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Girls Obsession With "Bad" Boys?
Posted 6/30/15 , edited 6/30/15
Since I made a thread about boys liking pure girls, I'll make a thread for girls liking bad boys.

These guys seem to usually:
- Have tan skin
- Asshole-ish attitudes
- Confidence
- Masculine
- Indifferent
- Older

These kinda guys seem like it'd just be exciting & thrilling to be around.
I personally find them attractive (to some extent).

Edit:
Tbh maybe something like "Rebellious" is a better way to describe what i'm talking about.


Edit 2:
I thought awune's description fits more with the actual bad boy type with what she listed so I'm gonna post this as well. Just for a better understanding I guess. (Since I'm bad with describing things/people honestly.)


awune wrote:
- self expresses a lot through clothing, speech, etc
- loves adventuring, trying new things, isn't afraid to do crazy shit for fun
- has really beautiful and interesting hobbies that aren't exactly mainstream or generic
- lives for himself, is a free spirit
- little to no respect for people in places of authority
- in touch with emotions, not afraid to express them or the beauty in things
- not school inclined (not stupid, just doesn't enjoy school at all and may or may not skip a lot), may not have a lot of money, may or may not have piercings/tattoos

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Posted 6/30/15
Most of those traits don't make a guy a bad guy. Indifference isn't quite the right word but it's better than obsession.
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Posted 6/30/15 , edited 7/2/15
Meh. Im scared this thread will attract billions of "nice guy" types.
Posted 6/30/15 , edited 6/30/15

slfcmore wrote:

Most of those traits don't make a guy a bad guy. Indifference isn't quite the right word but it's better than obsession.

This is just some traits that happen to apply to the type. I mean, obviously, guys with those traits don't have to be bad.

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Meh. Im scared this thread will attract billions of "nice guy" types.

omg i can't believe I didn't think of that earlier.
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Posted 6/30/15
Those guys push all the right buttons Good luck catching one~
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Posted 6/30/15

anzn wrote:

Since I made a thread about boys liking pure girls, I'll make a thread for girls liking bad boys.

These guys seem to usually:
- Have tan skin
- Asshole-ish attitudes
- Confidence
- Masculine
- Indifferent
- Older

These kinda guys seem like it'd just be exciting & thrilling to be around.
I personally find them attractive (to some extent).


"Tan Skin" goes with bad?

On the list the only thing that strikes me as itself "bad" is "Asshole-ish." So, what attitudes and behaviors does that include?

I think I've had the luck to pretty much steer clear of assholes, but I kind of know why confidence and indifference are attractive. Folks who are confident in themselves and somewhat indifferent are unlikely to put me on some weird pedestal that doesn't suit me, and are unlikely to be clingy, leaving me free to be who I am.

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Posted 6/30/15 , edited 9/3/15
i'm a lesbian, but, i like the idea of "bad boys" because i get along with them. i like being friends with guys who are loud and rowdy and proud and self expressing. maybe not as much as the bad boy type, but more of the rebel type

in my mind i find traits of bad boys to be;
- self expresses a lot through clothing, speech, etc
- loves adventuring, trying new things, isn't afraid to do crazy shit for fun
- has really beautiful and interesting hobbies that aren't exactly mainstream or generic
- lives for himself, is a free spirit
- little to no respect for people in places of authority
- in touch with emotions, not afraid to express them or the beauty in things
- not school inclined (not stupid, just doesn't enjoy school at all and may or may not skip a lot), may not have a lot of money, may or may not have piercings/tattoos

these are traits of a "true bad" boy to me

the people i've met like this are some of the most beautiful and easiest to get along with

there's like a huge contrast between "asshole/moron" and "bad boy/rebel"
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Posted 6/30/15
I think it might be more like...

- Has a job
- Has experience with relationships
- Looks good

Sound about right?
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Posted 6/30/15
There is a difference between being a man and a moron who happens to have some traits of a man, but some girls don't find this out until they get screwed over. Or maybe they're both immature so attract each other. Also it's not 'girls have an obsession', it's not everyone. Some girls just like drama I guess, it gives them something to gossip about as they have no other hobbies.
Posted 6/30/15 , edited 6/30/15

awune wrote:

i'm a lesbian, but, i like the idea of "bad boys" because i get along with them. i like being friends with guys who are loud and rowdy and proud and self expressing. maybe not as much as the bad boy type, but more of the rebel type

in my mind i find traits of bad boys to be;
- self expresses a lot through clothing, speech, etc
- loves adventuring, trying new things, isn't afraid to do crazy shit for fun
- has really beautiful and interesting hobbies that aren't exactly mainstream or generic
- lives for himself, is a free spirit
- little to no respect for people in places of authority
- in touch with emotions, not afraid to express them or the beauty in things
- not school inclined (not stupid, just doesn't enjoy school at all and may or may not skip a lot), may not have a lot of money, may or may not have piercings/tattoos

these are traits of a "true bad" boy to me

the people i've met like this are some of the most beautiful and easiest to get along with

Yeah thats a true bad boy.
your idea of one is much more accurate & better than mine.
Do you mind me quoting this in the original post?
(i was trying to sort of be neutral(?) about it by not being so descriptive/specific just to match the other thread)


Kavalion wrote:

I think it might be more like...

- Has a job
- Has experience with relationships
- Looks good

Sound about right?

Lmao that too

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megahobbit wrote:

Meh. Im scared this thread will attract billions of "nice guy" types.


Yeah. We're scary. Booga-booga.


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Those guys push all the right buttons Good luck catching one~


Good luck finding one who doesn't turn out to be a self-absorbed abusive controlling misogynist, because he never really knew how to get into "the whole chick thing".
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awune wrote:

i'm a lesbian, but, i like the idea of "bad boys" because i get along with them. i like being friends with guys who are loud and rowdy and proud and self expressing. maybe not as much as the bad boy type, but more of the rebel type

in my mind i find traits of bad boys to be;
- self expresses a lot through clothing, speech, etc
- loves adventuring, trying new things, isn't afraid to do crazy shit for fun
- has really beautiful and interesting hobbies that aren't exactly mainstream or generic
- lives for himself, is a free spirit
- little to no respect for people in places of authority
- in touch with emotions, not afraid to express them or the beauty in things
- not school inclined (not stupid, just doesn't enjoy school at all and may or may not skip a lot), may not have a lot of money, may or may not have piercings/tattoos

these are traits of a "true bad" boy to me

the people i've met like this are some of the most beautiful and easiest to get along with

there's like a huge contrast between "asshole/moron" and "bad boy/rebel"


Welp, in your mind then I'm a "bad boy" I just viewed myself as a goofball...........
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Ejanss wrote:


megahobbit wrote:

Meh. Im scared this thread will attract billions of "nice guy" types.


Yeah. We're scary. Booga-booga.


Thats not what I meant.
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