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Yes, their really people that are rude even if you 're nice to them . I dunno why actually! It feels like they're testing your patience . So, now I just don't mind and ignore people that are rude . Coz, I don't want them to make my day bad !
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Rude People are sadly a flaw in some People's characters. However that's not to say that ALL of Us don't have the POTENTIAL to BE rude...Just try and ignore those who down You. Hopefully they come to their senses and realize that Others, just as Themselves deserve to be treated in a just and harmonic manner.

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Speaking for myself, I don't run into too many rude people, but I imagine most people who are acting that way are doing so because of a bad mood, whether it be a short-term or long-term one. Happy people are more likely to act harmoniously, and thereby promote happiness in others, while unhappy people are much the same with their unhappiness. We latch onto our moods if they're strong, and seek ways to vicariously ride those moods, whether they be positive or negative, and spreading them to others, expecting them to come 'round to us again, is one way we do that. It's unfortunate in the case of rudeness, but it's also an important communication tool that lets us know when someone's having a tough time - though we might not be inclined to help them right away.
Posted 6/3/15
I hate rude people.
They most likely think they're entitled. They don't have to treat others with respect & think all their peers are below them as well.
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Lack of empathy and self-awareness.
This can shift depending on mood and recent experiences (a bad day).
The more dense the noggin, the longer it takes for them to get past it.
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kimchino wrote:

rude people are rude because they were raised that way by their parents or they hang out with the people who are rude


I agree.
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Posted 6/3/15 , edited 6/3/15
Maybe they're just having a bad day.

Maybe they don't like you.

Maybe they're just incredibly honest. (no filter)

So I don't actually think it's on purpose, well unless they don't like you.
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It depends. I'm either playfully rude because we're actually friends or "I don't know you and I don't think you care so I'll just be snobby" rude kind of person. Sometimes I'm rude because I'm impatient. Sometimes I'm clueless that I'm acting rude. Sometimes I'm just tired. Sometimes I don't want to use all of my facial muscles to display something positive, which other people see and misunderstand it as a resting bitch facE. Please stop making me do a fake smile. I'm not good at it.
Sometimes I'm rude when I've being challenge, provoke, insulted, or even underestimated.

But, all in all, I mostly go with "do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Treat me like dirt, I'll treat you like crap. Treat me nice, I'll smile to you more than twice.
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Even if I'm rude, I always meet someone that is more rude, ruthless, and diabolical.

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There are very few people who are intentionally rude. Often times it's a combination of factors- a bad day, their own inner turmoil, the way they were raised, etc that make them unable to see how other's may perceive them in certain situations. Think of it as like temporary insensitivity moreso than rudeness. Then you have the true asshats, who get off on upsetting other people in order to satisfy some sick fetish/make themselves feel better. But I think those are pretty rare. If you find yourself often encountering rude people, check your own behavior and environment to see if there's something triggering that reaction. If there is, get rid of it. If not, give them the finger and move on.
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Go to DeviantArt and try to critique someone! I actually like criticism but heaven forbid you critique anyone else, those people will have a teen fit with you. To me, they are legitimately the rudest people, because, when they are rude on there, they're not trolling, they actually mean it.
Do not be angry at them though. They draw because they might have really messed up lives.
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You have to use all your voices.There's an art to rude.The Yakuza have mastered it in a country that prides itself on politeness.My experience in NYC tells me it's got to be endemic or in the water along with the heavy metals and Cryptosporidium. It's awe inspiring.
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PurpleDjango wrote:

Why do you think they act like this?

Is there a reason behind it?

Do you think they are doing it on purpose?


Eventually, you'll hit that point in life where it just doesn't matter anymore lol…

But to answer your questions; I'm sure people are rude because they're just bad people? I can't say for sure.

There were always kids back in my high school days that would take any and every opportunity to make fun of someone, but I always felt that they weren't the people I would like to be associated with. As such, I've no idea if they're really doing it on purpose, but it can probably go both ways.
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We all have our off-days. I try not to be rude, but I'm certain that sometimes, despite my best efforts, I'm perceived by others as being rude. It happens, I don't let it bother me, and just try not to let it happen again.
Posted 6/4/15 , edited 6/4/15

onibrotonel wrote:

It depends. I'm either playfully rude because we're actually friends or "I don't know you and I don't think you care so I'll just be snobby" rude kind of person. Sometimes I'm rude because I'm impatient. Sometimes I'm clueless that I'm acting rude. Sometimes I'm just tired. Sometimes I don't want to use all of my facial muscles to display something positive, which other people see and misunderstand it as a resting bitch facE. Please stop making me do a fake smile. I'm not good at it.
Sometimes I'm rude when I've being challenge, provoke, insulted, or even underestimated.

But, all in all, I mostly go with "do unto others as you would have them do unto you." Treat me like dirt, I'll treat you like crap. Treat me nice, I'll smile to you more than twice.


I'm playful rude too. But it can come across wrong on the internet so i try to be rude to the people that i think have the disposition to not get offended by it. I am a bit gloomy so i also do it to get a reaction that will make me want to play with them xD
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