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Posted 6/16/15
Anyone feels like they're easily emotionally attach to someone for no particular legit reason? I was introduced to this girl and we haven't even met, we exchanged pictures and and a few meaningful conversations but I prioritize this girl over the girls around me that I actually knew?

We probably won't even be able to meet until February of next year and I'm already making a big deal out of her...

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Posted 6/16/15 , edited 1/1/16
That sounds more like infatuation/a crush, honestly.
But its normal. Don't worry about it.
Posted 6/16/15 , edited 6/17/15
There is nothing wrong with that. You are gaining feelings for her. Keep it up, I'm sure she will get feelings for you ( if she doesn't already have them), and you will be happy
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Posted 6/16/15 , edited 6/17/15
Pretty simple, you just dig that chick even more then the others. Nothing wrong with that, plus you're a little excited. Only thing I have to say is, don't paint her as a goddess in your head. Because right now all it is over net/phone/etc. Worse thing you can do to yourself is build and build hype, then it doesn't work out. Just be careful and smart is all.
Posted 6/16/15
I got too easily emotionally attached to someone, and it just didn't end well for me. Sometimes it turns out good, but it can also turn out bad. Never again will I leave my emotions unguarded like that though.
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Posted 6/17/15

Krazylegz26 wrote:

Pretty simple, you just dig that chick even more then the others. Nothing wrong with that, plus you're a little excited. Only thing I have to say is, don't paint her as a goddess in your head. Because right now all it is over net/phone/etc. Worse thing you can do to yourself is build and build hype, then it doesn't work out. Just be careful and smart is all.


Thank you sir, I shall heed your advice. I'm such a sucker for girls really...
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Posted 6/17/15

kogamii wrote:

I got too easily emotionally attached to someone, and it just didn't end well for me. Sometimes it turns out good, but it can also turn out bad. Never again will I leave my emotions unguarded like that though.


I've been there too bro, got totally wrecked in the end. Exactly why I'm posting this for advice...
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Posted 6/17/15

Pimmpachuu wrote:


Krazylegz26 wrote:

Pretty simple, you just dig that chick even more then the others. Nothing wrong with that, plus you're a little excited. Only thing I have to say is, don't paint her as a goddess in your head. Because right now all it is over net/phone/etc. Worse thing you can do to yourself is build and build hype, then it doesn't work out. Just be careful and smart is all.


Thank you sir, I shall heed your advice. I'm such a sucker for girls really...


No problem dude. Chicks are my kryptonite too. Just sometimes you live and learn, get experience and such.
Posted 6/17/15
Just keep your head on.

Don't let irrational thoughts stop you from rational action...

You may keep falling for her. I hope she likes you too :')
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Posted 6/17/15
Let me take a picture. It's easier than describing.

Awww looks like my computer's webcam broke. Ehehehe
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Posted 6/17/15 , edited 6/17/15
Because you still don't really know her, your mind is filling in the blanks with only positive expectations. You are excited over getting a Christmas present -- but you might find out that the present is a crappy sweater ... :)

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Posted 6/17/15 , edited 6/18/15
I feel like I have a deep emotional bond with Hank Hill from King of the Hill even though he isn't real. Because of this I feel like I have an unnatural love for propane and propane accessories.
Posted 6/17/15 , edited 6/17/15

buyam wrote:

I feel like I have a deep emotional bond with Hank Hill from King of the Hill even though he isn't real. Because of this I feel like I have an unnatural love for propane and propane accessories.


Wow I lol'd.
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Posted 6/17/15
As lame as this sounds I am easily attached to kitties. I took in my sister's kitties and one has behavioral issues. I like kitties... it is stranger even if they do not like me.
Posted 6/17/15
If you're getting emotionally attached then you're expecting something out of this.
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