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16 / F / Polaris
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Posted 6/21/15 , edited 6/21/15
How other people flirt:


"Yo, wassup bby gurl. Wanna chill out????


How I flirt:


"So do you like bread"


-------- Just kidding, thats me sometimes. Really rare but really im like

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Posted 6/21/15 , edited 6/30/15
Lets have a serious convo about bread. xDD hahaha...


...But srsly...... -Dead serious face- what kind of bread do you prefer? .........


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Posted 6/21/15
I have never asked anybody out. It just happens naturally! One day we'll be talking and then next thing we're kissing and then I'm like: "So we're dating aren't we?" Followed by "I guess so.."
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I'd be pretty embarrassed. I mean, I like girls, I just don't understand them. I'm a pile of goo in front of them. I seriously cannot talk.
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Posted 6/21/15 , edited 6/21/15
I don't really ask people out. I'm pretty oblivious around women, until the point where it's really obvious they're attracted to me. Although I have gotten the "why didn't you ever ask me out" by a couple of women 2-3 years later
Posted 6/21/15
I usually get asked out, so I really am not sure XD
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I have no idea, but I really like the bread at this one place. I'm pretty sure they make it fresh daily.
The cinnamon raisin bread in particular is quite good with BBQ.
Or toasted. Very good bread. They sell sandwiches too. Nice place.
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Posted 6/21/15 , edited 6/26/15
Just ask them in a way that's not too direct while being confident and not too uptight. It hasn't failed me yet. Then, again, I've only asked girls out a couple of times times. I don't do it much. 3/3 or 4/4 is still good, though.

I get the feeling that being extremely direct scares some girls, especially the shy ones. If you make a casual suggestion while being very friendly and seemingly carefree about it, most girls seem more likely to say yes. That's what I always do.
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25 / M / California
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Posted 6/21/15 , edited 6/21/15
A friend I came really close to dating, but we decided to stay really close friends. Said she fell for me after the 2 hour convo we had about bread........

I've never done the "will you go out with me?" line, I've just asked "if they want to grab a bite to eat?" Usually works for me.
As a guy, I will never solve the infinite mystery of women, but food seems to be their weak spot lol
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We're really socially awkward. aren't we? I know I am. I'd love nothing more than to be happy, but I thwart it every chance I get.
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Posted 6/21/15
To ask someone that's a stranger impossible for me. You need inside connection friend of a friend only way its like job interview they wont hire you unless something tips in your favor like oh your related to owner of company blah blah like that
Posted 6/21/15
Um. I've actually never asked anyone to go out with me before. It's usually the girl asking me.
If I were to ask then i'd say it straight "I like you; I feel like I want to get closer to you. But it's entirely up to you of course."
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Posted 6/21/15 , edited 6/21/15
Oh, and, yeah....don't ask complete strangers out of the blue. At least talk to them for a while first. Assure them that you're friendly and not dangerous without saying that straight up. You might be able to ask them out on the first day if you don't insinuate too much romantic stuff but keep a lively conversation going. Usually, you can tell if they are really enjoying the conversation. I'm guessing this is why alcohol is so helpful. People are just less inhibited and will be much more fun to talk to after a drink or two. Part of the mask crumbles away and the conversations also tend to be more genuine. I like that.

And if physical stuff happens before any asking out happens, the touch barrier is out of the way. That also helps a lot if you want to see them again and you're after a relationship, not a fling. Just make sure it doesn't sound to them that you're just using them. It's a good idea to go get food or coffee instead of going to another nightclub or bar the next time around.
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Posted 6/21/15 , edited 6/21/15
In HS I was nervous and tended to do just what was mentioned here "will you go out with me?", it kind of fell apart when she asked "where?". After that I learned. In college it was either "I was wondering if you'd maybe like to study together after class?" or "I was wondering if maybe you'd like to grab a coffee after class?". They usually broke the ice. After college if was more natural and I'd tend to visit a girl I'd like until she'd ask me to hang out after work or such. There was no real asking. The best was when a girl asked me to give her a ride home from wotk because her car was in the shop. A few minutes later I overheard her telling her dad on the phone that he didn't have to pick her up because she had a ride but would be home kind of late so don't worry. We had one or two dates after that and she took me home to have dinner with her parents and siblings where she introduced me as her boyfriend. I didn't have a clue we were officially going out but I was happy to hear it.
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Posted 6/21/15
Oh yeah, I've never done the cold call, just go up to some woman and ask her out.
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