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Posted 7/2/15
Based on personal experience (which, I'll admit was over 10 years ago at this point), I'd say not so good. It may feel good at the time, but it's cheap and fleeting.
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Never had sex so I would not know if its either of them.
I would say doing something like this now could give me a better understanding.

If you do like mdmrn did (I believe you talked about hores) then maybe it could be a worse way of doing it?
I think maybe P-Stars would do great in this area with eachother how they setup, do, act, doing things.
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Posted 7/2/15

Freddy96NO wrote:

Never had sex so I would not know if its either of them.
I would say doing something like this now could give me a better understanding.

If you do like mdmrn did (I believe you talked about hores) then maybe it could be a worse way of doing it?
I think maybe P-Stars would do great in this area with eachother how they setup, do, act, doing things.

Nope, not whores. The main story of mine was when I slept with a female friend...hooked up with her for a week soon after breaking up with my ex, it ended poorly, we stopped being friends altogether.
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Posted 7/2/15

mdmrn wrote:
The main story of mine was when I slept with a female friend...hooked up with her for a week soon after breaking up with my ex, it ended poorly, we stopped being friends altogether.

Thats where I think P-stars would be better at or atleast got less to deal with.
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One night stand can be good, can be bad, depends on the circumstances.

That being said, the general opinion about it should be "let people be free and responsible", there is no laws against it in most countries because societies decided it wasn't bad.
Posted 7/2/15

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Thats where I think P-stars would be better at or atleast got less to deal with.


You mean just randomly find a pornstar to have sex with?
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Posted 7/2/15

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My on-topic: I think one-night stands are fine, but it can also be nice when one-night stands lead to occasional repeat casual sex encounters.

Nothing wrong with more serious relationships, but that's not always the right thing for everybody.


I've only had 1 that was like that, and I was drunk the first time too.

personally, I've done it. but I wasn't in a relationship. as a matter of fact, I just got out of a relationship and I just didn't care. and I didn't need to be drinking to have a one night stand. it got tiring for me doing one-night stands, and I stopped all together when I started talking to my current boyfriend.
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Eh, it's not for me but I don't care if others do it. I'm not going to think any less of someone unless they're taking advantage of the people they are fucking somehow.
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Sex should be held until marriage. I grew up surrounded by very liberal people and was brought into the culture of "if it feels good, do it". I can't tell you how damaging it is to think in that way. People who have one night stands hurt themselves in many different ways. They might not feel that way because they've become numbed to self destructive behavior. But it is self destructive and those who can learn to control their impulses and build self discipline will live more upright lives with less things to feel ashamed about in their future. If I had a kid, I would want him or her to save it for marriage. And that's because I know better and would love him or her. I love myself the same way and have the same expectations for myself. And so should you! We live in a broken culture where morality is becoming more and more subjective; "to each his/her own" kind of thing. That's why it's more important than ever to develop a strong moral code that you can stand by, try your best to live up to, and always use it to improve yourself and those around you despite the naysayers. Having said these things, we shouldn't condemn those who do have one night stands but rather try to help them in a productive way that they might learn the value in sexual restraint and self discipline.
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Posted 7/2/15
The older you are the more common it becomes the act can lead to more of a structured relationship or you can also become friends with an intimate secret and there is always no call back or communication period that is a little tough to take.
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Posted 7/2/15 , edited 7/2/15
So long as nothing bad happens I don't particularly care.
I don't think I'll be participating though.
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If the person is fine with it them suree, but as for me that's outta question . Sleeping with someone you ain't know , smh.
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I totally disagree with habit456. Everybody is different and there are those who are able to live healthy lives in that lifestyle. Morality is just a construct that individuals buy into and mold to suit their means. I say to each his own be happy and enjoy. If someone has a problem with your choices then to hell with them.
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I don't think it's a good idea in general, but as long as both parties are just interested in it for the sex then go for it. Just be smart about it. You wouldn't want to pay for it for 18 years simply for a single nights release.

Think with your brain, not your head.
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Save it for marriage wtf? does that even mean you better practice before you get married odds of monogamous relationship are already against you. Why does religion have to become a factor in your relationship make sure your compatible before getting married then it might last 50/50 chance
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