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Posted 7/17/15

wingopanda wrote:


SelfConsciousParadox wrote:

There are different forms of bullying whether it's Online or Offline they both have branches of types of bullying.

I tend to find the two worse type of Bullying is Alienation and Physical contact.
But under circumstances which would be worse?

Alienation is isolating people or a person in general from a group treating them differently from the others.

Physical Contact is abusing a person physically such as hurting them with intent.



Physical contact by far. "Alienation" is not a type of bullying. If you get "alienated" you deserve it.


That's pretty judgmental. All cases of alienation are deserved are they?
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papagolfwhiskey wrote:

That's pretty judgmental. All cases of alienation are deserved are they?


It's definitely a troll, don't bite that bait.
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PrinceJudar wrote:


papagolfwhiskey wrote:

That's pretty judgmental. All cases of alienation are deserved are they?


It's definitely a troll, don't bite that bait.


So. Alienate him?


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papagolfwhiskey wrote:

So. Alienate him?


Lmao, funny how quickly the tides may change.
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They both suck
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odaplaX wrote:

They both suck


Yeah they do
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Alienation is worse. Physical pain is only temporary. Emotional is not.
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Alienisation? xD

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Hm.

I would say something that is being forgotten is that humans are Social Creatures. I don't want to be social (or that is why my inner introvert says), but I still get lonely. Nothing will ever change that.

Physical pain really doesn't bother me. I have cuts, bruises, scars pretty much everywhere. Some from malign intent, some from me being an idiot (jumping off a waterfall is a good example... water was a bit shallower than expected). The emotional pain is where I really get hit hard. I mean to the point of suicide. I have lost acquaintances to emotional bullying and I nearly succeeded in offing myself in the as well. The nice thing is you can become accustomed and used to both physical and emotional pain. Humans are surprisingly supple. They can bend their way of thinking to cope.

I guess it can depend on the level of physical beating though. The worst I have had is a broken rib. If someone got curb stomped in the head.. they could enter a vegetative state. At that point you won't be sentient enough to really care, but a large burden will be placed on the family. Most kids my age don't have a living will either in case things like that happen. Pretty much everything under that bad can be fully healed with time though (minus the possible brain damage, but that is incredibly in the scenario of school I will assume we are talking about). The worst I can think of happening in schools commonly is just a after school jump/slug fest. At worse broken bones and self esteem.

Physical beating can also lead to emotional scars, though alienation is much more effective at that.

In the end it comes down to something simple I guess. What bothers you more, physical pain or emotional duress? To each their own!
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I think emotional and psychological bullying is almost worse than those two.
My tormenters used to grate at me emotionally and psychologically and that's stuck with me for a long time. Words can hurt more than physical pain or even alienation, but if I had to pick one out of these two put it into context now? Alienation. I hate being ignored like the plague.
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Differs from person to person. I'd be completely fine with alienation. I became numb to loneliness years ago.
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SelfConsciousParadox wrote:
I tend to find the two worse type of Bullying is Alienation and Physical contact.
But under circumstances which would be worse?


I always found alienation to be far more painful.

I could at least fight back against physical bullying.


Buckerss wrote:

Differs from person to person. I'd be completely fine with alienation. I became numb to loneliness years ago.


For me, bruises healed, the scars of alienation have never faded.
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Alienation, it can really get to a person mentally.
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