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Posted 6/8/15
My "Game" is weak how do i improve?? Any advice Peeps as in for talking to chicks
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Posted 6/8/15 , edited 6/8/15
You never know when she wants the D
you never know when she's really offline
you never know when she actually is busy
you never should attempt conversation unless you are a brave level 60 gladiator
dress in colour, not neon colour or clashing colour but complementary colour
don't approach girls in groups
don't approach groups in general
don't take heaps of selfies where you're showing a picture of yourself
don't forget to buy confidence coins in the cash shop
start subtle, hi/hey/hello
gauge the response of hi/hey/hello
if unsatisfactory go grind around in town and talk to casuals
come back when leveled up
engage conversation

and that's fuckin' how ok
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24 / M / S.T.A.R labs (TX)
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Posted 6/11/15
First of all confidence! You asked us here to give you pointers or advice. Admitting you need help with your "game" automatically means you have balls. balls=confidence. One thing I do is pretend i'm talking to one of my guy friends this just tricks my mind into being myself, and not putting up this front, you know. Don't ever stand there with your hands in your pockets because that just screams "I'm nervous help me please". Confidence is the game changer man that's really all I can say. Good luck bro!!
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Posted 6/12/15
Lol balls = confidence? Fuck that.
Fake it till you make it if you have no confidence. If you DO have confidence then keep talking to girls, eventually you'll improve on your own and get one.
But yeh in my case I'm not confident, so i fake it till i make it. I often hit on REAL hot chicks way out of my league. If you keep getting rejected by models t hen talking to a normal cutie wont be as rough when she rejects you. Plus you'll slowly learn how to talk to them. Honestly take it slow, introduce yourself, or make a comment about something you see, her shoes , her clothes, her hair, maybe what shes ordering if you're out getting food, or maybe if you're at a store and she buys a cd then talk about that music or t ype of music ya know? Go to places where you relate to your surroundings easier, then it wont be hard finding something in common with a girl. After a while talking to her wont be all that hard, ask her for her number, cause you wanna keep talking, or maybe you gotta go but it would be cool to stay in touch ya know?

Just dont go into a situation acting like you're about to get some. That may work for sluts once in a while but act like you're just getting to know someone, a stranger meets stranger and becomes a great friend. After you talk a bit ask her out on a date, dont let her settle in the idea that you're just friends, other wise thats all it'll be (which is fine but you're tryna spit game so...) . Yeah ask her to hang out, doesnt necessarily have to be dinner and a movie, go to a park and chill, get to know each other better. Or go for a walk or something. After that then ask her to go to dinner , something simple ya know? Set the mood a bit, some where nice but not too nice you arent paying for love or sex, you're hanging out having a good time. After its become more clear that you're dating dont be afraid to kiss her ya know? Idk man every girls diff tho some like the romance others want you to just flat out tuch da butt after date one lol. Play the field a bit you'll find someone that works for ya no prob.

Dont take my advice tho, cuz i dont haha
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Posted 6/13/15
AnoreZ, have you ever had the BALLS to do something??? That's what I was talking about.. There is a saying that skaters use and it's "going balls out" meaning, mustering up the courage or confidence to try and land what they were attempting.
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Posted 6/13/15
I like to say- Man up! because its the rite of passage step out of your comfort zone and please don't do it in a text find who you want a reach out
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Posted 6/13/15
As a woman-
Pretend you know what you're doing even if you don't (fake it tip you make it)
Communication is key
Be honest about what you like ( fun story I play ice hockey and I went on a date with this guy who was trying to talk about hockey and he knew nothing about it at all which was fine but he was pretending like he knew. He honestly had no idea what he was talking about and we never talked again)
Were bigger nerds then you think (one of the prettiest girls I know who loves makeup and clothes is apparently a high level summoner in LoL?)
Girls are not speaking another language if we say were busy we are, if we say okay it means okay there is no hidden meaning- were not as smart as you think....

Those are all of my tips! Happy 'Gaming'
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Posted 6/13/15
Lol gravelygee of course. I abandoned everything i knew in about a month to live with people I met over league of legends, turns out they ended up becoming family and i've been living with one of them for 3 years. Now Im about to straight up move again half way across the country with more people that I dont really know that well . I definitely have the balls to conquer the world, do scary things, drop everything and change my entire life. But I have 0 balls with girls...at least in this city.. They're all so...static...Theres no interesting girls worth going all out for. My hopeless romantic / chivalrous side is going insane. Truly haha
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25 / M / California
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Posted 6/14/15
Confidence, Respect, being yourself, and not really caring. But, the real chicks want a dude who's got their shit together and goals. Should focus on that first, yourself. They'll come along when you're too focused on your goals. Then, bam one day you'll score yourself a good one.

Flirting wise, pretty much the first sentence above and listen to her.
If she isn't worth the time, move on the next one.
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26 / M / Romania
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Posted 6/14/15
Well, I'm pretty much saying what everyone else is saying and what worked for me.

Look confident. Be honest, don't pretend you're someone you're not, instead be confident with who you are. Accept yourself before you want to be accepted by others. "Chicks" are people like you and me.. they have their own insecurities, no matter how perfect you see them. I saw many hot girls at my workplace and thought "I'll never talk to her" but now I can talk to them normally.

I haven't figured out dating yet, or flirting. I have a weird speech/body language thing that kinda works against me, but even so, in the right circumstances, I can seem confident enough.

Don't be desperate, you will suffer. Don't give up on your dreams and likes for a girl. Respect her and expect her to respect you too. A relationship is a two way thing. You are not her slave, she is not your trophy.

Hope this helps
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