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Posted 6/17/15
I used to be a loner when I was a lot younger. Now that I've made friends and know what it's like to have emotional support, caring about others, and having fun with them; I get lonely easier. You could be occupied in a hobby to where you don't think about being alone(that's how I was a loner when I was younger I was concerned about watching anime more than making friends). I've gone back to being mostly a loner and it kind of hurts to be lonely now. Is it possible to cure loneliness without needing to make friends? I tried getting back to just watching anime but now I get bored of anime. I still like to watch it of course it's just sometimes I wish I could talk to someone during the episodes.
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The only true cure for loneliness in my eyes is love..
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It sounds like a knotty paradox.
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That's the paradox, isn't it? I was a loner, too. I made some friends, and now I notice when they aren't there. Just watching anime wouldn't do it for me. I want the interaction. Good or bad. Yes, I'm a cranky old guy. But I still like people's opinions.
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If you don't want to be bored or alone then get out of the house... Kids these days bring most of this shit on themselves by not being proactive enough. It's easy to get sucked into this kind of shit compared to say the times that us older folks grew up in. Back then we didn't have all this fancy tech shit easily at our fingertips.

If you don't want to feel lonely you need to figure out how to incorporate more social interaction into your life since what you're doing now clearly isn't working. Just my advice.
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Once you can enjoy your own company, you will never be alone again.
Posted 6/17/15
You can't cure what's not a disease so to speak. If your lonely accept it and move on and either wallow in it, or do something about it. There's nothing wrong with feeling lonely.Seems to me a lot of people just want to either ignore alot of there emotions or run away from it through some distraction both are good example of escapism,it's a natural feeling that comes and goes just learn to live with it and learn from it,
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No one saves us but ourselves. No one can and no one may. We ourselves must walk the path. -Buddha
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Posted 6/17/15 , edited 6/17/15
Go on a camping trip by yourself. Just get a small tent and go somewhere that you know is safe for a couple of days. It's really therapeutic.

Bring a bow, some arrows, and a few books to keep yourself entertained. Get a hatchet or a machete to cut sticks and wood for a fire. Get something to start a fire with. A cast iron pan greased with some fat, a box of eggs and some canned beef hash or SPAM for food. Maybe some fruit.

I used to to this in the humongous regional park near my house back when I wasn't allergic to sunlight.
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Posted 6/17/15 , edited 6/18/15

Captainkirko wrote:
Once you can enjoy your own company, you will never be alone again.

But only turn insane by so, yay!

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Posted 6/17/15
While I am a person who enjoys spending a lot of time by myself, I find that I still need to communicate with friends/other people and go outside. Humans are creatures that need company and love from others.

Loneliness is a feeling that everyone experiences. It's okay to be lonely at times, but don't let it bring you down a path of depression
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Posted 6/17/15
I can't relate. I've always been a loner.............................

But love yourself first.

People lifting you up is possible...

Adopt the mentality of being able to survive with... and without others.
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I don't think you can :p
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