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What's With Boys Obsession With "Pure" Girls?
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Posted 6/30/15

Kira0309 wrote:


anzn wrote:


Kira0309 wrote:


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Agreed. I feel offended because some people are viewing those traits negatively.


People are dissing our existence.


i know right? I think this person just defined most of the women on this site! Lol

Unbelievable.........impossible.......i'm always right......how can this be.............


Oh come on, you must realize most of the girls on this site are introverts that are nerdy and never left their houses. Of course we are going to be pure cause we are sheltered and live on the Internet and use all are money for anime instead of body piercings and drugs....although I won't deny I live a very sad and lonely life, but WE DO EXIST!


Lies there are no girls on the internet
Posted 6/30/15

biscuitnote wrote:


teallerina wrote:


biscuitnote wrote:

It sounds like you have a strong dislike for people who have different tastes than you.


Nope. More of the fact that what they want is far more often than not a carefully constructed, and highly fake image. So many of these guys who watch anime want their little loli and moe women in real life - it doesn't work like that.



I agree real people are more complicated than cartoon characters. However are they really hurting anyone if they buy a pillow of there favorite gal or toys I don't see how they are or why its wrong.

They're just hurting everyone by putting up these fantasies onto real people.
And we all know, anime girls aren't real people.
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anzn wrote:

Pure, as in they're usually:
- Innocent
- Young
- Virgin
- No body modifications/mutilations whatsoever (like piercings, tattoos, etc)
- Pale skin
- Naive

Idk about you guys, but "Pure" girls sound so boring. (also unlikely)


I like all these traits, and I don't find them boring at all. Not obsessed with them though, but I don't mind if a girl is not, innocent, young, virgin, no mods, pale, or naive. It's all good in my book lol.

- Innocent
- Young
- Virgin
- No body modifications/mutilations whatsoever (like piercings, tattoos, etc)
- Pale skin (Don't have pale skin cuz I'm born light tan)
- Naive (kinda)

These are my traits, I can't hate them, or find them boring, if I do I hate myself and I find myself boring. I think someone is boring when they are not fun to be around. These traits don't define whether someone is boring or not, I think that has to do with a persons personality.


Maybe the truth is, Otaku looking for other Otaku?
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Posted 6/30/15

anzn wrote:


DanteVSTheWorld wrote:


anzn wrote:


DanteVSTheWorld wrote:


anzn wrote:

Being with many partners doesn't mean that they also been with several of those at one time.
It just means they're experienced prolly


No but if someone is going from one relationship to the next, its a good indicator that something is wrong. Also 'being experienced' just seems like a sugar coated way to say trashy. Anyone can be experienced or kinky, it depends how fun and open you are, you don't need to sleep around to find that out.

Girls aren't doing that anyway :/ You're taking it literally. Which probably applies only to actual sluts.
Girls don't have to be "pure" to not be seen as a slut either. It's not black & white like that.


Uhh some girls do sleep around, what you talking about 'they don't do that anyway :/' lol? Also it's not black and white but it's still a safe bet, most would rather be with someone who's had a few serious relationships or less, than someone who's been with over 10 people.

I'm talking about the sluts. And you're literally just talking about sluts.
10 is nothing. Especially if you live in a big city like I do. Being with over 10 people doesn't mean they sleep around. And not being with over 10 people means they're a safe bet either tbh.


You think 10 partners is nothing but it's a deal breaker for me.
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I like girls for who they are. There are very few traits I don't like on girls. One who sleeps around a lot (my dear friend got an STD from that, yay University!). Tattoos are just kinda meh and look even more meh in the future. Other than that they need to be decently fit. Other than that I really don't care.

Hair the color of the rainbow? Fine by me.
Innocent? Fine by me: Twisted? Just as fun.
Virgin? Really don't care either way.
Skin color? Tend to like lighter, but if your darker, still don't care too much.
Naïve? That is just no fun. I like having college+ debates with my friends. Naïve would kill that.

I know quite a few people from the US, Germany, UK and Scandinavian countries who agree with me on this. Had this discussion before.
I would say that your idea that all men like this is rather... unique? This is actually the first time I have heard this certain stereotype.
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DanteVSTheWorld wrote:


anzn wrote:


DanteVSTheWorld wrote:


anzn wrote:


DanteVSTheWorld wrote:


anzn wrote:

Being with many partners doesn't mean that they also been with several of those at one time.
It just means they're experienced prolly


No but if someone is going from one relationship to the next, its a good indicator that something is wrong. Also 'being experienced' just seems like a sugar coated way to say trashy. Anyone can be experienced or kinky, it depends how fun and open you are, you don't need to sleep around to find that out.

Girls aren't doing that anyway :/ You're taking it literally. Which probably applies only to actual sluts.
Girls don't have to be "pure" to not be seen as a slut either. It's not black & white like that.


Uhh some girls do sleep around, what you talking about 'they don't do that anyway :/' lol? Also it's not black and white but it's still a safe bet, most would rather be with someone who's had a few serious relationships or less, than someone who's been with over 10 people.

I'm talking about the sluts. And you're literally just talking about sluts.
10 is nothing. Especially if you live in a big city like I do. Being with over 10 people doesn't mean they sleep around. And not being with over 10 people means they're a safe bet either tbh.


You think 10 partners is nothing but it's a deal breaker for me.


Totally agree. Though, I am married now. My wife has been with exactly 5 people, including me and her first husband. She's 29.

Where I am from, you sleep with one per year (or more) from 18-30, and it is very frowned upon, and usually likely to make it harder for you to get a serious partner. Not saying it doesn't happen, I knew a girl who was only 18 and had been with 17 guys already. To me, that is repugnant.
Unfortunately, people are likely to be dishonest when telling you who/how many people they have been with... because all people are young and stupid at one point in their life.

