Post Reply Looking For Friends (Desperate/Lonely)
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Posted 6/23/15
Okay I'm kind of desperate for friends at the moment... o.o I recently had a pretty crappy breakup with my girlfriend whom I met online after an 8 month relationship. We were really deeply in love, and I drove 13 hours straight to visit her a couple times for about 6-7 days each trip. I'm about to attend college after this summer, so I can't really live there with her. We broke up after a couple months of her kind of avoiding talking to me as much as I wanted, I'm not sure why though, when she seemed so happy to see me in our video calls and when I was with her irl. But anyways, we broke up recently and I'm not very much over it, I still love her like crazy, but she made it clear we are over with. Now I'm kind of friendless since my online friends were closer to her and stuck by her side after the breakup. I have a few friends I talk to but not as much as I like. So I'm hoping to find people that like to watch anime and are seeking friends as well.

Things about me: I'm an 18 year old male, I'm a slight bit socially awkward, I work at a Walmart, I like anime, I like to play some video games when I'm bored. I'm going to attend college and major in computer science and minor in mathematics. I like to call on skype and talk whenever anyone wants, I'm kinda home a lot more than I'd like to be... I don't mind video calling anyone, and I'm not into looks like most men are, I'm not the greatest looking either. I'd love to just have someone or maybe even a group to talk to whenever I'm feeling lonely like I am now. I'm a very open minded person and wouldn't mind trying some of your hobbies and interests.

Games I play: League of Legends, Hearthstone, Reign of Kings, Rust, Minecraft, Xbox One ocassionally, CSGO, and a few other games.

I've watched a lot of anime, but probably not near as many as some of you. My favorite genre is the romance ones.

I know this is like the longest most desperate post ever, but I hope you can look past that and hopefully I can meet some people that I can really connect with and stuff. Who know, maybe we live near each other and can meet up? I live in Kansas.

P.S. Please no negative comments D:
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Posted 6/23/15
We can be friends!
Posted 6/24/15
Seems like you are looking for a girl huh? Almost like a dating app bio. Try Tinder man
I hope you meet someone, I hope someone messages you, but this world is harsh so I'm not sure what will happen.

I'd say Tinder will give you what you possibly could be looking for. Maybe someone here will be friends with you? I know your exact feelings though so I understand this post.
Posted 6/24/15

helixphage wrote:

Okay I'm kind of desperate for friends at the moment... o.o I recently had a pretty crappy breakup with my girlfriend whom I met online after an 8 month relationship. We were really deeply in love, and I drove 13 hours straight to visit her a couple times for about 6-7 days each trip. I'm about to attend college after this summer, so I can't really live there with her. We broke up after a couple months of her kind of avoiding talking to me as much as I wanted, I'm not sure why though, when she seemed so happy to see me in our video calls and when I was with her irl. But anyways, we broke up recently and I'm not very much over it, I still love her like crazy, but she made it clear we are over with. Now I'm kind of friendless since my online friends were closer to her and stuck by her side after the breakup. I have a few friends I talk to but not as much as I like. So I'm hoping to find people that like to watch anime and are seeking friends as well.

Things about me: I'm an 18 year old male, I'm a slight bit socially awkward, I work at a Walmart, I like anime, I like to play some video games when I'm bored. I'm going to attend college and major in computer science and minor in mathematics. I like to call on skype and talk whenever anyone wants, I'm kinda home a lot more than I'd like to be... I don't mind video calling anyone, and I'm not into looks like most men are, I'm not the greatest looking either. I'd love to just have someone or maybe even a group to talk to whenever I'm feeling lonely like I am now. I'm a very open minded person and wouldn't mind trying some of your hobbies and interests.

Games I play: League of Legends, Hearthstone, Reign of Kings, Rust, Minecraft, Xbox One ocassionally, CSGO, and a few other games.

I've watched a lot of anime, but probably not near as many as some of you. My favorite genre is the romance ones.

I know this is like the longest most desperate post ever, but I hope you can look past that and hopefully I can meet some people that I can really connect with and stuff. Who know, maybe we live near each other and can meet up? I live in Kansas.

P.S. Please no negative comments D:


Give me Skype and I'll drop you into the Cr Skype group.....

You're looking for a friend, so I can be your friend...

If you're looking for a girlfriend, not so soon.... I'll advise you to wait till these sad emotions die down, buddy...
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Posted 6/24/15
Okay cool, and I'm not looking for one right now. I'm just wanting friends for now haha. Sorry if it seems that way. I'll message my skype
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Posted 6/24/15
lol rekt
Posted 6/24/15
You haven't learnt to stand up yet.
Probably kind of harsh, but you're falling head over heels for something that's only been 8 months.
You need to take this on the chin, suck it up.

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Posted 6/24/15 , edited 6/24/15
I'd advise a couple of cases of beer over a couple of days and making sure you lock your phone and computer up so you can't call her. Guess I shouldn't tell you to get drunk, since you aren't 21, but fuck it.

I'm drunk, and don't give a shit.
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Posted 6/24/15
I'd recommend opening 20 cs go cases if you're sad. It really clears my mind, and my wallet.
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Posted 6/24/15 , edited 6/24/15
The stereotypical advice applies and really does wonders.

Delete facebook,
hit the gym,
lawyer up.


Or in your case, get offline. Stop doing things that remind you of the situation. Hitting the gym is the #1 most effective way of dealing with depression stemming from almost any factor including break ups! You'll feel better when your brain floods itself with endorphind, you'll also feel better in general from being more fit and you'll feel better because you look better. Finally lawyer up translates to, 'stop trying to initiate contact and also stop accepting any contact."


Another unlisted step, at least from my experience, is sex with lots of different people helps. Sex also releases a lot of endorphind and doing it with different people will keep your confidence up. But this is really optional. Don't pay too much attention to it if you don't feel it applies to your personality type or you are not emotionally ready for it.


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Posted 6/24/15
ill friend you if you send an invite. you can join my group, the Stoner Studies Club
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Posted 6/24/15
Thanks for the feedback guys. I agree that I need to suck it up and get over her. I have been considering a gym membership but I live about 15 miles out of town, but I have some of my own equipment I could use and go for runs and such. I already lost 60+ lbs since November but trying to get "ripped" sounds exciting haha
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Posted 6/24/15
Hey man, don't stress, you are still young. Enjoy your life, don't let the adventures on the path slow you down. They are motivation.
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