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Social Awkwardness
Posted 6/20/15

streamhopper wrote:


severticas wrote:

Nah, i'm alpha. A wolf xD

put a girl in front of me and I'll turn to a blob of goo.


You're a bit old for that OP.. not checking out the youngins are yah? xD just kiddin


*laughs* I'm not dead yet. But I do have rules. Gotta be an adult (legally) - it reminds me of signs you see at carnivals "you must be this tall to ride". :)


If that's all that's making you decent then you're a dangerous man OP

lol jk
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Posted 6/20/15
Just dont be awkward.
Posted 6/20/15
Its okay dude you just gotta BEEEEE yourself
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Posted 6/23/15
I can talk to an individual with no problem. I'm getting better at being able to handle a small group. But if I'm in a group of about 10+ I just shut myself off because I don't know how to deal with it.
Posted 6/23/15
life situations made it impossible for me to ever find a cure for my anxiety and awkwardness. Not even constant exposure to people could ever help me feel relief from the awkwardness that I feel when i'm chatting with another person. It sounds like a lot of unhappiness, but people intimidate me, and seeing people chat constantly in public is one of the most irritating things I can see.

Saying all this, there's some social situations that I love .. especially when i'm with more than one person and we're at a cool setting. I don't actually have any friends though, so everything i think i've done to get me used to socializing just hasn't been for long enough.

Recently, i've become kinda obsessive when I get time alone too... Spending 12-13 hours a day reading through subjects or looking at photography, or mostly finding tonnes of music. When this is how I spend most of my days, it becomes a huge challenge to chat randomly and leave interests out of it cause i know it won't be a proper conversation.

I'm 1000x better than I was at talking though, but it still feels horrible to feel these kinda problems constantly.
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Posted 6/23/15
You need the right people
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Posted 6/23/15

scoobydew wrote:

alcohol is courage in bottle


i believe in that.. almost all my secrets when i was in college was out
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16 / M / U.A Highschool
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Posted 6/23/15
Yea Im socially akward...sacred to be up something that will even make it more awkward of uncomfortable but its think more of a face to face type of thing...
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19 / M / Seattle, WA
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Posted 6/23/15
I'm awkward in general whether it be with girls or boys. It all started when I lost all of my friends in highschool. I am no longer in highschool.
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Posted 6/23/15
I'll never overcome it
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21 / M / Utopia
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Posted 6/23/15
I can definitely related to the social awkwardness in many anime but sometimes they take it way too far. At some point, you have to realize that the person you are talking to is a human just like you. And if it is a girl, once I tell myself that she poops, fart, burp just like I do. It makes it easier to talk to them and not care about messing up or embarrassing yourself. I know its weird, but it works for me lol
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