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No. But I don't really start to like anyone that easily, so by the time I fall in love with(or crush on) someone, I'm already far enough ahead to see past their shell and see them for who they really are. The only women I've been with are the ones I wanted to be with, so I can't regret that, even if it didn't work out with them. I still see the same traits I saw before in them, if that makes sense.


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Yeah, typically it happens when I got out of a long relationship. I'm bad at breaking things off so I end up in another relationship longer than I should have just because that person is diffrent from the previous relationship. Like as an example, was going out with a girl who was the complete opposite of me in most every important respect, errr well almost. What I saw as cute about her was also the aspect of her personality which made her being loyal in a relationship completely impossible. Just a kind of no barriers friendliness.


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I liked my most recent ex-girlfriend because she was cute & played the guitar. I was thinking, "Yes! We can make a band and be like The Pixies!". Fortunately, we never did. But she was really into "hippy culture", as well as all her friends, which I absolutely couldn't care less about. After a little over three months it was pretty obvious to both of us that we really shared no interests. At first it was kind of fun, introducing each other to new people, doing things & going places I wouldn't normally go, but neither of us were very interested in what we were showing each other hah. We kind of found a middle ground & were trying to make things work out, but eventually we both knew this relationship wouldn't last. After three very awkward talks, and her telling me she's still in love with her ex-boyfriend, we agreed to "just be friends". Barely two weeks later she moved into her ex's house & they've been together again ever since (awwww....). But looking back, I really don't see what made me want to date her, other than her being cute. It turned out she really didn't play the guitar, she just owned one that she would bring around to beach parties & such (we both live/lived less than a half mile from Lake Michigan). I don't think I'd ever date a hippy girl again. And I never want to god damn hear Umphrey's McGee ever again either. Remember kids, say "NO!" to hippy jam bands.
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retronatrix wrote:
And another I knew I'd met through a gaming group. He seemed very intelligent and cool, was very nice and all that. But as we dated he got arrogant and just plain rude. He had a temper that would fly off the handle and would just get belittling of you didn't agree with him or had a different taste in something.

Comes from little knowledge or getting a hard time with real life relationship.
Thats also why some is saying and wanting to know when you first had sex etc.
Some getting drawn insane by it others not (ignorant or hard time beliving or feeling reality, like if a event should happend they don't get effect and most likely not want to take a part of it even if its someone they know and so on)
Internet can be good for online groupes and drag more into conversations else it can be a really downer.

"on the internet is one thing but in real life its another"
"Making you see all this will make you see even less"
"You are one person here while another over there!"
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Freddy96NO wrote:


retronatrix wrote:
And another I knew I'd met through a gaming group. He seemed very intelligent and cool, was very nice and all that. But as we dated he got arrogant and just plain rude. He had a temper that would fly off the handle and would just get belittling of you didn't agree with him or had a different taste in something.

Comes from little knowledge or getting a hard time with real life relationship.
Thats also why some is saying and wanting to know when you first had sex etc.
Some getting drawn insane by it others not (ignorant or hard time beliving or feeling reality, like if a event should happend they don't get effect and most likely not want to take a part of it even if its someone they know and so on)
Internet can be good for online groupes and drag more into conversations else it can be a really downer.

"on the internet is one thing but in real life its another"
"Making you see all this will make you see even less"
"You are one person here while another over there!"


Yeah, the sex obsession pops up a lot with my fellow nerds I've noticed. Especially online I get asked sexual stuff then get balked at because . I tell them no, not talking about that. There's such a fine line someone between internet and obsession.
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atleap wrote:

No. But I don't really start to like anyone that easily, so by the time I fall in love with(or crush on) someone, I'm already far enough ahead to see past their shell and see them for who they really are. The only women I've been with are the ones I wanted to be with, so I can't regret that, even if it didn't work out with them. I still see the same traits I saw before in them, if that makes sense.


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It has its good and bad sides
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Posted 5/25/15
Pretty easy-

She was either cute, hot, or both.
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Posted 5/25/15
Why? Why this type of hardcore topic?
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what's going on? someone die?
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A lot of times, actually. The human heart is a strange, cruel, and annoying thing...
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Thank God...I was hoping you'd like the poem ^_^;;;;; -wipes my forehead- I'm happy to pass it on. :)
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I was involved with a girl I saw as kind, gentle, sweet, loving, cute, intelligent, honest, hard working, beautiful, loyal as well as a few other really good things that knocked me off my feet. We were an official couple for 6 months or so but I was told not to let anyone at our work know due to it being a policy employees couldn't date. Well, a few months later a co-worker happily told us about this guy she met at work and how they were planning on getting married. I asked her about the "policy" only to hear it didn't exist. I asked her what type of guy she thought my GF was interested in (remember she had no clue the two of us were dating). She told me my loving GF was having an affair with a married executive there. A co-worker overheard and snapped "that lying...". He admitted to being her one and only BF for 3 months now and I told him "I have that one beat...". I quit the job, he quit the job and the married exec was caught leaving my then ex without a job. When confronted, she admitted it all claiming that she'd never really get serious with anyone below executive level. I've seen her a few times since then and tend to still find a smile on my face each time. A friend once told me "think with your head not your heart"; unfortunately, that isn't me. Even as phony as she turned out to be I still want to be with her.
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I've felt like that quite a few times. Normally it's because they were a nice person but then end up joining the wrong crowd and start changing just to be popular. I haven't got time for people who are willing to change themselves that easily.
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i feel you so many guys out there like that. I wonder why it always has to happen right after 2 people get along that one of them starts changing and straying off
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i agree its really hard when u have no one but yourself to have in these situations where the guy/ girl is a damn asshole but things like these help you to finding the right people for ya i think it like that ;3
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