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Having More Male Friends or Having More Female Friends?
Posted 7/1/15 , edited 9/1/15
I would want more female friends. I'm really lacking them.
To stay in touch with the feminine part of myself (lmao idk how to describe it) I feel I should really get more female friends.

I really would like an equal amount of both, but so far, I have just really one female friend I talk to regularly compared to like the 5 male friends I talk to regularly.

With my guy friends, we always have the same interests, sense of humor, and similar views, which is probably why I get along with a lot of them pretty well.
With my girl friends, we have at least the same kinda interests & maybe views. But we're more likely to fight most likely due to me not understanding their feelings or something.

I was always sorta hesitant about even going up & talking to girls. I've been told I seem too blunt & insensitive, sometimes apathetic as well. So that's prolly why I probably end up sorta scaring girls away from me.

Anyway, which ones do you prefer to have more of, which ones do you get along with easier and which ones do you want more of?
(Assuming you're not happy with the amount of friends you have now)
Posted 7/1/15
Any friends are nice, I'm not picky.
Guys are easier to get along with in general. Been a while since I've actually made new friends though.
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Posted 7/1/15 , edited 7/2/15
Seems to me that alot of females do not have such a large amount of same sex friends like males do. Or as many long lasting friends.
But having said that i dont think many males want to be just friends with a girl. But if its a tomboy girl, like into games n stuff then probably they would be more inclined.
Iam not saying that females have lots of male friends but just seems women turn on each other more or dont really have like a crew or anything alot of the time?
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Posted 7/1/15 , edited 7/1/15
I find it easier to speak openly and freely in front of my female friends. I love my guy friends, too, but some of them will try to argue with me before hearing everything that I have to say and they occasionally try way too hard to be "manly". Being drunk usually solves this problem but I don't want to be drunk all the time. Still, I know they have my back when I'm in trouble. I just find it easier to have level-headed discussions with my female friends. My male friends tend to get heated up. I don't know if this is normal or because I'm just more soft-spoken. I don't speak as much as most, but when I do, I need people to listen. I'm also a good listener myself and the girls seem to like talking more.

I have noticeably more female friends than male friends. But I find it easier to entrust my few male friends with greater burdens. My female friends tend to be funner to hang out with when we're doing everyday ordinary stuff like eating, cooking, studying, shopping, or the like. But when it comes to things like long fishing trips, getting out of the city for a few days, going to museums, etc., I take my male friends. They just seem to understand me more even if they aren't always willing to talk as openly and sometimes get abrasive.

I wouldn't mind more friends and don't care if they're male or female. It's really nice to have a big circle of people who like you so that you're never bored on the weekends. And if I feel like being alone, they all understand because they know that part of me.
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Posted 7/1/15 , edited 7/1/15
well, i guess i have a decent amount of friends in general mixed with guys and girls :shrugs: i think both guys and girls are fun to hang out with.I guess its bcuz my friends and i have known each other for quite some time to be past the whole not used to each other thing. It's really fun to have a small circle of people who you care about and vice versa ^~^
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Posted 7/1/15
I don't really know how you get more friends of one particular sex or the other... just kinda happens I guess. I have more male friends than female, but that's only because I share more hobbies with my male friends than I do my female. I have a pretty even split of nerdy and non-nerdy female friends, I think.
Posted 7/1/15 , edited 7/2/15
I can get along with either one. The only time it's frustrating with a girl, is if were interested in the same guy, then it get's complicated. Other than that, I dun care.
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Posted 7/1/15

anzn wrote:

I would want more female friends. I'm really lacking them.
To stay in touch with the feminine part of myself (lmao idk how to describe it) I feel I should really get more female friends.
I really would like an equal amount of both, but so far, I have just really one female friend I talk to regularly compared to like the 5 male friends I talk to regularly.

With my guy friends, we always have the same interests, sense of humor, and similar views, which is probably why I get along with a lot of them pretty well.
With my girl friends, we have at least the same kinda interests & maybe views. But we're more likely to fight.
I was always sorta hesitant about even going up & talking to girls. I've been told I seem too blunt & insensitive, sometimes apathetic as well. So that's prolly why I probably end up sorta scaring girls away from me.
Anyway, which ones do you prefer to have more of, which ones do you get along with easier and which ones do you want more of? (Assuming you're not happy with the amount of friends you have now)


I mostly have friends who are guys irl, but for some weird reason, I always have more friends who are girls on the internet. Idk why, but my internet friendships go better with females and my real life friendships are better with guys. Maybe it's just easier to talk to one gender depending on the circumstances? I really don't know.

Weird, huh?
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Posted 7/1/15
I'm fine with both, but my case I have mostly guy friends kinda like your example since we have the same interests.
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Posted 7/1/15
Too be honest I would like new friends the ones I have now are just jerks too me and I only have one female friend and she seems nice but I dont really care if its Male or Female I just want new friends that are nice
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22 / M / Canada
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Posted 7/2/15
I like having a balance, an equal number of both genders, but it doesn't REALLY matter because a friend is a friend before they are a male friend or a female friend. As it stands I have more male friends than female, but I'm not overly bothered by it.
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Posted 7/2/15
I tend to have more female friends than I do male. Growing up I did not have any good male role-models, therefore I am more comfortable around females. I’m not opposed to males by any means, it just takes me longer to open up to them.
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21 / F / Arizona, US
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Posted 7/2/15
I have a lot more female friends than male friends, because females tend to be more open and sensitive. I guess I would have to get more guy friends, because I lack people who like the same stuff that I do.
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Posted 7/2/15 , edited 7/2/15
i like games and football and cricket and anime and drinking n hip hop and playing pool, etc hence why i have mostly male friends. Cant say iam big on cars and fishing and fighting and camping and alot of other more commonly male hobbies but yeah..
I've never really hung out with females as just friends unless you count other peoples girlfriends at gatherings and parties or on line gaming or something.
I do like hanging out with my sister though. We sometimes go to the football toghter, concerts, occasionally to the movies or dinner or something, an anime convention once. Not sure if that counts?
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Posted 7/2/15
I have roughly the same amount of male and female friends. Basically my rule is that if I can have a beer with you, you're probably good in my books.
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