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Are mail order brides wrong
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Posted 7/10/15 , edited 7/10/15
Do you think male order brides is wrong, for men to go to different country's to find a wife when they can not find one at home?
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Posted 7/10/15
love conquers all
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Posted 7/10/15
As long as people are not forced into marriage, i dont really see a problem with it. I dont really believe anyone should get married without getting to know the other person well.
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Posted 7/10/15
If they're both respectful, and they get to move to a better situation (assume that's why they were mail order in the first place? whther for themselves or their families), I don't see anything wrong with it.
Posted 7/11/15
fake love is bad
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This is tricky because it depends on what you want a wife for and why you couldn't find one the "traditional" way. Generally speaking I can't come up with any great reason to obtain a bride this way but I would guess the men who do this are desperate for love and see it as an opportunity to find love with a stranger. In this case I wouldn't say it's wrong, I would however call it weird. But if a women uses this as a way to get into america then ending the marriage when she gets the chance, or if the man is abusive or something then it's wrong.
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32 / M / Michigan
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Posted 7/11/15
"Depends" is the obvious answer because what two consenting adults do is their own business. That said there are certainly bad circumstances for both parties like people basically being sold into sexual slavery or having citizenship held over their heads, or the buyer being scammed and abandoned as part of a plan, etc
Posted 7/11/15
To who?
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International marriage agencies amount to little more than matchmaking services, with the motivation for a person seeking their services either by offering themselves up to be listed or rifling through the list looking for partners being up to them. Where things start to go sour, however, is when people abuse these services to gain access to shortcuts through immigration channels, dumping their sponsors before the ink is even dry on their immigration papers. Even worse than that, however, is when partners begin to abuse (even going as far as to murder) their "mail order" partners. I'm all for keeping international marriage agencies legal, but both partners require significant legal protection to avoid things like this.
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Posted 7/19/15
I see nothing wrong with looking for the love of your life in different countries.
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