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Posted 7/3/15

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furytime wrote:

Yep and I already had trust issues. So good bye to trying to find a women. I'm done with all of that, I just can't trust anybody.


I guess Body Pillows won't really cheat on you, at least not against their will.


Haha yeah, I'm not sure if I can handle body pillows yet though.
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I've yet to be in a relationship, so I can say with certainty that no, I've not been cheated on so far.

What's interesting is that I know for a fact that I was conceived in what was, at the time, an extramarital affair. So I can't bring myself to condemn infidelity itself all too harshly. Of course I'm all too aware that it's easy for me to say having never had it happen to me and all.
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Posted 7/3/15 , edited 7/8/15
Trust. Takes years to build, seconds to destroy. With that said, I have zero tolerance for cheating.
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Posted 7/3/15 , edited 7/3/15

furytime wrote:


outerheaven139 wrote:


furytime wrote:

Yep and I already had trust issues. So good bye to trying to find a women. I'm done with all of that, I just can't trust anybody.


I guess Body Pillows won't really cheat on you, at least not against their will.


Haha yeah, I'm not sure if I can handle body pillows yet though.


Their eyes do get very judgy after months of dry cum stains all over them
Posted 7/3/15 , edited 9/23/15
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Posted 7/3/15 , edited 7/8/15

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I have by my first bf and I still don't know if it was true or not, anyway, it really screwed up my trust and now I seem pretty clingy in relationship so I don't bother with boys anymore lol


Lesbihonest here, girls also cheat, unless you gave up on both sexes, so all you have left is animals, good luck with that, animals aren't fans of monogamy


why u take shit so literal man....and every person has the right to be with no one or not
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Posted 7/3/15 , edited 7/8/15

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Yes, unfortunately by a girl I wasted 3 years of my life on.


Feel for you man, 3 years is a decent amount of time for people in their late teens/early 20's. 3 years was the length of my relationship as well. There are probably worse feelings in the world but i would prefer not to experience those ever again.



Thanks a lot. I couldn't agree more it really freaking sucks being let down by someone after investing so much time/effort.



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sXeLeo89 wrote:

Yes, unfortunately by a girl I wasted 3 years of my life on.


Shit man that must suck hard


Mhm it does, but not much I can do. Thank you though.
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Posted 7/3/15 , edited 7/8/15
Yes was with a girl for 2 years and a year later found she didn't cheat on me and used the excused to break us up just because she wanted me to be with someone better than her..... >.> thanks society there goes my trust for anyone xD
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I understand what you mean, I've been in heaps of relationships, I'm just looking for the "right one" so to speak
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why would anyone cheat on me

also yes
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Posted 7/3/15 , edited 7/3/15
Nope, thankfully.
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Posted 7/6/15 , edited 7/6/15

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I understand what you mean, I've been in heaps of relationships, I'm just looking for the "right one" so to speak


I wonder if there is some trick to meeting good people, x3;
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Posted 7/6/15 , edited 7/8/15
I haven't, but I've been the "other guy" before. To be fair, her "boyfriend" was also cheating on his own wife to be with her so it was the most complicated chain ever. We actually got along extremely well and she let me know the situation and that she wasn't very interested in him. She told me about how guilty she was for being with him and that I felt "right" and was a better person. For some reason, it didn't matter much to me at the time and it was partially my decision to keep seeing her. To make matters even more complex, she was my cousin (not related by blood) so we are technically family as well as childhood friends.

People sometimes do the dumbest and least understandable things, but I'm at the point where I don't care much about a person's history anymore.

It's been two years and I don't know how I extricated myself from the web, but I'm sure the long distance helped out once I came back to the US. Otherwise we probably would still be seeing each other. She plans to fly to the states to visit me this year, along with my other cousins. I'm not sure if she's still with the married guy but we are, surprisingly, still on very good terms. I came out of it with an appreciation for certain things as well as more experience, so there are actually some positives. I've been meaning to visit my hometown again, and also to catch up with her, but I've been so busy these last couple of years with school and all.

Now, this doesn't mean that I think cheating is a fine and dandy thing, but I'm no longer so quick to label a cheater as a spawn of the devil. It really is all about perspective and circumstances.

At the moment, relationships are the last thing on my mind. It seems that only girls in relationships are interested in me and pursue me, and I've done enough risky drunken stuff by now with strange, taken people to want to deal with any more. I'm just tired. I need to focus on school and get started on my career before I'm going to seriously consider dating again. And when I do, no more helping others cheat lol
Posted 7/6/15
I was involved in a weird love triangle once.

Never again.
Posted 7/6/15 , edited 7/8/15
Yeah sadly haha. I was also stupid because
every time i wanted to hang with my girlfriend
she'd tell me all the time she wasn't home
so we went to six flags and surprisingly the boy she was cheating with me on with
was also there , got into a huge fight but i kept my cool
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