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Post Reply Were or are you picked on in school or made fun off?
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Posted 7/5/15
Prettly badly in elementary school, less in middle school. By high school I had gotten pretty good at being invisible and most people ignored me entirely; I was okay with that.
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Posted 7/5/15
I was picked and teased because I was asian and cause im deaf in my left ear.
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Posted 7/6/15
I was bullied in Primary school because I didnt want to hang out with the girls group in my class, I knew they were mean
and gossipy , it was like, there was always gangs in the class, boys hung out with boys, and girls with girls .
Also because my interests were extremely different from theirs so I was classed as 'weird' . You were called a baby if you
liked pokemon and that etc so I kept to myself for the last few years in that school. I had one good friend but she moved
away unfortunately. On the upside I was never bullied in high school
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Posted 7/7/15
People pick/tease me because of my size, i'm really thin (due to a fast metabolism). Random people will just grab my arms or legs, say things like "you need to eat a cheese burger" or my favorite, "if you lived at my house, I would fatten you up right away"
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I don't really want to answer because it's really hard to decide. Yes I was picked on, but later on I then noticed that I have become the bully. Most of it started in elementary school and thank god I stopped. Yet, in middle school, I was more like... um... Kanye West. I would show off to others and try to act smart as if I was god. Thankfully when I got to High School I gotten more mature... somewhat, grades are average and I'm really lazy at times. But yea, that's my story.
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I was picked on all the way from grade school throughout high school. It certainly got a bit better once I stood up for myself a few times, and the main incident I have in mind didn't even involve me physically harming someone - it was just a matter of not backing down.

Everyone's story is slightly different, so how you deal with the bullying depends slightly on how you're being bullied. No one answer is going to solve every situation, however there are some general rules about how all bullies operate, the main one being that bullies pick on those that seem weak. Even standing up for yourself a single time can be the difference that causes a bully to move their efforts on to an easier victim. And while it's a terrible reason for needing to learn that lesson early, learning to not back down will prove to be a useful skill for the rest of your life.

The main thing to keep in mind is that being bullied doesn't make you any less of a person, and it certainly doesn't subtract from your worth as a human being, whether you're a girl or a guy. Even if you fail to stop the bullying, don't give up on yourself. There are lots of other people in the world that would love to be your friend, even if some assholes at school would have you think otherwise. For those of us that grew up with no internet or the bare beginnings of the internet, we didn't really have much of a choice as to who we called friends. :)

Best of luck to you!
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Posted 7/8/15
I was never picked on. I think it was because I wasn't super popular, but I wasn't unpopular either. Also the schools I went to were not really big schools, normally with about 600 students, as well as the fact that private schools tend to have strict rules,,, at least in England they do.
Posted 7/8/15
I got picked on for being a geek and liking games and comics, but over time it became easier and less of an issue for me. I think either they grew bored at my indifference when it became clear I didn't care and it wasn't fun anymore, that, or I'm just boring overall.
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Posted 7/8/15
In Elementary and Middle School, for sure. High School? Not so much.

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Posted 7/9/15
I got bullied a little bit in middle school, but now everyone is scared of me in high school
Posted 7/9/15
Got picked on , had my first fight

no one fucks with me now (: so i quietly watch my anime
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Posted 7/10/15

lolwhrstheanime wrote:

I was bullied when I was in elementary and it made me very depressed up until the end of 7th grade, I was and still am rather shy and never spoke up, but then I decided one day that I really do not care about anything anymore and then I became better. Well now I have about two friends and ignore the rest of the people at my school, but at least I am happy.


That is all you need one or two really good friends I was bullied in elementary and in 6th grade I had a short lived popler moment tell i choice my best friend over another one and after that the whole grade they tried to pick on me, the girl I broke up with witch was one of his friends I remember her beating the crap out of my back lol and him hiding away from me tossing insults only when he was with a group but got my best friend out of it then another one in 7th grade then we learned to fight back to stand up for people being bullied .
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Posted 7/10/15 , edited 7/10/15

Kazekan wrote:

I was picked on all the way from grade school throughout high school. It certainly got a bit better once I stood up for myself a few times, and the main incident I have in mind didn't even involve me physically harming someone - it was just a matter of not backing down.

Everyone's story is slightly different, so how you deal with the bullying depends slightly on how you're being bullied. No one answer is going to solve every situation, however there are some general rules about how all bullies operate, the main one being that bullies pick on those that seem weak. Even standing up for yourself a single time can be the difference that causes a bully to move their efforts on to an easier victim. And while it's a terrible reason for needing to learn that lesson early, learning to not back down will prove to be a useful skill for the rest of your life.

The main thing to keep in mind is that being bullied doesn't make you any less of a person, and it certainly doesn't subtract from your worth as a human being, whether you're a girl or a guy. Even if you fail to stop the bullying, don't give up on yourself. There are lots of other people in the world that would love to be your friend, even if some assholes at school would have you think otherwise. For those of us that grew up with no internet or the bare beginnings of the internet, we didn't really have much of a choice as to who we called friends. :)

Best of luck to you!


Vary intelligent and wise you are, I agree with all you say. Standing up once does work allot of the time like you said it makes it seem like your not the best and weakest mark any more to be picked on I mean in elementary school running to the bus everyday with kids chasing me one day I decided not to run they backed me into a corner and I fought back and they left me alone after that it gets a little hard in high school and when it came to being jumped its no longer the child like bulling but bordering on more cruel and violent but same thing still can work as you said. You are so right about not giving up and to learn that there is not something wrong with you, its not your fault I remember thinking allot of things when I was bullied but once I got bigger and stronger most or all of it stopped.
Posted 7/11/15
my school was like very safe, anime was also wildly accepted
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Posted 7/11/15
Sometimes. I'm sure they would be picking on me constantly if they knew more about me, but I'm good at being quiet. ^^
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