he was. The only reason we fall for the wrong person is because all the attention they give us at first. My mistake is that I jumped into the relationship too fast because I thought that he really liked me. Moral of the story : "We accept the love we think we deserve."


hmm...it sounds like that guy has never had to try at something.its unfortunate that he got his way.why not expose him?oh my thoughts on love is, the ability to give one true emotions to that person while knowing that he/she will not reject them, its something like finding someone that sees past your problems and adapts to you. willing to give there very being to stay by your side. hmm...that guy will spend years doing the same things, but that just leaves him a small naive man in a large world, i kinda feel bad for him.
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