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Girls Obsession With "Bad" Boys?
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26 / M / Chicago,IL
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Posted 6/30/15
I dunno. Wish i knew.
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23 / M / Abyss
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Man, minus a few things I fit the bad boy title to a T... that bothers me in all honesty. Only thing I don't do is get tattoos and I do listen to authority. Military family does that to you. Here I thought I was just a "fairly normal" guy...
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awune wrote:

i'm a lesbian, but, i like the idea of "bad boys" because i get along with them. i like being friends with guys who are loud and rowdy and proud and self expressing. maybe not as much as the bad boy type, but more of the rebel type

in my mind i find traits of bad boys to be;
- self expresses a lot through clothing, speech, etc
- loves adventuring, trying new things, isn't afraid to do crazy shit for fun
- has really beautiful and interesting hobbies that aren't exactly mainstream or generic
- lives for himself, is a free spirit
- little to no respect for people in places of authority
- in touch with emotions, not afraid to express them or the beauty in things
- not school inclined (not stupid, just doesn't enjoy school at all and may or may not skip a lot), may not have a lot of money, may or may not have piercings/tattoos

these are traits of a "true bad" boy to me

the people i've met like this are some of the most beautiful and easiest to get along with

there's like a huge contrast between "asshole/moron" and "bad boy/rebel"



I'm pretty sure this is the traits of your typical main character delinquent that gets superpowers and saves the world...

I sure as hell don't see many of your type of bad boys around.
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22 / M / South Carolina
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Posted 6/30/15 , edited 6/30/15
Any dude can be a bad boy, just depends on who the person is, all good boys aint good either
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I doubt all the ladies like guys who have an asshole-ish attitude, but rather guys who are confident are seen as assholes by the "nice guys." That's how I see a lot of the "bad boy" descriptions as. It seems that guys who can differentiate themselves from the others and is confident are seen as "bad boys", and are considered assholes by the "nice guys" who think being nice will get the girl they want.

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27 / M / Houma
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Posted 6/30/15
I don't know if I'm good or bad...

I am mostly polite, but I have a mean streak when pushed. While mostly reserved I am very very competitive and I will do what ever it takes in any role to win. That's always been a thing with me, if someone defeats or trash-talks me I will come back much stronger. Say something bad about me and I will either go out and make you deepthroat your foot by proving you wrong or by fixing my weakness.

I follow only efficient authority and only when their views align with my own. I will go out of my way to assist others, but I won't do what is expected of me unless I have a desire to do things myself.

I'm a very kind person, but I'm also a very selfish person. Actually, nevermind I'm good and I know it. (totally not arrogant)
Posted 6/30/15 , edited 6/30/15
Because bad boys are fun, exciting, is why.. they aren't dull usually. Not always the best though in the long run.
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Posted 6/30/15

LadyofAshes wrote:

Because bad boys are fun, exciting, is why.. they aren't dull usually. Not always the best though in the long run.


From what I've seen, girls who are into the whole "bad boy rebel" type are only interested in very explosive short term relationships (there are exceptions to that I should add).
Posted 6/30/15

MonologueWolf wrote:


LadyofAshes wrote:

Because bad boys are fun, exciting, is why.. they aren't dull usually. Not always the best though in the long run.


From what I've seen, girls who are into the whole "bad boy rebel" type are only interested in very explosive short term relationships (there are exceptions to that I should add).


I agree, but its more common in some places than in others, and in younger girls. I never really went through the phase myself, but I had friends who were into it.
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Posted 6/30/15

awune wrote:

i'm a lesbian, but, i like the idea of "bad boys" because i get along with them. i like being friends with guys who are loud and rowdy and proud and self expressing. maybe not as much as the bad boy type, but more of the rebel type

in my mind i find traits of bad boys to be;
- self expresses a lot through clothing, speech, etc
- loves adventuring, trying new things, isn't afraid to do crazy shit for fun
- has really beautiful and interesting hobbies that aren't exactly mainstream or generic
- lives for himself, is a free spirit
- little to no respect for people in places of authority
- in touch with emotions, not afraid to express them or the beauty in things
- not school inclined (not stupid, just doesn't enjoy school at all and may or may not skip a lot), may not have a lot of money, may or may not have piercings/tattoos

these are traits of a "true bad" boy to me

the people i've met like this are some of the most beautiful and easiest to get along with

there's like a huge contrast between "asshole/moron" and "bad boy/rebel"


That really sounds more like a Hippie to me, not a bad boy.
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LadyofAshes wrote:

Because bad boys are fun, exciting, is why.. they aren't dull usually. Not always the best though in the long run.


lol no, keeping a girl on edge and playing mind games isn't fun. Maybe to a younger girl who's also full of shit, they're not more fun/exciting at all. Only to a girl who's boring herself and needs to rely on someone else for activities as she has none other than staring at her phone.

Source: Sister.
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Posted 6/30/15

awune wrote:
in my mind i find traits of bad boys to be;
- in touch with emotions, not afraid to express them or the beauty in things


Actually, in my experience it is much the opposite. Very weird.
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DanteVSTheWorld wrote:
lol no, keeping a girl on edge and playing mind games isn't fun. Maybe to a younger girl who's also full of shit, they're not more fun/exciting at all. Only to a girl who's boring herself and needs to rely on someone else for activities as she has none other than staring at her phone.

Source: Sister.


Ahhhh.... sisters... my source of wisdom in all things "girl" also.

cheers!
Posted 6/30/15

DanteVSTheWorld wrote:


LadyofAshes wrote:

Because bad boys are fun, exciting, is why.. they aren't dull usually. Not always the best though in the long run.


lol no, keeping a girl on edge and playing mind games isn't fun. Maybe to a younger girl who's also full of shit, they're not more fun/exciting at all. Only to a girl who's boring herself and needs to rely on someone else for activities as she has none other than staring at her phone.

Source: Sister.


I'm not that girl, but some girls are into that. But I don't care because it really doesn't concern me. For whatever reason, maybe they just need a thrill
Posted 6/30/15
I know they're no good for me, but it's the risk I take for the chemistry

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