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Posted 7/2/15

Chaquieor wrote:

I see it in a more practical sense.

Sex = To have children.

Have sex with the person you want to have children with...

Who I assume, for most of you, is going to be the person you're in love with....

I can't have sex with someone I don't love.




Im sorry but if that was the way all men thought we would have a much greater society.
Because how can you answer to millions of men who have kids but use protection with their mistresses?
Your statement almost sounds like a excuse for a affair.
Posted 7/2/15

screendoor wrote:


Chaquieor wrote:

I see it in a more practical sense.

Sex = To have children.

Have sex with the person you want to have children with...

Who I assume, for most of you, is going to be the person you're in love with....

I can't have sex with someone I don't love.




Im sorry but if that was the way all men thought we would have a much greater society.
Because how can you answer to millions of men who have kids but use protection with their mistresses?
Your statement almost sounds like a excuse for a affair.


You took it out of context though.

Those millions of men who have kids but use protection with their mistresses...

They aren't doing one night stands.

I was referring to one night stands.
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As long as both you, your partner and your one night stander is fine with it (assuming you have one) because it's nobody else's business.
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One night stands are a nice break to have when between relationships and what not. As long as its between two consenting adults I see no issues with it, but then again I also enjoy having sex, so I mean I might be bias in that.
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Each to their own really, if its something both parties are fine with then go for it.
Posted 7/2/15
Standing for a whole night doesn't sound like a whole lot of fun.
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They're not for me, but I don't think they're inherently bad or good. It depends on the circumstances of each person getting into a one night stand. Two people just wanting to have NSA sex? Nothing wrong with that. If someone is in a relationship with someone and is going behind their back, then that's simply wrong in my book.
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I don't know the definition of one night stand but if someone wants causal sex without the emotion, and they are responsible in protection and common decency, then enjoy ~ male or female, just enjoy your life while making the right choices for common human decency and for your own safety as well
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Love the one your with. I don't care one iota but I do suggest you practice safe sex.
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Had quite a few in my life time so far, but have started to avoid them.

They were fun and I met alot of cool people through them and also discovered alot about myself sexually.

I think they are all fine and dandy so long as both parties know its just sex and nothing more.
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Posted 7/2/15
Good or bad depends on how the beer goggles where that night.
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haikinka wrote:

Standing for a whole night doesn't sound like a whole lot of fun.

lmao
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Posted 7/2/15
I'm not going to say if it's bad or good. Because it's neither. I wouldn't do it personally though.
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And this is why I drink alone.

With nobody else.

https://youtu.be/lpzqQst-Sg8

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I feel like if the two (or more) individuals have a mutual understanding/agreement on their safety and TEMPORARY relationship, go ahead. Fun is fun, it's not like you're hurting anyone. And coming from a person that has been devoid of sex for 20 years now, I wouldn't shame anyone who just wanted to get "down" for only one night. Their life isn't mine, so why judge them? Do what you want, but safely of course.
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