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Posted 6/17/15 , edited 6/17/15

Pimmpachuu wrote:

Anyone feels like they're easily emotionally attach to someone for no particular legit reason? I was introduced to this girl and we haven't even met, we exchanged pictures and and a few meaningful conversations but I prioritize this girl over the girls around me that I actually knew?

We probably won't even be able to meet until February of next year and I'm already making a big deal out of her...

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I'd be a little skeptical. Just keep your head in the right place. It all comes down to how much you think you know her, and how much of that isn't fake.
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Posted 6/17/15
Don't over think it. If you feel that chemical reaction, relish it! Enjoy those feelings..and good luck when you meet!
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In today's society too many men are raised to treat any woman with a strong emotional attachment without the time spent. So with girls, it's naturally there from an early age. Doesn't mean she was emotionally attached to you though. She might take way more time to attach to you.

The only thing I'm emotionally attached to is my dog, and a few friends whom I've know for more than a year. Even my family I'm less attached to. I'm more attached to people who listen to me, rather than parents who tell me they love me, but won't have the decency to remember opinions and to remember less about my likes than a fucking stranger.
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And in the end it turns out to be a dude, happeneds way too often

What I would like to say is that you should not exepect anything only try to make the best out of it (do not try to take away the thinking of her being better then normal/other girls so that atleast you meet with a happy encounter but do not get your hopes to high up and take it as it is, if you want her to be someone special to you do not take it as it is unless maybe a serious reason)
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Posted 6/17/15
idk are you? do you normally get attached to someone easily? or is this just a one time thing?


Mellowmi wrote:

If you're getting emotionally attached then you're expecting something out of this.


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Posted 6/17/15 , edited 6/17/15
I don't consider that a bad thing, keep up what you are doing and hopefully something good comes out of it. It might lead to you getting your heart broken a few times, but you can always bounce right back up.
Posted 6/17/15 , edited 6/17/15
There's nothing wrong at all with being or getting easily emotionally attached, so long as it's definitely with and towards the right person at the right time who knows how to deal and cope with it whenever it happens
Posted 6/17/15

Sogno- wrote:

idk are you? do you normally get attached to someone easily? or is this just a one time thing?


Mellowmi wrote:

If you're getting emotionally attached then you're expecting something out of this.




Emotional attachments are two way process.
Doesn't work if one person feels it and the other person doesn't.
It could be unintentional, but that's rare.
Usually you just lead yourself into it.
If you're gullible to your own feelings then it could be a rough ride.
I wouldn't blame a person for leading themselves into it; because it feels like a bliss sometimes.
Posted 6/17/15
Honestly I would say yes in this situation you are, but just from the information that you've given me. I wouldn't prioritize this girl a lot can happen in 7 months you never know.
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Emotions sure are troublesome... Glad I don't have these problems.

Doesn't sound like an attachment though. More along the lines of liking her/crushing or whatever you kids call that shit these days. Either way, no need to rush and keep your guard up. You wouldn't want your emotions to think for you.
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dotsforlife wrote:

Emotions sure are troublesome... Glad I don't have these problems.

Doesn't sound like an attachment though. More along the lines of liking her/crushing or whatever you kids call that shit these days. Either way, no need to rush and keep your guard up. You wouldn't want your emotions to think for you.


no emotions are you related to Spock?
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dotsforlife wrote:

Emotions sure are troublesome... Glad I don't have these problems.

Doesn't sound like an attachment though. More along the lines of liking her/crushing or whatever you kids call that shit these days. Either way, no need to rush and keep your guard up. You wouldn't want your emotions to think for you.


no emotions are you related to Spock?


I wish. Spock is one cool dude.
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Posted 6/17/15

dotsforlife wrote:


scoobydew wrote:


dotsforlife wrote:

Emotions sure are troublesome... Glad I don't have these problems.

Doesn't sound like an attachment though. More along the lines of liking her/crushing or whatever you kids call that shit these days. Either way, no need to rush and keep your guard up. You wouldn't want your emotions to think for you.


no emotions are you related to Spock?


I wish. Spock is one cool dude.


Spock is my hero- man perfect world would be fine ass Vulcan female no emotions and the whole mating ritual Good Times
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Posted 6/17/15
Not really, I struggle to get attached to anyone
Posted 6/17/15
Not really, no. It takes a very special kind of person to do something like that to me.
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