You may think I hold oppressive views on sexuality. Let me explain the way I look at it.

I view my sexuality, and that of women as well, as a very private and valuable thing. When I share that with someone, I want it to hold value to myself AND my partner. The more people you sleep with, the less value it holds... to yourself, and to others. That's how I view it.

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anzn wrote:

Pure, as in they're usually:
- Innocent
- Young
- Virgin
- No body modifications/mutilations whatsoever (like piercings, tattoos, etc)
- Pale skin
- Naive

Idk about you guys, but "Pure" girls sound so boring. (also unlikely)


Innocent? Well, I'd rather not hang around crimes in general, so I'd rather not a criminal.
Age is important to me, at least in the beginning, but people age and that is perfectly fine.
Virginity doesn't matter to me, though I'd really rather avoid diseases. Wouldn't be a concern in most cases, though.
I don't have a problem with piercings or tattoos.
I don't particularly favor any skin tone.
Naïveté has its positive and negative points.

Pretty negative thing to say about a group of people, don't you think? If I were a "pure girl," my feelings would be at least a little hurt.
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Posted 6/30/15 , edited 6/30/15

DanteVSTheWorld wrote:


anzn wrote:


DanteVSTheWorld wrote:


anzn wrote:


DanteVSTheWorld wrote:


anzn wrote:

Being with many partners doesn't mean that they also been with several of those at one time.
It just means they're experienced prolly


No but if someone is going from one relationship to the next, its a good indicator that something is wrong. Also 'being experienced' just seems like a sugar coated way to say trashy. Anyone can be experienced or kinky, it depends how fun and open you are, you don't need to sleep around to find that out.

Girls aren't doing that anyway :/ You're taking it literally. Which probably applies only to actual sluts.
Girls don't have to be "pure" to not be seen as a slut either. It's not black & white like that.


Uhh some girls do sleep around, what you talking about 'they don't do that anyway :/' lol? Also it's not black and white but it's still a safe bet, most would rather be with someone who's had a few serious relationships or less, than someone who's been with over 10 people.

I'm talking about the sluts. And you're literally just talking about sluts.
10 is nothing. Especially if you live in a big city like I do. Being with over 10 people doesn't mean they sleep around. And not being with over 10 people means they're a safe bet either tbh.


You think 10 partners is nothing but it's a deal breaker for me.


I think I'ma have to agree with Dante here
Posted 6/30/15 , edited 6/30/15

DanteVSTheWorld wrote:
You think 10 partners is nothing but it's a deal breaker for me.

How?
Especially from the age group you're in, you would probably expect girls to have 10 partners by now. (Ages 15-25.)
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That definition of pure girl is not accurate imo. Skin color? Virgin? Hair color?
That doesn't matter.
Men have different physical standards.

A pure girl must be hot (attractive), cute, kind, and above all
feminine.
In other words Onodera.

Onodera is love. Onodera is life.

Posted 6/30/15

Schmooples wrote:


anzn wrote:

Pure, as in they're usually:
- Innocent
- Young
- Virgin
- No body modifications/mutilations whatsoever (like piercings, tattoos, etc)
- Pale skin
- Naive

Idk about you guys, but "Pure" girls sound so boring. (also unlikely)


Innocent? Well, I'd rather not hang around crimes in general, so I'd rather not a criminal.
Age is important to me, at least in the beginning, but people age and that is perfectly fine.
Virginity doesn't matter to me, though I'd really rather avoid diseases. Wouldn't be a concern in most cases, though.
I don't have a problem with piercings or tattoos.
I don't particularly favor any skin tone.
Naïveté has its positive and negative points.

Pretty negative thing to say about a group of people, don't you think? If I were a "pure girl," my feelings would be at least a little hurt.

These pure girls don't exist (or just barely).
I listed that stuff cuz from my experience, that's what guys who like these type of girls associate them with.
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anzn wrote:


DanteVSTheWorld wrote:
You think 10 partners is nothing but it's a deal breaker for me.

How?
Especially from the age group you're in, you would probably expect girls to have 10 partners by now. (Ages 15-25.)

Where I am from....no, just no. 10+ partners at any age is frowned upon.

I explained how in my post.

That's how my culture views things. Sex has more value than pleasure for you or someone you hold a passing interest in. Clearly, your culture is not the same, and I'm not shocked that there are places where this is acceptable. I don't understand how you cannot understand that there are cultures that DO put more value in sex.
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anzn wrote:


Schmooples wrote:

Innocent? Well, I'd rather not hang around crimes in general, so I'd rather not a criminal.
Age is important to me, at least in the beginning, but people age and that is perfectly fine.
Virginity doesn't matter to me, though I'd really rather avoid diseases. Wouldn't be a concern in most cases, though.
I don't have a problem with piercings or tattoos.
I don't particularly favor any skin tone.
Naïveté has its positive and negative points.

Pretty negative thing to say about a group of people, don't you think? If I were a "pure girl," my feelings would be at least a little hurt.

These pure girls don't exist (or just barely).
I listed that stuff cuz from my experience, that's what guys who like these type of girls associate them with.


If you scratch the part about innocence (since I don't fully understand/don't consider innocence a thing outside of legal contexts) I've met quite a lot of girls like that. Like, tons.
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Super boring yawnzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz the only boys who want that cause girl might have less experience then him
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HolyDrumstick wrote:

Where I am from....no, just no. 10+ partners at any age is frowned upon.

I explained how in my post.

That's how my culture views things. Sex has more value than pleasure for you or someone you hold a passing interest in. Clearly, your culture is not the same, and I'm not shocked that there are places where this is acceptable. I don't understand how you cannot understand that there are cultures that DO put more value in sex.


What is your culture, out of curiosity?
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